Quickies

[Justina123]

This afternoon Sir asked me to find a pause in my dinner preparations and come upstairs for five minutes. Upstairs, he instantly instructed me to strip and lay on my back, and within a few minutes he had fucked me and come. I then went back to work in the kithen.

The whole 5 t 10 minutes made me quite "hot", though I did not have any particular physical pleasure, and it just seemed so "right." But afterwards, I was thinking, "Boy, if my ex had ever treated me like that, it would have been a different story." In fact, my ex's lack of imagination and "wham bang" quickie sex style had a lot to do with our eventual divorce.

I find this to be rather interesting. Anyone else find that things or qualities you have found a turnoff in a vanilla partner, are a turn ON in your Dominant/submissive partner?

- justina

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Anyone else find that things or qualities you have found a turnoff in a vanilla partner, are a turn ON in your Dominant/submissive partner?

- justina

Pulling hair in the vanilla world gets you an "Ouch!"

Pulling hair with a submissive masochist gets you wailing, tears, and begging.

Any questions?

 

[fallon2]

The thing is

that subs "live" to please their Master.

Spouses don't necessarily "live" to please the other partner.

justina, just lay back and enjoy it! *weg*

 

[Netzach]

Deference to my wishes makes me annoyed sometimes in social circles....just fucking PICK, people....

but when my boy let's me pick or picks up things for me, or carries my crap it feels right, not overly solicitous.

 

[DustyWolfe]

This afternoon Sir asked me to find a pause in my dinner preparations and come upstairs for five minutes. Upstairs, he instantly instructed me to strip and lay on my back, and within a few minutes he had fucked me and come. I then went back to work in the kithen.

The whole 5 t 10 minutes made me quite "hot", though I did not have any particular physical pleasure, and it just seemed so "right." But afterwards, I was thinking, "Boy, if my ex had ever treated me like that, it would have been a different story." In fact, my ex's lack of imagination and "wham bang" quickie sex style had a lot to do with our eventual divorce.

I find this to be rather interesting. Anyone else find that things or qualities you have found a turnoff in a vanilla partner, are a turn ON in your Dominant/submissive partner?

- justina

Spontaneity in a relationship is a beautiful thing. The more spontaneous the better. The more creative the better. And of course the kinkier the better.

Someone telling me what to do in a vanilla relationship would piss me off. Being told what to do in a BDSM relationship is thrilling

 

[snowy ciara]

Er, yes as a matter of fact...

Take the face slapping thread. When my ex boyfriend did it, it pissed me right off and immediately fired up my ass kickin' hormones. Now if a person with whom I had a D/s ing relationship with tried it, it'd probably fire up my begging for a wild lay hormones. It seems to be a weird cross between context and intent.

 

[Evaleastaristev]

Think of it this way. In my past relationships, all of which were vanilla, anyone of my SO's telling me what to do would have been an immediate break-up. With Master, he tells me what to do and it's an atomatic "Yes Master" unless I feel that it would harm me in any way.

That's the biggest difference. It just makes sence ot me in a D/s relationship, where as in a vanilla relationship anything like this would cause me to completely flip out and want to kick the person's ass.

It's all in the dynamic, and the thing that makes it okay in the D/s world just doesn't exist in teh vamilla world.

 

[esclave_PP]

Mindset in a M/s relationship is different (duh lol) than a vanilla one. What might see outrageous in a vanilla relationship we deem as "normal" in a M/s relationship. As someone else said, lay back and enjoy!

 

[rosco rathbone]

This afternoon Sir asked me to find a pause in my dinner preparations and come upstairs for five minutes. Upstairs, he instantly instructed me to strip and lay on my back, and within a few minutes he had fucked me and come. I then went back to work in the kithen.


- justina

Yeah, this is my style all over.

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

About half the subs/slaves are jelouse...

And the Dom/mes Are mulling it over in their heads the right time to get their sub/slave...

 

[AngelicAssassin]

And the Dom/mes Are mulling it over in their heads the right time to get their sub/slave...

GONG!!!

Try whenever we damn well feel like it ... http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2003-8/363868/5squeeze.gif

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

Exactly...

 

[meatflower]

for me it comes down to the level of self awareness and personal power in the man.

a straight lover too fond of self centered quickies leaves me cold, bored and ready to move on. but in a relationship rich in power play, with a man very upfront about his needs, the sort of man who deserves respect, I'm more than happy to be used. it's not so much that the act is different- what differs is the conscious, balls out intent.

 

[rosco rathbone]

GONG!!!

Try whenever we damn well feel like it ... http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2003-8/363868/5squeeze.gif

Oh, I don't know. I always try to time it so that she feels turned on too, but I'm careful to always make sure it seems like I am sort of arbitrarily calling the shots, "master style", and all that....you know; so that everyone is happy. I hate it when the girlies aren't happy all the time.

giggle

 

[rosco rathbone]

a straight lover too fond of self centered quickies leaves me cold, bored and ready to move on. but in a relationship rich in power play, with a man very upfront about his needs, the sort of man who deserves respect, I'm more than happy to be used. it's not so much that the act is different- what differs is the conscious, balls out intent.

very well said, thinks i.

 

[WriterDom]

once you've had sweet sexy pet
You'll never go back to nilla, I bet

 

[bytor2112]

Re: Re: Quickies

Spontaneity in a relationship is a beautiful thing. The more spontaneous the better. The more creative the better. And of course the kinkier the better.

Someone telling me what to do in a vanilla relationship would piss me off. Being told what to do in a BDSM relationship is thrilling

and therein lies the absolute ridiculousness off all the head cases here....

 

[bytor2112]

for me it comes down to the level of self awareness and personal power in the man.

a straight lover too fond of self centered quickies leaves me cold, bored and ready to move on. but in a relationship rich in power play, with a man very upfront about his needs, the sort of man who deserves respect, I'm more than happy to be used. it's not so much that the act is different- what differs is the conscious, balls out intent.

how does one deserve repsect in BDSM circles???

slaps you real good....extrememly forceful pisser....has extra toes to kiss????

 

[shy slave]

how does one deserve repsect in BDSM circles???

slaps you real good....extrememly forceful pisser....has extra toes to kiss????

Hey Bytor our not so freindly troll. What log have you crawled out from under....we missed you What happened did the slugs who were under the log with you get fed up of you as well?

 

[bytor2112]

Hey Bytor our not so freindly troll. What log have you crawled out from under....we missed you What happened did the slugs who were under the log with you get fed up of you as well?

respect me bitch!! i will force you to respect me!!! i will shit on your eye and make you lick my hole!! respect me!!

 

[BrightFlower]

It's baaaaaaaack...
Quick! Get the fly swatter!!

 

[shy slave]

respect me bitch!! i will force you to respect me!!! i will shit on your eye and make you lick my hole!! respect me!!

*sits and giggles at thought of ANYONE respecting bytor, much less a shy little soul like her* Damn I must not feed the trolls,Looks around to see if Etoile has noticed and goes back to writing I must not feed the trolls 100 times *sigh*

 

[Justina123]

meatflower, you said it perfectly! And rosco, since when do you giggle? Was that you or someone pretending to be you? ha

-justina

 

[MissTaken]

respect me bitch!! i will force you to respect me!!! i will shit on your eye and make you lick my hole!! respect me!!

This post exhibits your absolute ignorance to things BDSM in nature and your ingnorance is why you are a joke to us.

 

[MissTaken]

Quickies keep the heat turned up!

Sometimes, I grab him or take him in my mouth, just long enough to make him moan and then, stop.

Or perhaps, I will exert some physical pain for a few moments, just enough to make him hard, then quit.

Do you see a pattern developing?