Quick sensory stimulation ideas

[TypicalDeviant]

It occurred to me last night that I'd like to blindfold my girlfriend, tie her up, and treat her to some sensory stimulation. I'd like to do this sometime this weekend, so I'm wondering what other ideas my fellow Litizens have for me....

Quick (and cheap) things... I picked up a feather duster, I have some silk boxers to substitute for silk scarves, baby oil/massage oil/lube, and all the different textures my body can provide...

What else can you guys think of?

Thanks!

 

[shiny5437]

Sounds interesting. Let us know how it goes.com

 

[SweetErika]

Try just going around your house with sensations, her likes and limits (e.g. obviously if she's not into any kind of pain, clothespins and whacking tools would be poor choices) in mind.

Warm & cool sensations can be produced by alternating an ice cube and warm tea in your mouth, for instance. Silk, fur, and similar soft things could be alternated with a light swipe of a brush, comb or fine-grit sandpaper. You can do all sorts of things with lengths of suede, chain, rubber, stainless steel/metal kitchen implements (which can also be warmed/chilled in advance)...

I bet there's some stuff in the BDSM library on sensation play, and here are some other threads to check out, too.

 

[A_Kefka]

I was going to suggest heat and cold, but like in so many things, erica has said it first.

 

[bakedbeams]

dont forget sound.... find some great music

smell .... scented candles, or something else scented like adding a drop or two of essential oil to the body lube or baby oil .. almond oil is a better medium for adding scent to.

and taste ... tiny bits of fruit that you can feed her from your mouth, or soak in champagne, or dribble champagne from your mouth to hers....

Hope that helps and have a great time

 

[subwannabe]

I remember reading something on here once that was terrific. It was from a guy whose girlfriend did something similar to him but she used a scented candle and for the rest of his life whenever he smelled that scent, it reminded him of her. So, that is my suggestion. Find some kind of scented candle that will make her remember you for the rest of her life, whether you stay together for the rest of your life or not.

 

[A_Kefka]

I remember reading something on here once that was terrific. It was from a guy whose girlfriend did something similar to him but she used a scented candle and for the rest of his life whenever he smelled that scent, it reminded him of her. So, that is my suggestion. Find some kind of scented candle that will make her remember you for the rest of her life, whether you stay together for the rest of your life or not.

A very good thought, smell is a powerful memory trigger. I know I read somewhere that most guys find the smell of baking chocolate chhip cookies very relaxing, and many even a turn on. I love it, but it isnt' something that gets me going. But yes, find something that you will both like but you dont'[ use normally (if you use scented candles). Assuming things go well, I'll bet that after this (especially if you do it a few times) the smell of the candle alone might be enough to get hiim hard.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

Unfortunately, we didn't get a chance to do it this weekend but I think it's for the better as I've been able to read more great ideas.

Here's draft 2 of what I plan on using...
feather duster thing (came with the restraints, not for dusting)
silk boxers (or silk scarves if I can find them cheap in time)
a wide brush
some baby oil, massage oil, or scented lotion
scented candles
some music, though I need to figure out which groups, genres, etc
something minty or mentholated. I'm thinking of maybe rubbing it on her stomach/inner thighs/breasts - has anyone done this before? Anything I should know about, health-wise or otherwise?

She doesn't have a high pain tolerance and cold things tend to turn her off, so I'd have to proceed with caution there (though I'll probably swat her bottom once or twice with the brush). Any other ideas or things I may have missed?

Thanks!

 

[NippleMuncher]

I have to say that my girl likes to stretch out in a manner that suggests a little bondage. Neither she nor I am into that sort of thing, however, the trappings without the restriction could prove quite intoxicating. During her stretches I've reached out and grasped her wrists - not restraining, but giving that essence, and it seems to heighten the experience.

With her permission, have a scarf or similar blindfold material to lay over her eyes. Have a long sash/ribbon to wrap around her wrists - ONLY do this in play, you are not tying her, you are not restricting her. The ribbon is not tied to her or anything else, it's merely wrapped around the wrist and the "blindfold" is merely rested across her eyes. She's in full control at all times! Go slow and see where it goes.

 

[Derya]

I think foods are interesting

foods with their scent and feel when deprived of sight are very sensual. You could rub them against her skin and her lips. That scene from 9 1/2 Weeks when Mickey Rourke is feeding Kim Basinger all the kitchen fare blindfolded absolutely incredibly hot.

A thought (may seem a little different) take some dry beans (as in uncooked not frozen just the kind in a bag) kind of dribble them on her body let them roll and fall as they will along her curves etc. Also could take a few in your hand(s) and place between your hand and her skin and massage and rub lightly in various motions....would be a tantalizing massage. Could do similar things with chocolat chips or peanut butter chips but they will melt on the body, so that's another option if you want that sensation, just be prepared re clean up.....her I'm sure you'd have covered...I'm thinking of the sheets, furniture, carpet lol

 

[breezyblue]

It seems you have some great ideas going here - I would just caution against using any type of food around the vaginal area. The menthol drops might be ok around those spots but some women are very prone to yeast/bacterial infections from the sugar in foods and that would be a nasty thing to deal with the day after. Perhaps something that could work for your minty or mentholated stimuli could be vicks vaporub (be careful not to get on vulva unless she likes pain because it can be very intense but i bet it would work great on the breasts or neck area.) or maybe that icy hot rub for sore muscles. (same caution here)

 

[infinity706]

Unfortunately, we didn't get a chance to do it this weekend but I think it's for the better as I've been able to read more great ideas.

Here's draft 2 of what I plan on using...
feather duster thing (came with the restraints, not for dusting)
silk boxers (or silk scarves if I can find them cheap in time)
a wide brush
some baby oil, massage oil, or scented lotion
scented candles
some music, though I need to figure out which groups, genres, etc
something minty or mentholated. I'm thinking of maybe rubbing it on her stomach/inner thighs/breasts - has anyone done this before? Anything I should know about, health-wise or otherwise?

She doesn't have a high pain tolerance and cold things tend to turn her off, so I'd have to proceed with caution there (though I'll probably swat her bottom once or twice with the brush). Any other ideas or things I may have missed?

Thanks!

I'd be careful with the mints and cinnamon as well. If you get the strong ones, they can really burn. I know because I use them for S&M purposes. They work especially well on the pussy and ass (or a guy's cock and balls as well). If you get the really strong ones, it can feel like running a lit match over your asshole without the danger of catching yourself on fire. Pop rocks can be a lot of fun, too. I guess it's not all that likely she's that kinky, though.

As for things that would probably go over well, absolutely get her a vibrator if she doesn't have one. Some whipped cream would probably work, too. It's somewhat messy and cliche, but that doesn't make in any less enjoyable. Just keep it out of her pussy and you should be fine. You might want to pick up one of those light, rubber whips, too. Even if she's not into pain, they're light enough that you should be able to hit with light to somewhat moderate force before they hurt at all. You can even just drag it over her if you want. Now, with the oil, make sure you put down towels or plastic sheets. You don't want to damage your bed (or wherever else) because of your fun time. I've never tried it myself, but it might even be fun to cover each other in it and have fun sliding around. Once again, keep it out of her pussy, though. Be careful with the ice, too. If you get it too cold, it can stick to your skin. It's not a huge problem since it will melt, but it can interrupt the fun. It's also reasonably safe for penetration, but make sure she can handle it first. Ice is very slippery and can slide out of your hand. Unless she's into that sort of thing, you don't want her freezing her cunt off while it melts. Another thing that might be fun is to get one of those handheld shower heads. That way you can shower together and you can play with the temperature of the water. Try not to go too far over 120 F, though, because getting burned probably won't go over well. I think you'll like how big and hard her nipples will get when you try the cold out. I'm sure you've seen pornstars slap their dicks on a woman's ass, but what if you gave her a whole massage with it? That could certainly be original. Sure, it's a little strange, but you're here to have fun, right? You might want to oil her up if you want to try that, though.

 

[Luna_Bella]

Jeezz... you guys are good ..... my man would never come up with those kinds of ideas.....even less to plan something like this....

For the minty stuff.... I would recommend a "tingling" lube It's safe to use on any body part (except for eyes of course, believe me it happened to me while I was opening the bottle, not good!)
and you can now buy it at a reasonable price in most drugstores...
I especially like it on my nipples as it makes them feel like they're cool, so very hard.

 

[infinity706]

Well, I've been told tingling lubes aren't good if you have sensitive skin.

 

[Luna_Bella]

Well, I've been told tingling lubes aren't good if you have sensitive skin.

I have sensitive Skin(I don't even tolerate soap without getting a rash) And so far I had no problem I have use the Durex play Tingling and the K-Y Yours(warming) and mine(tingling)

But I prefer the KY one since it is not as strong.... it is very mild and very pleasurable

I would also add warmed honey I am pretty sure it would feel very nice drizzled over some of her bits and it is probably the only sweet thing you can get close to her pussy since Honey is a great anti bacterial/fungal.... so it wouldn't cause threats for yeasts infection etc..... Just make sure the bed is covered with a towel....