Questions

[GoldStarBiker]

So my wife and I have talked and I've decided to allow her to date other men and possible have a steady fuck buddy. Should I be allowed to date other ppl too?

 

[Miss_Delicious24]

It sounds like you are allowing her to have an open relationship with you. I would definitely talk to her and ask her if it is ok with her. Personally, if I were her, I wouldn't mind since I am the type of person who likes equality. But other people are not necessarily like that. Don't expect people to allow you to do certain things just because you allow them to do certain things. Thus, a simple chat with her on the topic should probably do the trick. Also, you have to ask yourself first whether you want to date other people or not. If you don't, then don't force yourself into thinking you have to just because she is. Anyways, once again, just talk to her and I'm sure you two will figure things out. Wish you the best!

Delicious

 

[John_Whittaker0826]

Are you allowing her because she wants it or because you want to step out?? I agree though, talk it through and be open & honest & you guys will figure it out??

 

[GoldStarBiker]

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I'm allowing her cause its my idea. I get turned on about her going on dates with ppl.

 

[bill3901]

I'm allowing her cause its my idea. I get turned on about her going on dates with ppl.

I'm agree, I mean with my wife going out...

 

[John_Whittaker0826]

I understand the attraction and wish you the best. I was just asking if you didn't have ulterior motives, but I didn't mean it in a demeaning way. I'm just a big fan of being honest and letting the chips fall where they may.