Questions for men who prefer older women

[Cate_Archer]

I am a 38-year-old woman with FWB relationships with men 15+ years younger than me. These questions are aimed for men around that age.

-Have you been with an older woman?
-What attracted you?
-How did the relationship start?
-Who leads the sexual part of the relationship?
-Did either of you make changes to your life in general due to your relationship?
-How do you like your partner's pubic hair?

 

[KinoKe]

When I was 23 I started a ‘relationship’ with a woman who was 35.

We met at a business gathering where my boss was trying to get off with her. It was clear that she wasn’t interested. I sort of ‘rode to the rescue’.

She was from out of town, and while my boss was distracted, she asked me to take her back to her hotel. We didn’t discuss what was going to happen next but, back at her hotel, she invited me up to her room – where she immediately began to undress.

A couple of weeks later, I had a Friday meeting in the city where she lived. We met for a drink and then went back to her place and spent most of the weekend in bed.

That might have been the end, except she got a job in London. Her new office was just down the street from mine. We met up for a drink on her first Friday night in town, and then spent the rest of the weekend back at her flat.

She was a really bright, talented woman, and she liked books and jazz. And, for the next couple of years, we met up pretty much every Friday night for a quick drink and then we went back to her place to fuck like Olympic champion rabbits.

She was a blonde, and her pubic hair was blonde too – blonde and silky – and I liked it a lot.

I don’t think she ever knew exactly how old I was. I certainly don’t remember her asking anyway.

Unfortunately, she got offered a top job out in Australia. And so that was the end of that.

Last time I checked, she was still alive and kicking. And, yes, I often think of her.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

When I was 21, I had a two year affair with a 37 yr old cougar. Seriously red hot.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

When I was 21, I had a two year affair with a 37 yr old cougar. Seriously red hot.

I think it provided her with the excite that she was lacking in her marriage and the opportunity to explore new things. Definitely was not vanilla sex.

 

[Susscrofa]

I am a 38-year-old woman with FWB relationships with men 15+ years younger than me. These questions are aimed for men around that age.

-Have you been with an older woman?
-What attracted you?
-How did the relationship start?
-Who leads the sexual part of the relationship?
-Did either of you make changes to your life in general due to your relationship?
-How do you like your partner's pubic hair?

I was in a nearly 3-year relationship with a woman 15 years my senior starting at age 30, and had several casual, short-term relationships and one-night stands with women 10-20 years older than me when I was in my 20's

When I was in my 20's, I never really liked the company of people my own age, so most of my social circle were 10-20 years older. So I didn't necessarily have a sexual fixation on older women because they were older per se, but rather because I just got along with people who were older than me in general. It helped that the one that I was involved with long-term looked much younger than her 45 years at the time.

We started out as friends, wound up in bed together one night, and enjoyed one another enough to carry on with it for a couple of years. She would initiate sexual encounters as often or perhaps more often than I would and was quite aggressive about it (in a good way)!

We'd see each other almost daily and would usually spend the night together, even though we both had our own places. She had a couple of teenage kids so the thought of moving in together was a non-starter for me.

As far as grooming goes, I'm not all that picky about it. I've enjoyed full bushes and clean shaven. She was somewhere in between.

 

[bookworm69]

I am a 38-year-old woman with FWB relationships with men 15+ years younger than me. These questions are aimed for men around that age.

-Have you been with an older woman?
-What attracted you?
-How did the relationship start?
-Who leads the sexual part of the relationship?
-Did either of you make changes to your life in general due to your relationship?
-How do you like your partner's pubic hair?

Most of my relationships have been with older women. The widest range was when I was in my early 20s and she was in her late 40s.

Physically, I was attracted to her curvy shape. She had sexy legs and a great round bottom. Mentally, she was confident and sexually very eager.

For the most part, she lead the sexual activity, but was always willing to try whatever I fantasized about. She had a tremendous libido and taught me a lot.

No changes in relationship. I saw her for over two years during college, and she was married.

She kept her pubic hair trimmed.

 

[toutdoors]

Love older woman

I am 50 now but am involved with a woman 10’years my senior, I have also had women that were in their 30’s to 50’s when I was in my 20’s and 30’s. My first woman was senior to me and I have always found the age different to be quite erotic, likely a Freudian thing. I love women that take care of themselves in general, pubic hair is a huge turn on for me but my current lover is bald and I still find her pussy very exciting.

 

[Wonderer67]

When I was in my mid 20s, I just got out of the Army I was going to college. I woild try to find sexy older women to hook up with all the time. Bars and seeing bands, But I was mostly successful at bookstores and the grocery store, especially at this one high end grocery store where I used to live.

I told my wife this and she used to shop there. She is ten years my senior and was in an unsatisfying marriage then and she wonders if I ever hit on her back then. I wonder too! We role play it out now! (Queue scene from animal house)

 

[osprey44]

I have always been drawn to older women. They know what they want and most don't play the "catch me, fuck me" games that younger gals often do. I'm an old guy now, but I still love older women, not necessarily older than I but older, mature...

I am now involved with a woman younger than I, she is 60 and sexy... and she loves to fuck... need I say more?

 

[Versa92646]

Mrs Burke

Have you been with an older woman?
-What attracted you?
-How did the relationship start?
-Who leads the sexual part of the relationship?
-Did either of you make changes to your life in general due to your relationship?
-How do you like your partner's pubic hair? [/QUOTE]

One of my earliest sexual encounters was with our neighbor, Mrs Burke. She was mom’s friend and featured vividly my solo stroke sessions. The possibility of turning my fantasy into reality seemed remote until I returned from college on break. She just invited me over, simple as that. Let’s face it, boys 18-25 are easy.

She dictated whatever happened from the beginning. Including what and if we got together and I was happy to go along for the ride.

The major change for me was realizing that older women were more fun than the girls my age. For the rest of my life I found women 10-20 years my senior most attractive.

Pubic hair? Full bush to Brazilian doesn’t matter but changing it up is always interesting.

 

[bristolbabcock]

20+

When I was in the military way back when I was 23 years old and taking college classes in the evenings at a nearby university I had a literature professor who was in her mid 40’s. She was sort of the nerdy type, a bookworm by all stretches of your imagination. One evening after class I walked out to get on my motorcycle to head back to base when I hear her yell to me from walking behind me to be careful riding home. I then asked her if she like motorcycles and had she ever ridden. She answered by simple saying that she had never for anyone she trusted enough to put her life in their hands... I took this and ran with it and reminded her that me being military she already had. She took this response for exactly what it was and knew then I was flirting with her. The next week I brought a spare helmet and sure enough she had worn jeans. I asked her how she felt about taking a moonlit ride down the coast and getting a bite of dinner... this, a few of the barbecue parties with the squadron later that summer and we had become more than just friends and I never looked at older women the same from that summer on, and I’m 60 years old now... oh, I got an A!

 

[Loveitdady]

When I was 18 I had a woman from Mich who I fucked several times.. She was 62 and loved it..wanted me to move In with her in Mich..dumb ass me turned her down. She was well off and had two homes there. That was some 50 years ago.. Wish I had the opportunity now...

 

[mssweetangelina]

It's quite comforting to know that this dynamic is as desirable to younger men as I find it is to me

 

[CuttingEdge]

I have always been attractive to older women.

I enjoy their maturity, but really love when they dress nicely, and not just jeans and a t shirt. I know it is difficult to take care of yourself, and that becomes more difficult as we all age, but any twenty-something can wear a miniskirt, but for a older lady to be able to wear one really says a lot about her character and demeanor. I find that spark very attractive.

Unfortunately it is pretty much limited to sex and sex appeal because in real life it is hard to make a relationship gap work. As the years stack up it becomes more difficult because that means the person is say 85 when the other is 70. Just when the 70 year old is nearing retirement and full of ambition and wants, the other is slowed by age. Just having one already retired while the other is still working can set up the relationship for jealousy. I have seen that a lot.

So myself, it is an attractive idea, but I would never have a serious relationship too far on either side of my age for that reason.

 

[Toylovr]

I am a 38-year-old woman with FWB relationships with men 15+ years younger than me. These questions are aimed for men around that age.

-Have you been with an older woman?
-What attracted you?
-How did the relationship start?
-Who leads the sexual part of the relationship?
-Did either of you make changes to your life in general due to your relationship?
-How do you like your partner's pubic hair?

Don't fall into this age category for your thread info, but I'm still liking this thread. Great read! Nice job.

 

[Lucien_Al]

My answer

-Have you been with an older woman?
Many times.

-What attracted you?
They were at ease with their sexuality and were open about wanting to hook up for good sex.

-How did the relationship start?
Normally online but occasionally met in bars

-Who leads the sexual part of the relationship?
Depends on the women.

-Did either of you make changes to your life in general due to your relationship?
I did tend to travel more.

-How do you like your partner's pubic hair?
I dont mind either.

My biggest age gap was 27 years. I was 34 and she was 61. She was one of the best lovers I enjoyed and very little was off the table sexually.

 

[sohorny469]

When I was 20 I met a 32 year old woman, that was 45 years ago. Still with her..................................

 

[slutindianwife]

I am a 38-year-old woman with FWB relationships with men 15+ years younger than me. These questions are aimed for men around that age.

-Have you been with an older woman?
-What attracted you?
-How did the relationship start?
-Who leads the sexual part of the relationship?
-Did either of you make changes to your life in general due to your relationship?
-How do you like your partner's pubic hair?

Luv ur thread!

 

[MaryanneB]

15 or so years is a drop in the bucket! What about men having affairs and/or relationships with women 20 or 30 years older? Benefits or problems with that!

 

[oggbashan]

I'm so old that most older women are now deceased.

 

[phil1955]

I'm so old that most older women are now deceased.

I am with you. Tough enough finding a woman my age let alone an older one still interested. If they are interested in sex, they probably have their pick of young studs that want to fuck grandma.

The only question I can answer with any authority is that I prefer natural. I rather like a nice bush.

 

[Kitschshaman]

I am a 38-year-old woman with FWB relationships with men 15+ years younger than me. These questions are aimed for men around that age.

-Have you been with an older woman?
Oh, yes. One of the most wonderful times of my life. She was the only person in my life for whom I have ever called in sick to work when I was not. I just wanted to stay with her.

-What attracted you?
The fact I could talk with her, hold a conversation and there was very little manipulation going on, just interest in a relationship.

-How did the relationship start?
We were both volunteers on a charity project.

-Who leads the sexual part of the relationship?
It was mutual, though as it developed she enjoyed my taking a dominant role.

-Did either of you make changes to your life in general due to your relationship?
At first, yes, but since she was originally from the other side of the world, eventually she had to go home.

-How do you like your partner's pubic hair?

I'm pretty open, but closely clipped is my preference.

 

[gtnlynn]

When my wife was in her 30's, she was the older woman for a couple of men in their 20's. They met her in the doctor's office where she worked and were attracted by her lovely face, smile, and sexy legs. She agreed to meet each one at medical conventions out of town and pretended to let them take the lead. In reality, she was in charge, not nearly as drunk as they thought she was. They wanted more, but she only let them enjoy her chsrms once.

 

[Bigspurt]

15 or so years is a drop in the bucket! What about men having affairs and/or relationships with women 20 or 30 years older? Benefits or problems with that!

Well, I'm almost 70 so I'm not so sure a relationship with someone that much older would work.

 

[supercollider00]

For me it often just happened organically as most of my friends have always been older than myself. It was never a fetish per say. I've had relationships with people 15+ years older than me and even though some people bat an eye, who cares really as long as it's safe and there's consent? I just always preferred well-educated and well-read confident ladies.

As to the other questions, I honestly just find that women really start hitting their peak at 35 and over. I prefer shaved or at least trimmed pubic area personally.

It's also the same with men, always been attracted to the older gents