I am a married guy in a sexless marriage (very common theme here). I love to flirt in person and online but I am looking for a lover in real life.
I do flirt a lot and I am at a loss for how to figure out if the flirting is innocent or if they are open to more. So, I would like to pose a few questions for the married women here.
There is a woman at the gym, we have talked about a lot of things and she ALWAYS remembers our conversations and asks about things the next time I see her. I pushed the boundaries a little earlier this week, in conversations I told her my wife and I have not been intimate in 8 yrs, we talked about this a bit. I flattered her figure and how she is looking after working so hard at the gym and she was okay with it. The next time I saw her I was worried after thinking about it she would be "creeped" out, she was not. She is married and so am I. My thought is my next step is to ask her if she wants to grab coffee or lunch sometime. Thoughts about moving forward?
I "eye" flirt with women at Target and the grocery store, any hints on the best way to approach a woman in this situation to test the waters? I cant just walk up to a woman and say "Im married and I find you attractive, are you interested in coffee?" Or can I?
Any men that have figured this out feel free to chime in with your success stories.
Any help is appreciated, I may follow up with more questions.
Thanks for your input.
I do flirt a lot and I am at a loss for how to figure out if the flirting is innocent or if they are open to more. So, I would like to pose a few questions for the married women here.
There is a woman at the gym, we have talked about a lot of things and she ALWAYS remembers our conversations and asks about things the next time I see her. I pushed the boundaries a little earlier this week, in conversations I told her my wife and I have not been intimate in 8 yrs, we talked about this a bit. I flattered her figure and how she is looking after working so hard at the gym and she was okay with it. The next time I saw her I was worried after thinking about it she would be "creeped" out, she was not. She is married and so am I. My thought is my next step is to ask her if she wants to grab coffee or lunch sometime. Thoughts about moving forward?
I "eye" flirt with women at Target and the grocery store, any hints on the best way to approach a woman in this situation to test the waters? I cant just walk up to a woman and say "Im married and I find you attractive, are you interested in coffee?" Or can I?
Any men that have figured this out feel free to chime in with your success stories.
Any help is appreciated, I may follow up with more questions.
Thanks for your input.
