Questions For Crossdressers...

MaleThonger

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Hey there! So I recently hooked up with a guy who was a cross dresser, and he asked me if I wanted him to wear a skirt when we met. I was initially uncertain, as I like my men to be men, but I decided to go ahead and try it. (I'll try anything once.) I have to admit, I really enjoyed fucking him in that skirt, there was an added turn on / kink factor.

So my question to all of you in the CD lifestyle: What makes you do it? Is it a desire to actually be female? Is it the kink factor? Is it a fun way to role play? What turns you on about it?
 
So my question to all of you in the CD lifestyle: What makes you do it? Is it a desire to actually be female? Is it the kink factor? Is it a fun way to role play? What turns you on about it?

For me , I have cross-dressed since I was six years old and I can remember even then how right it felt to wear a bra and panties , for much of my youth my dressing was definitely associated with masturbation , as you put it the kink factor , it felt naughty and was a huge turn on to be dressed in feminine clothing and accessories but then as I grew a little older I realized that it was more of a lifestyle than a fetish or kink , I feel more comfortable and relaxed when I'm wearing one of my bras and a pair of matching panties or maybe a camisole and a pair of tights , it's just part of who I am I guess !
 
I like cross dressing for a number of reasons. a big part of it is a desire for sexual attention from men. It is also fun and exciting to experience the world from a different perspective. Also, my ass looks great in panties ;)

I've never been with another man while cross dressing... (except web cam chat) but it is something I would like to try. This desire is not shared by all CDs though - a large number of us are strait :)
 
I love to crossdress mainly for wat you call a fu way to role play. But I get realy horny when Im dressed as a woman.
 
I've been putting on fem things since I was a boy, hitting puberty. I've always loved how I feel, when I put on something sexy. I've never been in a position to fully explore dressing, as I've been very bi...attached to some girl or women....and never had the courage to reveal that side to them.
I like to dress for men who like that, and when I do, I'm much more a slut than otherwise for M2M play. I always feel "funny" revealing thigh hi stockings, garter belts and panties...under my straight male clothes.... However, if the guy is into it...oh my how I love to get them excited.
And, I like to think my butt looks pretty cute and inviting, in pretty panties....:devil:
 
Hard to answer. There's definitely a kink factor and so forth. There's also an element of wanting to be desired by men. But importantly there's also a feminine side to me - a straight girl who sometimes wants to be a total slut, sometimes a faithful wife.
 
I've dressed on and off for 30 years. I would buy clothing, wear them for a while in my hidden world, then later throw them away. I did this for years, my urges going away only to return later. I would fantasize about men while wearing clothing then go back to my heterosexual ways. Later in life i bought breast forms, then wigs and shoes, clothing and makeup.

I told my wife of my desires for dressing, didn't go over too well, but after a while we would go shopping together, i love to shop. Funny, she would not let me dress around her, but i could buy clothing, undies, makeup in the same store as her, at the same register and that is fine. I never told her of my bi desires, never will.

As far as dressing, I've been with men both with and without. I prefer dressed, it is such a turn on for me. I like to leave some of the clothing on while sucking and getting fucked. Thigh highs, bra wig and makeup especially.

I don't desire to become a female, i really like being a male, but becoming a girl for a while or just dressing keeps me in a constant 'buzzed' state of horniness.. I am dressed right now.

My favorite time was with a guy and his wife. She did not participate but what turnon to strip to panties, corset and bra and suck on her husband while she watched.... I was hoping she would join in but she never did....
 
You should do some experimenting....put some sexy pantyhose on,a bra, some hi heels and see how it feels.....making me hard just thinking about it!!
 
For me it's the kinky/taboo nature of it, but I've also gotten interested lately in the roleplaying angle of it.
 
I too started when I was young. Went through phases of buying things, then getting rid of them. As I have aged, I have become comfortable with the thought of dressing in women's clothes. Sometimes it's just panties under my male clothes, other times, I dress in "full" around the house. I have not gone out fully dressed in women's clothes, (too much of a small town), but I love the feeling I have when dressed. For me, the reason is more that it's "taboo" and I'm not "supposed to" wear panties or other things. There are some of my female friends that know, and even seem to be ok with it. Sadly, none that are as "into it" as I would like.
 
So my question to all of you in the CD lifestyle: What makes you do it? Is it a desire to actually be female? Is it the kink factor? Is it a fun way to role play? What turns you on about it?

I don't wear the real frilly stuff. I wear the more everyday things. Some sexy panties, but I enjoy how female jeans and shorts, etc fit me. When I wear clothes for men, they just are not very comfortable to me. The only part of it that gets me thinking about any kind of kink factor, is when those on here see my pics and it turns them on.
 
I crossdress because I'm transgendered. I believe I was born in the wrong body. Crossdressing allows me to express externally what I feel internally.

If that makes any sense.

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i do it because i like to be feminine and i want to be attractive to men ,i feel more comfortable in womens clothes and more submissive and i love the feel of the things i wear and the guys seem to like it better ,at least the ones i go with do, and of course there is a certain kink factor ,i have been wearing womens clothes all my life and i enjoy it ,they feel much nicer than mens clothes and more natural to me and when i am dressed i think of myself as a woman and men treat me like one which i love so i suppose it is a combination of things that make me do it .
 
Me its more fetish oriented as I'm drawn more to the feel of the nylon fabric and the fem look of the garment, but after I get off in it, they come off. When I'm in lingerie its not to be fem for me as its for the sensation of the slip or nightgown. I don't wear other stuff like wigs, heels, dresses, makeup etc. Started at puberty in moms half slip, then got into her other stuff later on. I do like the taboo of wearing something silky and feminine, but for me its not to be female. Different for everybody I guess.
 
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