lol thanks babes xxx will keep that in mind xx what should i be looking out forThere is definitely hope. Read carefully between the lines before you take the plunge, though. My psycho FWB said a few things that should have been tip-offs, but I wasn't thinking with my big head at the time.
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Just use common sense. Get to know them online before you meet up, try to get their real name and google it, don't overshare your own personal info, arrange your first meeting in a public place, and by all means, play safe.
Have fun!
thanks babes xxx i willJust use common sense. Get to know them online before you meet up, try to get their real name and google it, don't overshare your own personal info, arrange your first meeting in a public place, and by all means, play safe.
Have fun!
determinedone
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I honestly so would... It would provide an outlet that most people don't get. I think that finding a person that shares the intimate thoughts and enjoys similar things would make it even better. Hard to find real people on her from So CA...
true very true but i am an optimist
twilliamson
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thanks huni will keep looking xx
BigTXTeddyBear
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I mainly joined the board to make new friends and see where it goes from there. So the idea to find friends with no strings benefits would not be out of the realm of possibility.
I just got out of a marriage where the last half of it seemed like a nightmare. The idea of finding someone, getting to know them, becoming good friends with them, go out and do things together, maybe even fulfill a need that the other needs, and not have to worry about any grand expectations is a very alluring idea.
Of course, if something did develop, well, than at least we would have a good foundation to start from.
billy_boy967
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Well, you can never have too many friends. Do you want to be my friend? I'm just teasing, but feel free to IM/PM sometime if you feel like chatting or whatever.
I guess it was one of the things I considered when joining Lit recently having just split with someone I'd been with for a long time... not sure if will happen or not but I like the idea... x
yeah that is the same as me huni xx came out of a long marriage so totally get where ur at
yeah that is the same as me huni xx came out of a long marriage so totally get where ur at
Hope you find what you're looking for! x
juvare
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This sounds more like a fuck buddy situation to me.
Even friendships have strings.
I enjoy and crave intimacy too much to want a NSA situation. For me, sex is only enhanced and more explosive when it's with someone I trust.
Completely agree about sex being enhanced by trust.
Personally for me, that's not what I'm wanting at the minute so your fuck buddy theory could well be right!
cosmocreamer
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I've thought about looking for a friend with benefits on here - I'm still trying to gather the courage though!
think thats where you need to chat and build trust first
cosmocreamer
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think thats where you need to chat and build trust first
Yeah I have chatted to a couple of ladies here, but nothing really came of it. I should probably just bite the bullet and post an ad!
interesting views my dear but you need to build trust even in a fuck buddy xxx
Not to the same extent as you would someone in a proper relationship though is where I was coming from for me personally.
As you said in one of your later posts I'd need to chat with someone for a while before I'd actually meet up with someone.
have some faith xxx the glass is half full not half empty
INDIAN_NOMAD3
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found one
found a wonderful female friend on here..she is married..we chat and have fun..but will never meet for good..
but she is amazing and we are great buddies now
found a wonderful female friend on here..she is married..we chat and have fun..but will never meet for good..
but she is amazing and we are great buddies now
