Question

[Officer_Alf]

Sorry to bother you all…But my question is how do I get my wife to do FFM?

She has talked about it before. Said she wanted to try it, or at least be with another woman. What is the next step?

 

[loveumore]

Sorry to bother you all…But my question is how do I get my wife to do FFM?

She has talked about it before. Said she wanted to try it, or at least be with another woman. What is the next step?

Finding one willing to do the same.

Have you tried running any searches for adult single sites? There are many.

 

[Officer_Alf]

to loveumore

I've been on a few sites, but my wife doesnt know about it. I have actally found another person to share with also. I'm just not forsure what to do now or get my wife involved.

 

[loveumore]

to loveumore

I've been on a few sites, but my wife doesnt know about it. I have actally found another person to share with also. I'm just not forsure what to do now or get my wife involved.

Tell her you wanted to surprise her, show her the sites, and see if she's attracted to the other person if there's a picture.

 

[human_male]

to loveumore

I've been on a few sites, but my wife doesnt know about it. I have actally found another person to share with also. I'm just not forsure what to do now or get my wife involved.

I think you should be careful about doing anything (even looking) without her knowledge and involvement unless she starts to suspect you just want another woman whether she's there or not. Or she get's miffed that you've gotten to know another woman behind her back, sort of.

 

[Eilan]

Is this her fantasy, your fantasy, or a mutual fantasy?

If I were your wife, I'd want to be the one who picked the female partner, and it wouldn't be someone that my husband was already corresponding with without my knowledge. She might not appreciate a situation that smacks of a setup. I certainly wouldn't--in reality, anyway.

When my husband and I did MFM's, we wrote a profile and corresponded with the potential partners as a couple. I was the one who made the final decision, though my husband certainly had input.

YMMV.