Question?

[Lycantil]

If you are looking for a femail sub, shouldn't it be "PM me now bitch!" (or something like that?)

 

[mkemse]

Question

They wil not PM me , they do email me

 

[iceicebaybee222]

No- show some respect! subs are people with feelings too, and if they contact you, it should be of their choice. After all, they are not your sub yet.....

 

[cinnamonstick]

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[Dom4]

No- show some respect! subs are people with feelings too, and if they contact you, it should be of their choice. After all, they are not your sub yet.....

I agree. I'd never address a sub in such a disrespectful manner until W/we had moved to the point where that was appropriate.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

If you are looking for a femail sub, shouldn't it be "PM me now bitch!" (or something like that?)

I, for one, probably wouldn't respond, even to my Dom, at the term "bitch".

Prefer it more when he calls me his nasty lil girl.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I wouldn't go referring to someone as "bitch" right off the bat, but an extremely commanding tone gets the best results by far. My standard email/PM that I send to new subs is "I am the master you dream of. Respond to my email and do my bidding and I will take you to the heights of pain and excstay. Disobey--and face my wrath."

 

[sophia jane]

There are a few names I won't answer to, from anyone including my Dom. "Bitch" is one of those names. Not all subs like name-calling.

SJ

 

[Trinique_Fire]

I doubt very highly that I'd respond to ANY private message or email that said "PM me now, bitch." ESPECIALLY if I didn't know the person. I'm taken, I have someone, but regardless of that fact, if anyone PMed me like that I'd PM them back with a pretty little "fuck you and the horse you rode in on," block them, and leave it at that.

As to whether or not I'd tolerate it from my Domme, probably, in certain situations.

 

[Vixandra]

I highly doubt any sub of quality would reply to such a command with anything other then a "why don't you go play hide and go fuck yourself" type of answer.

Respect is a two way road. Being a dominant means NOTHING if you haven't got an opposite.

 

[DVS]

Quite literally, NOTHING works for me. NOTHING! If they only knew what was waiiting for them, too.

 

[Marquis]

Self proclaimed subs spend so much time assessing your level of dominance that there is simply no way to win.

Say "Hi, my name is such and such. I really like your such and such and I'd love to take more sometime" and you're sure to be dismissed as a wimp.

Say "PM me now bitch!" and you are sure to be dismissed as a psycho.

Better just send them a picture of your dick.

If you got a little dick, send them a picture of your abs.

If you're rocking a gut, send them a picture of your face.

If you're fat, ugly and poorly endowed, well sheeeet, I can't help you dog; you're just going to have to learn how to kick game.

Practice on the lowliest bitches you can find (addicts and the like) and work your way up.

 

[bronntanas]

If you are looking for a femail sub, shouldn't it be "PM me now bitch!" (or something like that?)

Trying that with most female subs will usually get your balls forcibly relocated to a spot nearby to your vocal cords. snerk I don't know about femail subs, though; maybe they're different.

 

[Aeroil]

Marquis - LOL

but for the question, if you act like a moron, anyone, sub or no, is going to think you're one.
And why should it be any different for male subs, if a domme messged me with something like that I'd be less than impressed.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Self proclaimed subs spend so much time assessing your level of dominance that there is simply no way to win.

Say "Hi, my name is such and such. I really like your such and such and I'd love to take more sometime" and you're sure to be dismissed as a wimp.

Say "PM me now bitch!" and you are sure to be dismissed as a psycho.

Better just send them a picture of your dick.

If you got a little dick, send them a picture of your abs.

If you're rocking a gut, send them a picture of your face.

If you're fat, ugly and poorly endowed, well sheeeet, I can't help you dog; you're just going to have to learn how to kick game.

Practice on the lowliest bitches you can find (addicts and the like) and work your way up.

LOL, if anyone ever sent a pic of their cock when I was searching for the One, I just responded with a polite 'no thanks'. Unless you already know them well, it just seems unDomly to be flashing your delicate parts in the hope of getting a nibble or bite ( no pun intended)....that is why your pics are so tasteful and Domly, Marquis, you don't reveal the whole package, just enough to keep them wondering and wanting more.

Catalina

 

[Kajira Callista]

If you are looking for a femail sub, shouldn't it be "PM me now bitch!" (or something like that?)

wassa femail sub?



A pm like that would make me laugh....unless of course it was from someone who i wanted to call me bitch.

 

[Marquis]

LOL, if anyone ever sent a pic of their cock when I was searching for the One, I just responded with a polite 'no thanks'. Unless you already know them well, it just seems unDomly to be flashing your delicate parts in the hope of getting a nibble or bite ( no pun intended)....that is why your pics are so tasteful and Domly, Marquis, you don't reveal the whole package, just enough to keep them wondering and wanting more.

Catalina

Well when you can't spell the word "female" I figure it's time to avoid the intellectual market.

 

[shy slave]

Self proclaimed subs spend so much time assessing your level of dominance that there is simply no way to win.

Say "Hi, my name is such and such. I really like your such and such and I'd love to take more sometime" and you're sure to be dismissed as a wimp.

Say "PM me now bitch!" and you are sure to be dismissed as a psycho.

Better just send them a picture of your dick.

If you got a little dick, send them a picture of your abs.

If you're rocking a gut, send them a picture of your face.

If you're fat, ugly and poorly endowed, well sheeeet, I can't help you dog; you're just going to have to learn how to kick game.

Practice on the lowliest bitches you can find (addicts and the like) and work your way up.

In dolfs thread she queries the point of 'dick pics' and wonders if she should ask them to show their dick off when they meet in a public place, so she will recognise them properly.

I have no issue to being called 'bitch' it happens in vanilla life but in a slightly different context ...but 'pm me now bitch!...' i have never figured out how to respond as i keep laughing so much and cant hit the right keys

edit to add: I dont see them as psychos, psychos usually have a much more interesting turn of phrase lol

 

[Sir_Winston54]

<major snip>edit to add: I dont see them as psychos, psychos usually have a much more interesting turn of phrase lol

Yes.






Yes, we do.

 

[MintSoda]

If you are looking for a femail sub, shouldn't it be "PM me now bitch!" (or something like that?)

This is such a common misconception. I can't tell you how many times I've been talking to a potential Mistress and she started giving me orders when I was still in the getting to know her phase. Until the sub thinks of you as Master/Mistress you don't have an ounce of power. You'd be better served taking your time, showing off your strong personality (without being a Dom/Domme) and finding out what kinks turn the sub on and where his or her limits are.

Classic rookie mistake...you're not the boss of the sub until they say you are.

 

[esclave_PP]

This is such a common misconception. I can't tell you how many times I've been talking to a potential Mistress and she started giving me orders when I was still in the getting to know her phase. Until the sub thinks of you as Master/Mistress you don't have an ounce of power. You'd be better served taking your time, showing off your strong personality (without being a Dom/Domme) and finding out what kinks turn the sub on and where his or her limits are.

Classic rookie mistake...you're not the boss of the sub until they say you are.

Very interesting quote here...There is truth to that, there really is. Just like any other relationship, it does start out consensual. I think there are so many stories floating around that have fantasies of non-consensual bondings that we tend to forget that.

 

[sophia jane]

Very interesting quote here...There is truth to that, there really is. Just like any other relationship, it does start out consensual. I think there are so many stories floating around that have fantasies of non-consensual bondings that we tend to forget that.

Shouldn't a Dom/sub relationship be consensual, not just at the beginning, but all the way along??

SJ

 

[babiesmiles]

If you are looking for a femail sub, shouldn't it be "PM me now bitch!" (or something like that?)

This female sub would answer you " give it up now jerk !"

But it's just a personal opinion

 

[DVS]

...I dont see them as psychos, psychos usually have a much more interesting turn of phrase lol

Maybe the word femail would be used? It's a new phase of going postal, perhaps?

 

[FungiUg]

If you are looking for a femail sub, shouldn't it be "PM me now bitch!" (or something like that?)

No, I think that approach would work best with a Domme. You are looking for a black eye, right?