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[Jessalynvix]

okay know that Dusty is transitioning to male what in the world does that make me I thought I was a lesbian but now I'm confused.

 

[DustyWolfe]

You ARE a lesbian, you just like Trannybois

 

[John Doe]

I don't know you, but I would guess it means you're not really a lesbian, but a bisexual with an extremely strong preference for women.

I consider sexual preferences to be shades of grey and very few people are completely black or white.

 

[DustyWolfe]

I don't know you, but I would guess it means you're not really a lesbian, but a bisexual with an extremely strong preference for women.

I consider sexual preferences to be shades of grey and very few people are completely black or white.

Makes sense to me....

Then again, I'm still fully female... And I will never be fully male.

 

[Jessalynvix]

I don't know you, but I would guess it means you're not really a lesbian, but a bisexual with an extremely strong preference for women.

I consider sexual preferences to be shades of grey and very few people are completely black or white.

Right it's just the matter of sorting that out in one's brain.

 

[Jessalynvix]

Makes sense to me....

Then again, I'm still fully female... And I will never be fully male.

yes but you will be male for all intense purposes.

 

[deezire1900]

My friend calls herself "Translesbian"
I like that.

 

[DustyWolfe]

My friend calls herself "Translesbian"
I like that.

Hey, I like that too

 

[Jessalynvix]

My friend calls herself "Translesbian"
I like that.

yes I like that and it answers my question yay

 

[MzChrista]

What difference does it make? You are you thats what counts.

 

[Jessalynvix]

What difference does it make? You are you thats what counts.

I hadn't thought about it that way. You are right I am me and that is what does count.

 

[MzChrista]

I hadn't thought about it that way. You are right I am me and that is what does count.

Listen I been following all that the two of you have gone through for how long now, in BDSM, on KT and here? One thing I have seen is that what you have between you has stayed strong no matter what. This is another change in things but as far as I am concerned it just means your life keeps getting more interesting.

 

[Jessalynvix]

Listen I been following all that the two of you have gone through for how long now, in BDSM, on KT and here? One thing I have seen is that what you have between you has stayed strong no matter what. This is another change in things but as far as I am concerned it just means your life keeps getting more interesting.

It's will be 2yrs since I have been here with Dusty in September. Yes it has stayed strong no matter our twists and turns for we are at another twist or turn not sure which it is as I am becoming a dominate being again and Dusty submissive and I am more confident now then I was before.

Yes our life does keep becoming more interesting and when we pop up to Michigan to get my stuff we are so going to have to drop into Detroit before we return home. Because there are atleast 4 people that we have a desire to meet there.

 

[JeanetteLv2]

Then again, I'm still fully female... And I will never be fully male.

Not to be a bitch or anything, but that makes me wonder why you are transitioning honestly. Sounds like you haven't worked out your issues or more like just wish to live as a genderqueer, which is all fine and cool of course. Unless of course those comments are merely due to feeling like can't afford transitioning or needed surgeries. If so that I can empathize with.

And let's make sure people know the meaning of a word when they use it. A translesbian is a transsexual woman (mtf) attracted to other women.

 

[DustyWolfe]

Not to be a bitch or anything, but that makes me wonder why you are transitioning honestly. Sounds like you haven't worked out your issues or more like just wish to live as a genderqueer, which is all fine and cool of course. Unless of course those comments are merely due to feeling like can't afford transitioning or needed surgeries. If so that I can empathize with.

And let's make sure people know the meaning of a word when they use it. A translesbian is a transsexual woman (mtf) attracted to other women.

No... I know what I want. I'm referring to the fact of the state in which I live. In Texas the state actually owns your gender. Even if I went through all the surgeries I could never be considered fully male on my birth certificate, which means my drivers license, insurance, everything.
And for the record, I'm not having the penis surgery for a few simple reasons...
1. The penis is not functional
2. The penis is gross looking in most cases.
3. I enjoy having sex, I enjoy being able to have orgasm. Once you do the penile surgery you are no longer able to orgasm.
4. I would never be able to afford it, I'm struggling financially already.

LOL I just call her my lesbian tranny hag

And really... I remind her that it doesn't much matter what she is, when it comes down to it what do labels really matter? They are for someone else's good not her own. She loves who she loves and that's it.

I just consider myself extremely lucky that I'm the one she loves, and that she is willing to go down this road with me. She's the one that finally pushed me to do this.

 

[Jessalynvix]

No... I know what I want. I'm referring to the fact of the state in which I live. In Texas the state actually owns your gender. Even if I went through all the surgeries I could never be considered fully male on my birth certificate, which means my drivers license, insurance, everything.
And for the record, I'm not having the penis surgery for a few simple reasons...
1. The penis is not functional
2. The penis is gross looking in most cases.
3. I enjoy having sex, I enjoy being able to have orgasm. Once you do the penile surgery you are no longer able to orgasm.
4. I would never be able to afford it, I'm struggling financially already.

LOL I just call her my lesbian tranny hag

And really... I remind her that it doesn't much matter what she is, when it comes down to it what do labels really matter? They are for someone else's good not her own. She loves who she loves and that's it.

I just consider myself extremely lucky that I'm the one she loves, and that she is willing to go down this road with me. She's the one that finally pushed me to do this.

Yes I agree with all your little numbered items for I want you to be able to enjoy sex it would not be fair if you couldn't orgasm.

LOL yep yep I am that and I call you my Boi toy so it works.

Yes I know that it doesn't matter and that they are all labels I was curious to what everyone else would think. Yes indeed it's about who I love and that is you and it has been for a very long time.

We are both lucky my sweet and I want you to be you so yes I pushed it.

 

[Netzach]

Well, whatever you are...

you didn't become heterosexual overnight or something, if you ask me. Unless you really dig that label.

It's not like you're looking at pics of boys and getting off or fantasizing about guys all of a sudden, right?

You have a partner who's taking a bit of an odyssey here, but if you like being a lesbian, I can't see how you've stopped being one.

 

[DustyWolfe]

Well, whatever you are...

you didn't become heterosexual overnight or something, if you ask me. Unless you really dig that label.

It's not like you're looking at pics of boys and getting off or fantasizing about guys all of a sudden, right?

You have a partner who's taking a bit of an odyssey here, but if you like being a lesbian, I can't see how you've stopped being one.

A BIT of an oddysey? hehe, come on... admit it.. I'm a freak Just kidding. Yeah... I think part of the reason she is worrying about labels is her parents.. She's trying to figure out how to explain her relationship with me and such. I just told her to go ahead and tell them she's a lesbian lol. Don't want to confuse them too much, especially when she hasn't seen them in two years and it may be longer than that when she finally decides to go get her shit and bring it here lol

 

[Jessalynvix]

Well, whatever you are...

you didn't become heterosexual overnight or something, if you ask me. Unless you really dig that label.

It's not like you're looking at pics of boys and getting off or fantasizing about guys all of a sudden, right?

You have a partner who's taking a bit of an odyssey here, but if you like being a lesbian, I can't see how you've stopped being one.

Very very true. all though the male body is fascinating yet does not really do anything for my sexually. So I stick with what I am.

Dustywolfe A BIT of an oddysey? hehe, come on... admit it.. I'm a freak Just kidding. Yeah... I think part of the reason she is worrying about labels is her parents.. She's trying to figure out how to explain her relationship with me and such. I just told her to go ahead and tell them she's a lesbian lol. Don't want to confuse them too much, especially when she hasn't seen them in two years and it may be longer than that when she finally decides to go get her shit and bring it here lol

Your right of course love yet I don't really care what they think anymore and you now how I feel about them etc. Must go get the rest of my stuff at some point though.

 

[John Doe]

yes but you will be male for all intense purposes.

Ahem, not to be a bore, but the figure of speech I believe you intended to use is "for all intents and purposes."

 

[Jessalynvix]

Ahem, not to be a bore, but the figure of speech I believe you intended to use is "for all intents and purposes."

i meant what i said i wasn't even trying for figure of speech.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I hope you and Dusty don't mind

I was looking through some of my poems yesterday and I wanted to give this to you both...as it seems to fit what I have read from both of you.

Without You written 1/3/03 by me...

in one moment i realized the truth
that without you i am cold and alone
with no where to call home
clarion comforts are all gone
without you

in a millisecond i see
that you are the best part of me
and without you i am without peace
clarity of thought eases
without you

i cannot find my way
though i struggle day by day
without you by my side
along this path that we ride
i will never be without you


Whatever you two have, I want it one day for my very own...

bright blessings

pet

 

[John Doe]

i meant what i said i wasn't even trying for figure of speech.

Well, you don't have to bitch me out about it, but just so you know, "intense purposes" means nothing to me or most anyone else.

 

[Jessalynvix]

Well, you don't have to bitch me out about it, but just so you know, "intense purposes" means nothing to me or most anyone else.

i wasn't bitching you out just stating a fact. and i know that i tend to speak my own way and have for a long time just ask Dusty I say all sorts of things that only make sense to me and that i have to explain sometimes.

 

[Jessalynvix]

Re: I hope you and Dusty don't mind

I was looking through some of my poems yesterday and I wanted to give this to you both...as it seems to fit what I have read from both of you.

Without You written 1/3/03 by me...

in one moment i realized the truth
that without you i am cold and alone
with no where to call home
clarion comforts are all gone
without you

in a millisecond i see
that you are the best part of me
and without you i am without peace
clarity of thought eases
without you

i cannot find my way
though i struggle day by day
without you by my side
along this path that we ride
i will never be without you


Whatever you two have, I want it one day for my very own...

bright blessings

pet

*sniff* thank you very much pet that is us to a T I'll have to dig up something of my own and plop in here. We have come through a lot of stuff.