Question: was the hotwife fantasy always a thing for you? Or did you cultivate it?

[trinisity]

I ask because I am married and I want to be turned on by my wife fucking another man... but there are so many mental blocks.

My wife used to model and I was secretly a little turned on that she was getting naked for the camera... part of me hoped she would find someone she really wanted to fuck. But mostly because that would mean I also got to find someone (we have decided to open our marriage we just haven't yet).

But I want to be wildly turned on by her sexuality. Its easier with other women. I think it would be easier if I had a lover because then it wouldn't feel like he is getting something that I am not.

I would love to explore this with another woman... I want to have intimate moments of pleasure while she describes her past sexual adventures in delightful detail. I want to overwrite all my old fundamentalist Christian guilt and bullshit with hedonistic pleasure.

If any women want to explore that in chat or IRL in Colorado. Or men if you want to share how you became really turned on by it tjat would be awesome!

 

[Jseven82B]

It was always a thing for me. I remember reading stories in magazines when I was a teenager about couples openly sharing fantasies and being involved with other people. I loved reading about a wife getting home and telling all about her play date and the couple fucking like rabbits as she recounted her adventures. That was such a contrast to what I’d known before, I was amazed and devoured every story I could find. Still do that’s what brought me to Lit in the first place

It’s a turn on as long as it’s open and everyone is excited.

 

[FantasySharer1]

It started off being by seeing a specific man's dick. Pasting this from another thread because it summarizes my fantasy, which I would actually love if it came true at every level.

My absolute favorite fantasy would be for my wife's older brother to move into our house with us and become a second "husband" to her. The set up would be exclusive loyal between the three of us. I saw his dick in a locker room years ago and the fact that he's so much bigger and thicker than me never left my mind and turned into how wonderful it would be if he could please his baby sister - my wife - with it. The fact that they have an INCREDIBLY close, loving, hilarious, and kind relationship already just adds to it for me. If they weren't siblings they'd be perfect for each other. I fantasize about how the dynamic would be all the time.

1. Her brother would have equal sexual rights to her at any time.

2. We'd sleep in the same bed together, but have an extra bedroom in case one of us wanted to sleep or rest while the other two played.

3. He and I would both provide for our family while she stays at home

4. I'd regularly wake up to her pussy in my face dripping her brother's cum into my mouth because they'd have just fucked first thing in the morning right next to me.

5. He'd regularly eat her out after I've fucked her as well.

6. Threesomes where there's some double-vaginal penetration would be a regular part of our lives.

7. To take away the tension of having too many decision makers in the house, she'd get final say when he and I disagree on big family decisions.

8. He and I would trade sexual tips on how to please her.

9. We'd have free-use days where she'd be OK with us just having her whenever and however either of us want.

10. There would be many times where I'd lay under her pussy while he fucks her from behind or lay under her missionary style while he does the same, and vice-versa.

11. Fantasy-only since it's so unsafe: She'd have babies with both of us. We'd both get her pregnant so that our family is truly a blend of our relationships. I'd love to rub her feet while her brother's baby grows in her womb or watch him eat her pussy while she's 5 months pregnant with my child.

12. I love the idea of me and him having different fetishes with her. My wife and I would play with watersports and pee but she and her brother would do more BDSM stuff. We'd have different sex lives while sharing a sex life together.

13. I've thought about all the other details too and how our lives would go. He's more of a handyman and I'm more of the reader so we'd be able to teach our kids together and give them the best of all our skills.

14. I love the idea of them sharing intimate moments in front of me, like her hand on his chest or his hand on her ass while they kiss gently in the kitchen as I'm making dinner. Or him seeing me come up behind her and caressing her ass while I kiss her neck while she's cutting tomatoes. His little actions constantly reminding me: "I'm fucking your wife." and my actions constantly reminding him: "I'm fucking your baby sister."

15. Even in conversation we fulfill different parts of my wife's interests intellectually. It would be great to have us both around all the time to keep her consistently fulfilled with her two men.

16. The idea of me preparing her body for a hot night with him or vice-versa turns me on.

17. We have pretty much equal sexual access to her but because I am her husband but he is BOTH her lover AND her brother - he gets extra access - to her asshole. Only he gets to fuck her in the ass but NOT me. Every time I see her butt, I am reminded that the actual butt itself and the right to fuck it belongs to him, her big brother, only. Not me. I can touch her butt, kiss it, lick it, whatever, but I am not allowed to penetrate her ass - only he is.

We could pass it off as "her brother stays with us" but really, her brother would be her husband in every sense of the word alongside me. We'd share domestic tasks, chores, everything.

Nothing would please me more than to know that on any night I feel like reading or relaxing or seeing my friends instead of sex - her brother is there to absolutely pound her pussy and please her and make her scream in pleasure like there's no tomorrow. That I could come home to them snuggling in our bed, her pussy dripping with him so I could slowly lick her clean or slide in to take their sloppy seconds.

Sometimes I wonder if this is all just sexual fantasy, but the more I've thought about it over the years, I realize this is exactly how I'd want my life to be if I could change it.

 

[CuckGuy89]

Not sure... When my ex and I were together, she told me about her history and she told me that her and a guy I hated were fwb, and I had a deep sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach, but also got so hard which was so shocking to me. But I've come to accept how I feel and recognize that my gf having fun outside of me is a turn on

 

[Richelieujuniour]

My first experiences were with a couple, though i didn't know anything about hotwifing or cuckolding

it must have left its imprint because it is still my main thing

i am lucky enough to. be well-endowed, so alot of guys comeup to me in the gym and propose i 'meet' their wives....

 

[jakie69]

For us it came about from our past as swingers, my wife had a very high sex drive and we loved threesomes but she knew how much I got turned on by seeing her with another man. We role played a little as cuckold and Hotwife, just for fun initially but it turned into something more and eventually we realised it wasn’t just a fun thing anymore but an important part of our life

 

[dippety]

Having been part of it, I would say I didn't entirely understand what he got from it at the start, but I had a much better idea once we had played the "fantasy" a few times. This was a few years ago, and haven't been in a situation where I've done it again.

 

[Skyflyer4fun]

I've wanted my partner to fuck another guy since I was young enough to remember. My first wife knew that but wouldn't do it so I thought, I found out that she had been with numerous men while we were dating and married. Then I was a bull for a couple for about 1½years until they moved away. My second wife wanted nothing to do with it not even fantasizing. Now I've talked my Girlfriend into being my hotwife and fucking other men that we find together as long as I can watch and as many as I choose to fuck her at once. We are shopping for 3 - 4 men and hopefully soon she will be balls deep in pleasure. I think I'm more excited than she is. On the day of the event I will start her day with foreplay, teasing and manipulating her sweet pussy all day long not letting her cum. I think it will be unreal and the most pleasurable experience she had been through.

 

[DevilInDetail]

Built up over a number of years for me I think.

Started out as we were talking about threesomes more so from a FMF perspective, when she said it's only 'fair' (feminism?) that MFM is an option. Something about the idea of her being that 'slutty' (societies values?) turned me on.

From there I guess I explored the idea in my mind more, aided by online 'research'. Some swinging experience confirmed for me that I like to watch.

From there I guess I started to explore the power dynamics from a kinky perspective.

But while I say it grew, I don't think all seeds will grow for all people.

 

[Skyflyer4fun]

Built up over a number of years for me I think.

Started out as we were talking about threesomes more so from a FMF perspective, when she said it's only 'fair' (feminism?) that MFM is an option. Something about the idea of her being that 'slutty' (societies values?) turned me on.

From there I guess I explored the idea in my mind more, aided by online 'research'. Some swinging experience confirmed for me that I like to watch.

From there I guess I started to explore the power dynamics from a kinky perspective.

But while I say it grew, I don't think all seeds will grow for all people.

For me it is growing as I research and talk to other's about my needs, wants, and desires. I'm shopping for bulls and third party men that I know that I want to fuck my wife. Waiting for the day when the opportunity arises. I don't want to push it on her until she is ready to except and enjoy it fully.

 

[Buttercakes]

Getting involved in any type of sharing style sexual relationship is always very fascinating to see what lead people down that road and how their journey happened. I've seen some very complex ones like my own and some very simple ones where the man and woman simply both wanted to go for it. Love hearing about people's stories and adventures with this.

 

[TheFitLawyer]

I have been seeing couples and married women since my college days. Such an erotic experience joining them in whatever fashion they would like...

 

[One_ping_only]

I've had a thing for this hotwife fantasy for many, many years and though I've kept it to myself with my present wife of 20 years for the most part unmmmmm it remains to be my most thought of fantasy.

A fantasy always involving my wife however she'd never consent since she's very conservative so it'll just remain in the dakr side of my brain unfortunately.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

It developed for me about 6 or 7 years into our marriage. I talked about it with my wife and it came out that she had thought about it too, so we have had fun with it since, maybe cultivated it, but haven't made the leap.

 

[Richelieujuniour]

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It developed for me about 6 or 7 years into our marriage. I talked about it with my wife and it came out that she had thought about it too, so we have had fun with it since, maybe cultivated it, but haven't made the leap.

As long as you re both having fun!
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