Question to the gay/bi boys out there

[njdude18]

Alright guys I got a situation here so I'll explain myself. Being 18 and in college, I figure these few years are to be the peak of my sexual life so today I took a huge step on the other side with some guy I've been chatting with online. Up until today I've only been with girls, but I met this dude and we sat in his SUV for a few minutes and chatted, and then he had me suck his dick. I must say I enjoyed it, almost gagged a few times though since it was like 8'' but whatever. I sucked him for awhile and then he came in my mouth and that was it for today. Tomorrow I'm supposed to meet him again and take it a step further where he fucks me in the ass.

My question is... will this hurt? lol And also this guy kinda wants to bang me without a condom and cum in me but im not sure about that.. I know I'm clean and he claims he is but.. Anyway any advice before I go through with this?

 

[Chicklet]

Firstly, it will probably hurt.

Secondly, don't do anything without a condom. If he pushes towards specifically wanting to do it bareback, there's probably something sinister afoot.

Try not to be dumb and screw yourself up before you've even hit 20. The 'peak of your sexual life' is not worth screwing up the rest of it.

 

[alaskabibear]

I hope your post is a joke on us, but in the off chance that it isn't..... DUDE!!!! What the fuck are you thinking?

You pick up some strange guy that has probably poked more butt holes than a porn star and you are willing to risk the chance of getting HIV/AIDS all in the name of an experiment. Do tell us than you were joking.

 

[ooze]

I really hope he is joking also. Condoms are your friend, strangers who want to fuck you bareback in your ass are not.

 

[alaskabibear]

And one other thing I forgot to mention; I know that when you're 18 you can't really wrap your head around the idea of a bunch of old folks having sex - but, let me assure you that you will enjoy sex for many, many ,many years - PROVIDED that you don't contract some disease that would render you an unhealthy choice to other people. But you must know all of this; no?
(and an 8" cock is going to hurt for sure unless you have practiced a bit with toys for awhile)

 

[Etoile]

The original post does come off kind of flippant...I'm not sure it's for real either. But if it is, well...if college was the peak of one's sexual life, there would be a lot of unhappy 25-and-ups. And it's just not the case.

 

[jdntdp]

seriously...

I have to agree with my frie.... ugh... these people I dont know at all...

Seriously.. first... don't do anything that you are not 100% comfortable with.

Second... NEVER meet some random guy in a car EVER EVER EVER AGAIN!

Finally... the best way for you to contract HIV is to be penetrated. Seriously...

Do not meet this guy again. If you want to be gay then thats up to you. You want to go out like a fool... you have a chance not too.

 

[tigervixen]

The original post does come off kind of flippant....

Yeah but keep in mind a lot of kids (18 and older kids even) do talk kind of "flippant". And it's proven that the brain does not finish development until early-mid 20's. Not putting the OP down or anything, just stating a fact. I did some risky things when I was around his age and was probably just as flippant about it.

To the original poster...if you enjoy it, go for it...but by all means protect yourself. I know it's hard to think to the future but really, you want to keep your dick, huh? And first time anal-sex will probably bring blood. And other stuff, if you catch my drift...if you don't clean properly down there. Condoms are this guy's friend too.