Question on sub/domme relationship

[romurs]

Hey all,



I'm intensely curious about the domme/sub relationship. I realize that there are numerous ways that this may play out with each couple, but could someone please give me some information regarding the particulars. For example, in a part time relationship (as opposed to a "live-in, full time") how does it work USUALLY? Is there a regularly scheduled meeting time? Once they get together, what, exactly happens (again, just some ideas)? Is there often a sexual (meaning actual oral/sexual penetration) component, or is it not so common? How does one find a domme? Any help that could be provided would be greatly appreciated. Again, I realize that it's hard to nail down specifics for each couple, but I would like a rough idea of what happens. Perhaps someone would illuminate me.

Jack

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... I'm intensely curious about the domme/sub relationship.

We have a library thread at the top of the page broken down into several categories. If that doesn't get you where you wish to go, try a search on the BDSM Talk and Cafe Forums using terms from the questions you've asked.

For example, the following link titled Exploration contains several threads along the lines of "Woo hoo, BDSM, where do i go from here?"

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=298225

The next link is a major listing concerning relationships.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=164680

You might enjoy the discussion here as well:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=179518&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Feel free to ask a question, or contribute a view based on any of the thoughts in any of the threads.

Oh, and welcome to the deep end. Enjoy your swim.

 

[Etoile]

AA already said it all so well. My only addition is that you are correct about things playing out different from couple to couple. There is no one right way to have a D/s relationship. What works for some people may not work for others. It's completely different strokes for different folks here.

Have fun reading!