Question? New experiences and Sex.

[lustforlife74]

Is it more sexy to have an experience unique to both parties or is more sexy for one person to know more?

Female and Male posts wanted.

 

[Foxy Wench]

I love a man who is more experienced than me. Someone who can teach me things I need and want to learn.

 

[lustforlife74]

Thanks Foxy.

This is not really a personal. I have a theory that women are going to tend to want a more experienced man and men will tend to want a equal or less experienced female.

This will not be true in all cases, but I'm curious how it turns out.

 

[double16in]

I vote for a woman who knows more....while I'm not totally inexperienced (after 32 years of enjoying the fairer sex), I do much prefer a woman who knows more about erotic pleasures and how to receive and give them....

I'd imagine that most men who like women who have less experience are really more into control than sharing...but that's just my two cents worth.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Is it more sexy to have an experience unique to both parties or is more sexy for one person to know more?

Female and Male posts wanted.

It really depends upon the experience, I think. There are some things that I've shared for the first time with a lover that were firsts for him too. The learning and exploring together was wonderful.

But for most things, I prefer to know more than my partner. I love amazing him with things I'll do that he hasn't ever experienced.

 

[lustforlife74]

I vote for a woman who knows more....while I'm not totally inexperienced (after 32 years of enjoying the fairer sex), I do much prefer a woman who knows more about erotic pleasures and how to receive and give them....

I'd imagine that most men who like women who have less experience are really more into control than sharing...but that's just my two cents worth.

Agreed age, experience, and maturity have alot to offer. Women hit their sexual peak late 20's and early 30's and men hit it at 18-19. Sad state of affairs I say.

 

[lustforlife74]

Re: Re: Question? New experiences and Sex.

It really depends upon the experience, I think. There are some things that I've shared for the first time with a lover that were firsts for him too. The learning and exploring together was wonderful.

But for most things, I prefer to know more than my partner. I love amazing him with things I'll do that he hasn't ever experienced.

This is why I asked this question. Some of the most wonderful experiences are of when both are exploring each other. But the more you get to know a partner the better you become at pleasing them. Anyway, Thanks for the post.

 

[plesmone]

I'm glad the days of some guy trying figure out what turns me on are gone!! Although too much experience may breed a little contempt?

 

[lustforlife74]

I'm glad the days of some guy trying figure out what turns me on are gone!! Although too much experience may breed a little contempt?

Yes, I never thought of it that way. Too much experience can kill the love that can make something last. There are also two types of sex not caring and caring.

 

[RomanHans]

I'm a bit torn--I voted for a partner (female) who is more experienced than me, but that may be because I don't consider myself very experienced, and I suspect I have latent submissive tendencies so I like to be led or taught...plus I've always favored women older than myself.

The question really turns as much on what you believe is "sexy" as what you consider "experienced." I associate "sexy" with seduction, so the idea of sex with a "Mrs. Robinson" icon is sexy to me...If I'm the one doing the seducing, I find it erotic and enjoyable but not "sexy" in the same way at all.

Roman

 

[capricious_chic]

While I have enjoyed being with a partner who knows more than me, and I have enjoyed being with a partner who knows less than me.. I have found that I most like being with a partner that has the equivalent, yet different experiences than I. Someone who is open-minded, and willing to experiment. Someone with imagination, and a desire to explore. I don't care to follow, nor do I care to lead.. I want a partner.

 

[capricious_chic]

While I have enjoyed being with a partner who knows more than me, and I have enjoyed being with a partner who knows less than me.. I have found that I most like being with a partner that has the equivalent, yet different experiences than I. Someone who is open-minded, and willing to experiment. Someone with imagination, and a desire to explore. I don't care to follow, nor do I care to lead.. I want a partner.