Question: How (or Whether) To Initiate FMF Threesome With Wife & Friend
My wife and I have a divorced female friend who is a couple of years older than us. We often do things together and have similar tastes in music, movies, etc. She is very affectionate and often hugs me, while I sometimes give her back and neck rubs and put my arm around her. She seems very comfortable with sitting close between us on the couch and is not bashful about deliberately displaying glimpses of her body. We are all in the same shape...a few pounds overweight but all reasonably attractive. She and I have both told each other that we would be interested in the other if we were both single, and my wife has often commented on how pretty our friend is.
Now that you know the facts, what are the chances that a threesome might develop? How does one broach the subject without shocking or offending someone? My wife has never shown any overt signs of being bicurious, and I don't know if she would be into sharing even if the friend was interested. Like most males, a threesome is a favorite fantasy, especially if it went all the way including woman to woman lovemaking (even restricted to kissing and touching). My inclinations are to let the women take the lead and not bring it up. I would hate to damage a good relationship with either wife or friend. I care about both very much.
Any advice? Particularly interested in hearing from those who have had this experience (whether positive or negative). Should this just remain a fantasy?
My wife and I have a divorced female friend who is a couple of years older than us. We often do things together and have similar tastes in music, movies, etc. She is very affectionate and often hugs me, while I sometimes give her back and neck rubs and put my arm around her. She seems very comfortable with sitting close between us on the couch and is not bashful about deliberately displaying glimpses of her body. We are all in the same shape...a few pounds overweight but all reasonably attractive. She and I have both told each other that we would be interested in the other if we were both single, and my wife has often commented on how pretty our friend is.
Now that you know the facts, what are the chances that a threesome might develop? How does one broach the subject without shocking or offending someone? My wife has never shown any overt signs of being bicurious, and I don't know if she would be into sharing even if the friend was interested. Like most males, a threesome is a favorite fantasy, especially if it went all the way including woman to woman lovemaking (even restricted to kissing and touching). My inclinations are to let the women take the lead and not bring it up. I would hate to damage a good relationship with either wife or friend. I care about both very much.
Any advice? Particularly interested in hearing from those who have had this experience (whether positive or negative). Should this just remain a fantasy?
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