Question for women

[Hawks_Titansfan]

Does it effect your throughts of a person by the look on
his face the first time you see him?If so,how much of a
impact does it have?

Like when I go out in public I have natural non pleasant
look expression on my face.I don't mean to look or seem
like a asshole,but I always have a mean look on my face.
Does that effect if you would talk to the guy or not?

 

[Kasha]

in my opinion....

Sure. I mean, I know that if I am out and about and I see someone looking not so pleasant I don't go out of my way to engage them in conversation.

I myself am not a big "smiley" type of person. I can seem guarded when I am out in public. Some people that I have met have said when they have first met me that I seemed mad, or like I was "not to be fucked with." That is just my usual thing though. I am pleasant and funny and all those things... but I guess in certain situations I want to have some type of "armor."

The impact can be huge but it can be overlooked if you are totally opposite of what people expect. I hope that helps.... Oh, nice to meet ya.. I'm Kasha..

 

[Hawks_Titansfan]

I'm undergoing changes.People used to tell me
that I was a sweet person.But I just changed for
whatever reason I dunno.

I've missed being a good person.The last few years
I have grown to hate things and people for no reasons.

Gota bring the smile back!Who knows,it might also bring
the confidences that I have lacked for the last few years=)

 

[Guest]

 

[FieryKitty]

What happened to change you? Was it very gradual for no reason or did something bad happen to change the way you look at the world?

Oh, and just because you feel differently toward people doesn't mean you aren't a good person any more. Just because you aren't happy doesn't mean you aren't good.

I don't really have any advice, but I can sympathize. I don't get approached too often when I'm out unless I've had a few drinks. I guess that lets me open up a bit more. I usually have a serious look on my face. It's not on purpose - it's just how my face is put together, so unless I'm actually smiling that's how I look. Oh, and I can't fake a smile either. It just looks dumb.

 

[~liv~]

the real person is MORE than a look on a face... dont u think? xoxoxoxoxox

 

[AusTess]

If people judge on first expressions?*l*
I'm in big fucking trouble.

I'm one sour bitch.
Til i warm to ya.


But once i've warmed?
*Shivers*
You better be careful.

 

[luv2tvl69]

Does it effect your throughts of a person by the look on
his face the first time you see him?If so,how much of a
impact does it have?

Like when I go out in public I have natural non pleasant
look expression on my face.I don't mean to look or seem
like a asshole,but I always have a mean look on my face.
Does that effect if you would talk to the guy or not?

I would guess in a way it would. If someone has an "unapproachable" or "I'm an asshole" look, generally I wouldnt approach them. Basically out of #1 fear (there are alot of unstable people out there, and without knowing someone, ya just dont know) and #2 respect of their space--those looks imply they have wide spacial boundaries.

I am generally always approachable (downright goofy...LOL), but sometimes just want to be left alone. I am sure it shows on my face.

 

[Lady Violet]

What an interesting question. I often watch people when im sitting along somewhere, the park, library, waiting for the bus and I see how people are dressed, the way they walk..etc. I've often looked at how people project themselves, usually by their facial expressions and I can tell you that most people dont smile a lot unless they are passing someone they know or are being polite.

Dont ever do this, cause it might get you in trouble, but once I went walking downtown and smiled the whole time, wishing everyone a pleasant day, even going as far as telling them i like a part of their clothing. I told this guy I liked his tie, and he shouted at me to leave him alone. Man, did the people stare!! I never felt more humiliated. So I retaliated!!

I said "Hey, i was just trying to be nice, letting you know that I liked your tie and I WAS going to say that I hoped you had a sunshine day but I think I'll tell someone else" and I walked away!