Question for the Ladies

[BFandGF]

I have a question for ladies. Actually I have a few questions.

1) can I get some tips on how to give mind blowing oral?

2) Im interested in the cuckhold fantacy is that wrong?

3) how can I get my gf into bed with another women?

4) is it possible to be addicted to this site?

 

[SweetErika]

I have a question for ladies. Actually I have a few questions.

1) can I get some tips on how to give mind blowing oral?

Go through post #2 of The Blank Manual sticky.

2) Im interested in the cuckhold fantacy is that wrong?

Nope.

3) how can I get my gf into bed with another women?

You can't get your gf to do anything she doesn't want to do.

Plus, you haven't given us nearly enough info to answer this question fully. Have you talked to her about your interest? What did she say?

4) is it possible to be addicted to this site?

Sure. If you're spending time here instead of tending to your RL obligations, you may have a problem.

 

[BFandGF]

I have talked to her about a threesome. She said that I would have to pick the girl. And thats where I am having a problem, how do I pick a girl. If she is hot then maybe my girl would get jealous....but i dont know. She doesnt seem to want to discuss it.

And this site doesnt affect my life, but it seems to be the only site i want to actually visit.

 

[SweetErika]

I have talked to her about a threesome. She said that I would have to pick the girl. And thats where I am having a problem, how do I pick a girl. If she is hot then maybe my girl would get jealous....but i dont know. She doesnt seem to want to discuss it.

That sounds like a HUGE red flag to me. Bringing other people into a relationship has a lot of implications that need to be discussed. If she won't communicate about it beforehand, how can you be reasonably assured she'll discuss any problems that may arise during or after the threesome? You'll have a lot of talking to do if you get an STI (condoms don't protect against everything and can fail), the other girl gets pregnant or there is emotional turmoil.

Is having a threesome worth ruining your relationship? If so, don't worry about who you pick and go for it. If not, leave it as a fantasy unless you're assured your gf is an eager participant.

 

[BFandGF]

Yeah thats what it sounded like to me.

So I think I should just keep it a fantacy, and just work on my oral skills...

 

[Annabell4you]

That sounds like a HUGE red flag to me. Bringing other people into a relationship has a lot of implications that need to be discussed. If she won't communicate about it beforehand, how can you be reasonably assured she'll discuss any problems that may arise during or after the threesome? You'll have a lot of talking to do if you get an STI (condoms don't protect against everything and can fail), the other girl gets pregnant or there is emotional turmoil.

Is having a threesome worth ruining your relationship? If so, don't worry about who you pick and go for it. If not, leave it as a fantasy unless you're assured your gf is an eager participant.

Well put, IF she was interested she would come back to you with a girl in mind. Some of the things to think about are the ground rules. There are many different kinds of threesomes. For example: I would say that if my man and I were to do it, oral would be the limit for her. If that makes sense. I am perfectly capable of getting a woman off. We would both be happy to please him. Common ground rules...

But like the above said. You have to decide if it's worth losing her over...

 

[Noor]

Yeah thats what it sounded like to me.

So I think I should just keep it a fantacy, and just work on my oral skills...

I agree, fantasy is often better than reality in these cases.