Question for the Ladies

[batter]

i would like to know some answers to the following question if you wouldn't mind answering.

How and When did you know your sexual orientation?

How do you know if you are Bi, Bi-Curious, or Gay?

Feel free to private e-mail me here at Lit. if you prefer not to post on the board.

I will also provide my reasons to you then if you need to know any info. by return e-mail if you so wish.

Thankyou all in advance.

 

[unusuallyconfused]

i would like to know some answers to the following question if you wouldn't mind answering.

How and When did you know your sexual orientation?


I never questioned although I absolutely knew when I was about thirteen and was at a slumber party and a couple of girls made the moves on me. I wasn't at all interested.

How do you know if you are Bi, Bi-Curious, or Gay?

I think there is a fascination with the forbidden and unfamiliar. I have thought about the gay type of relationships, but I have never ever been attracted to the same sex in real life. I know for sure that I am none of the above. No questions about it.

I guess this isn't much help for you since I haven't any of those tendencies. I wish you well with what you are seeking.

Feel free to private e-mail me here at Lit. if you prefer not to post on the board.

I will also provide my reasons to you then if you need to know any info. by return e-mail if you so wish.

Thankyou all in advance.

 

[Mistress]

How and When did you know your sexual orientation?

How do you know if you are Bi, Bi-Curious, or Gay?

For years I fought the fact that I was attracted to other women, I thought of it as being sick and not right. Then I started realizing how turned on I got when looking at photos of women. When I came to Lit, I was still fighting the fact, sure I joked about being Bi-Sexual but I never thought I really would be. Then one day I found a picture of a woman, a drawing that made me melt in my seat. My mind had been opened up already from all the different people here, and I began to understand my body more.
Porn of women made me wetter, then porn of just men, I also started regretting the chance I had to make out with another woman that I turned down.

Soon I admitted to myself that women made me hot....very hot, and that one day I hoped to be with another one.

Soo, I am Bi-Curious

 

[Guest]

How and When did you know your sexual orientation?

I had the idea or crazed thought of my orientation when I was about 11 years old. But I really didn't get the 'whole picture' until about five years ago, when having sexual relations with my then boyfriend, I started fantasizing about another woman going down on me instead of him

How do you know if you are Bi, Bi-Curious, or Gay?
right now I am bi curious.... the reason is.... I haven't found the right person to experiement with. And how did I know? Well... if you are bi... then you have had some kind of experience with the same sex......... if you are curious... you're just what it says... curious..

and if you are gay...... I don't think you would even entertain the idea of having sex with a member of the opposite sex..... you would be completely same sex oriented.

 

[Mistress]

Re: Re: Question for the Ladies

How and When did you know your sexual orientation?

I had the idea or crazed thought of my orientation when I was about 11 years old. But I really didn't get the 'whole picture' until about five years ago, when having sexual relations with my then boyfriend, I started fantasizing about another woman going down on me instead of him

Exactly!

 

[Guest]

hehe I just read my post...

damn......... is it just me or did I actually sound smart?? LOL

 

[batter]

Jaded

you sounded smart...and sure of yourself.

i think i am beginning to get some understanding of this.


i hope i can understand more as the thread continues.


both you and Mistress are very kind to have replied and UnusuallyConfused...you are helpful as well.