Question for the Ladies

[Virgin Man]

My Girlfriend and I have just begun to share a bed on occasion. We are not sexually active, but within the bounds posed by being clothed, there is a certain amount of physicallity. Sometimes, rather often actually, when we are cuddling, she will take my let and place it between hers. She will then drive (repeatedly) her groin into my leg. I'm too shy to ask her what she is doing (I also don't think that she would be comfortable with me asking either).

Can any of the ladies here help me?

Thanks,

 

[bobsgirl]

That position provides wonderful clitoral stimulation, VM. She's doing it because it feels pretty darn good!

 

[mymuffin]

My Girlfriend and I have just begun to share a bed on occasion. We are not sexually active, but within the bounds posed by being clothed, there is a certain amount of physicallity. Sometimes, rather often actually, when we are cuddling, she will take my let and place it between hers. She will then drive (repeatedly) her groin into my leg. I'm too shy to ask her what she is doing (I also don't think that she would be comfortable with me asking either).

Can any of the ladies here help me?

Thanks,

No reason other than it feels good to her unless she is just teasing you. Have either one of you been sexually active before?? I would guess not and that your are pretty young. Go slow and dont rush into anything.

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

She's humping, or grinding your leg. It feels good!

When you're hard, return the favor. It's exciting to feel that hardness pressing against you!

 

[sheath]

I sincerely hope that while she is doing this, your hands are on her hips or her thigh, holding her close to you, while you whisper not-so-nice things into her ear.

S.

 

[DarkMuse]

Mmmm..grinding. Yeah--nice to do, and nice to be done to...

I LOVE grinding with my boyfriend, fully clothed, with his erection rubbing against my groin...reminds me of being naughty on the couch in my parents' basement when I was a teenager...

 

[crazybbwgirl]

ahhh - a good old fashioned dry hump.... yes - many memories of being on the couch with a boyfriend - mom and dad in the other room - silent orgasms - mmmmmmm I still like to straddle my lover when we're clothed and rub a bit - drives him wild!

 

[College_geek]

I loved doing that with my boyfriend, but we haven't done that in a few months... Looks like I have something to add to my list of stuff to do on Valentine's Day.

 

[Virgin Man]

Follow-Up Question

Ladies:

My sincerest thanks to one and all for your insights.

Is there anything that I can (should) be doing to help increase the pleausre that she is getting?

Thanks,


VM

 

[College_geek]

Re: Follow-Up Question

Ladies:

My sincerest thanks to one and all for your insights.

Is there anything that I can (should) be doing to help increase the pleausre that she is getting?

Thanks,


VM

You should be asking her, my dear. She's the one who will know best what works and doesn't work for her. Maybe she wants you to do something to help her or maybe she's perfectly content working by herself and just likes you near her. It may be a little embarrassing to ask her, especially if you haven't mentioned it before, but it's the only way for you to get a straight answer. Good luck, Don Juan.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

ahhh - a good old fashioned dry hump.... yes - many memories of being on the couch with a boyfriend - mom and dad in the other room - silent orgasms - mmmmmmm I still like to straddle my lover when we're clothed and rub a bit - drives him wild!

^_~ it's the other way around for me, it doesn't too to much for me but it drives my SO wild, CG really seems to love it.

-Zergplex