Question for the ladies on here!

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You can buy a vaginal dilator kit online. Get one with a vibrator base and interchangeable dildos. Smallest is like a finger and they get wider and longer. You can gradually open the vagina this way. If there is discomfort, use a lidocaine cream that is used for hemmrhoids around the opening of the vagina.
Having an orgasm with a hitachi or other external vibrator releases endorphins and reduces pain and increases lubrication.

Use lube on the dilation dildos and turn on the vibrator as you insert...the vibration also reduces pain.

Congratulations...you aren't losing anything...you are gaining sexual experience.

If you need to, see a hypnotist and get that "sex is painful" programming out of your head.

Lidocaine seems like a very bad idea. Pain and is giving you useful information. Pain signals do not exist simply because God is s a sadist.

 

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