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Beck31

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Have you ever been nervous to get naked in front of your lover?
 
Okay. I admit I was nervous and she was unsure. She tended to downplay her looks.
 
Ive never been nervous about getting naked. The excitement and adrenaline take over and i dont think about it.
 
I will admit I do get nervous ~ and still after 27 years of marriage ~ still feel uncomfortable about it ~ know I shouldnt but I do.
 
The first few times I was very nervous but now I'm fine. I was worried because I'm overweight that he might be put off. For the same reason I actually held off being naked with him for longer than I really wanted to.
 
May I ask your height? I won't ask about weight. For the record she is 5'6", 175 lbs so she was unsure too.
 
Some people may feel nervous. Especially if it is the first time. Or if they are athletic.
 
Have you ever been nervous to get naked in front of your lover?

No and I've tried to make partners also feel comfortable. Nobody is perfect and nobody has a perfect body. Anybody who expects perfection is unrealistic, immature, and unreasonable....nice way of saying jerk. I've learned that the best sex partners are not always the ones with the best body or who are the prettiest. It's all about the lack of inhibition and the willingness to share oneself. It's being respectful as well as being considerate, passionate, patient, open minded, vulnerable, unafraid, non-judgemental, eager to please, happy to be pleased, and not taking yourself or life too seriously.
 
No and I've tried to make partners also feel comfortable. Nobody is perfect and nobody has a perfect body. Anybody who expects perfection is unrealistic, immature, and unreasonable....nice way of saying jerk. I've learned that the best sex partners are not always the ones with the best body or who are the prettiest. It's all about the lack of inhibition and the willingness to share oneself. It's being respectful as well as being considerate, passionate, patient, open minded, vulnerable, unafraid, non-judgemental, eager to please, happy to be pleased, and not taking yourself or life too seriously.

Nicely stated; and I envy your self esteem!

I keep trying to keep that framework in mind but still feel self conscious about being naked in front of others, more so those I do not know well but even a little with even with my spouse.

You are right about looks though, none of us are perfect.....
 
I kinda used to be before having my kid. After 36 hours of labor and hubby watching everything, now I could care less.
 
Nope. Never been nervous about getting naked in front of someone I'm about to have sex with, but then I'm not one for one night stands. If I'm fucking a girl, it means that she and I are at least good friends.
 
One night stands never end well. Someone usually winds up getting hurt. I usually remain freinds with the few women I have slept with on more than one occasion.
 
Have you ever been nervous to get naked in front of your lover?

Nope, I haven't. Not even the first times. Why be shy about who you are? They obviously like you anyway or you wouldn't be getting naked in the first place... :)
 
Yes I've always been nervous

Especially in the beginning. But since having a blog and sharing my body for all to see. My self esteem has improved. It's still a work in progress! Body issues for bbw's are not uncommon. Being comfortable in your own skin is not always easy. Again it's a work in progress! But I'm so much better than I used to be and takingand receiving compliments hasn't always been easy either. But still working on it. I have read many men's perspectives on Bbw's and this has truly helped with my confidence issues ! Thanks to all who have visited my blog and have commented!

http://dreamykittenexposed.blogspot.com/ :kiss:
 
I've not actually ever been nervous to get naked in front of a lover.
 
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