question: bi/straight?

KarenM411

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So I was in a long discussion with a friend who said I was bi because I find women attractive however I explained to her that while I do do find women attractive I have no desire to have a monogamous romantic relationship with a women, so I consider myself straight. Obviously I know how I feel but thoughts (for bragging right I suppose )?
 
I'm with you

Finding someone attractive, even of the same sex, doesn't mean you want to fuck them.
 
Well, since the terms both end with "sexual", for me you don't count on a category of such if you don't want to engage in any sexual activity with a member of said sex.

I can say without problems "this guy is hot", but I find no desire to kiss (even less have sex with) guys. I consider myself straight and without issues to admit attractiveness.
 
Just b/c you find a person of the same sex attractive doesn't mean you're sexually attracted to them.

Your question makes me think of an exerpt from 27bslash6

"While I do not have a boyfriend, I do have a friend who is homosexual and I once asked him "Do you ever think about having sex with me because you are gay?" to which he replied "Do you ever think about having sex with Rosie O'Donnell because you are straight?..."
 
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