Question about the BDSM personals

[thoughtfuldomination]

Okay, not really much of a question, just more of a rant.

Why is it that whenever someone(usually female it seems) posts something in the personals, about wanting to meet someone, the thread inmediatly gets flooded with posts like "text me then slut" or "your master commands you to give me your im".

Am I just completely offbase in thinking that the one that originally posted would just totally ignore those things?

 

[AAkasha]

Okay, not really much of a question, just more of a rant.

Why is it that whenever someone(usually female it seems) posts something in the personals, about wanting to meet someone, the thread inmediatly gets flooded with posts like "text me then slut" or "your master commands you to give me your im".

Am I just completely offbase in thinking that the one that originally posted would just totally ignore those things?

I think a few things happen. First, the guy got off on typing the "command" in the first place. Then, if she's for real, she will ignore those "commands" anyway, you're right. If the "master" does get an IM from the person who posted a personal and hot, nasty cyberdomming occurs --- "she" was probably a "he" to begin with.

Akasha

 

[Marquis]

That goes right along with my theory that 95% of cybersex is male on male, although often under the guises of m/f or even f/f fantasy fun.

 

[Xelebes]

That goes right along with my theory that 95% of cybersex is male on male, although often under the guises of m/f or even f/f fantasy fun.

Wanna fuck?

 

[Marquis]

Wanna fuck?

Will you be the girl?

 

[graceanne]

Wanna fuck?

Oh my innocent ears! (or eyes, whatever)

 

[Xelebes]

Will you be the girl?

Sure thing, sweetie.

 

[Marquis]

Sure thing, sweetie.

 

[Seduce]

That goes right along with my theory that 95% of cybersex is male on male, although often under the guises of m/f or even f/f fantasy fun.

The idea of cybersex is ridicolous to me in general. Like when you are out of cigarettes and someone sends you a pic of Marlboro.
Sex, for me, is about touching and smelling in the first place.

But, I use webcam a lot for chatting, and it is really the best way to find out who is who.
There is a webcam chat adult site (I am not going to advertise now) and since we payed lifetime gold nick, we have option to hold a chatroom and have administration rights on it. So we limited people that can come in only to ones that have open webcam running.

Believe me, it is so much fun when we gather there (we have about 10-15 regular chatfriends with cams) and chat, and we can actually see each other typing, laughing, waving...... almost like we are all sitting in the same room in RL.
I can hardly wait for voice chat to be included there.

But the point is that none can fool us about their gender or appearance.

 

[Xelebes]

*snuggles close*

*purrs*

 

[chris9]

*snuggles close*

*purrs*

OMG, I'm just imagining how your skeleton (or alien or whatever) is snuggling close to Marquis on this bench and then him jumping away to flee into the sea in one heroic leap...

 

[wolf2002]

The idea of cybersex is ridicolous to me in general. Like when you are out of cigarettes and someone sends you a pic of Marlboro.
Sex, for me, is about touching and smelling in the first place.

Most cybersex is about touching and smelling as well, though the touching and smelling will be of yourself...

Cybersex is wonderful but you shouldn;t compare it with RL sex... compare it to reading an erotic story (thats what Lit's about anyway), but then interactive...

To me, creating a sexual fantasy with another, somtimes a complete stranger, is very arousing... I have had mindblowing orgasms that way, especially when it involves scenes I can't (or don;t want) create in RL...

Marquis' percentage of fakers is highly overrated imo... I think I can judge from the style if I am chatting with a male or female, but I don't exclude the possibility that I am fooled once or twice... who cares as long as its hot...

 

[Seduce]

Most cybersex is about touching and smelling as well, though the touching and smelling will be of yourself...

I dont care about touching myself very much, I prefere someone else does it.
It is again "I like, you like" stuff and I am not discussing that.
*shrug*

Edited to add: Well, you might not care who is on the other side as long it is hot, I am the kind of person who hates to be deceived. I dont lie so I expect the same in return.

 

[wolf2002]

Well, you might not care who is on the other side as long it is hot, I am the kind of person who hates to be deceived. I dont lie so I expect the same in return.

I am not saying that I don;t care about who's on the other side, just that I take the risk of being fooled once or twice. Things can become very personal, passionate and intimate, even loving sometimes, so I usually find out soon enough if the other is who she says she is...

And I learn that honesty pays. Once a girl described herself to me in the beginning of an online romance as a supermodel (which always raises an eyebrow) but after two sessions confessed she was really not that slender... she was so glad to find out I have a thing for BBW.... things went pretty well from that moment on...

 

[Marquis]

*snuggles close*

*purrs*

What do you look like?

 

[Kajira Callista]

What do you look like?

*watches xelebes get pale and tremble*

 

[Marquis]

*watches xelebes get pale and tremble*

oooooo, I'm all about pale and trembling.

 

[Kajira Callista]

oooooo, I'm all about pale and trembling.

and of course i know that

 

[graceanne]

I dont care about touching myself very much, I prefere someone else does it.
It is again "I like, you like" stuff and I am not discussing that.
*shrug*

With me, I just don't like it, cause no matter what, you're in control. I can't get off, unless someone else is in control. period.

 

[Xelebes]

What do you look like?

Auburn hair to my hips, green eyes, size C, five foot six and ready!

 

[Seduce]

Auburn hair to my hips, green eyes, size C, five foot six and ready!

Yes, your av definitelly shows it http://www.kat-s.com/24.gif

 

[Marquis]

Auburn hair to my hips, green eyes, size C, five foot six and ready!

Are you into midget scat?

 

[SueJ]

oooooo, I'm all about pale and trembling.

*Pulling up a chair to watch*

 

[Xelebes]

Are you into midget scat?

AM I EVER!!!

 

[chris9]

Watching the show would be much more interesting if you would explain 'midget scat'... Please?