Kidnapped my hubby of 12 years for Valentines day and surprised him by taking him out to a strip club. I am happy to report that he was really really surprised when we got out of the car. We had a great time...expecially afterwards,,hehe. What I need to know is, if one of the girls asks " are you two ready for a dance"....what does this mean or include?? I really wanted to buy him a lapdance, but when she asked us as a couple it threw me and I was kind of speechless.... Can anyone help me? We would like to go and do this again, but would like to know some terminology for the next time.....Thanks
Question about strip clubs
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wkdclwn
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depends
It all depends on the dancer from my experience. Some may want to give you more than a little dance while others may just give a dance and leave it at that. So in all honesty the only way to know what to expect is to try it and see. Even in one club each dancer may have a different view on what exactly is entitled in a private dance. I have noticed here though that women get the preffered treatment from alot of the dancers.
Hope this helps you somewhat. Later.
It all depends on the dancer from my experience. Some may want to give you more than a little dance while others may just give a dance and leave it at that. So in all honesty the only way to know what to expect is to try it and see. Even in one club each dancer may have a different view on what exactly is entitled in a private dance. I have noticed here though that women get the preffered treatment from alot of the dancers.
Hope this helps you somewhat. Later.
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Isn't discovery half the adventure? You are obviously an easy going adventurous person so why not give it a go next time. Lapdances are fun for a couple. just remember the more upmarket the club, the better the dancers. Also you are less likely to have a sleazy experience in an upmarket club.
Or so I have been told by my Christian Discovery fellows....
Or so I have been told by my Christian Discovery fellows....
wannaknow said:
Your husband didn't know the lingo??? Despite my dislike for strip clubs, when a girl asks for a dance, it will include a dance for one song. If it is a lapdance, it will be for only one of you (contact). If it is a table dance (no contact) it may be for both of you. Chairs can be positioned so you may both enjoy the action.
All clubs, girls and local laws are different. If you are uncertain, ask the bouncer at the door or ask the girls directly. They are generally very sweet and happy to tell you how to get the $$$ from your pocket to their garter.
We live in rural Iowa and there is not much opportunity to visit clubs unless you want to drive for 3-4 hours to get to a good one. I have been to a couple on Bourbon Street in New Orleans, and he has been to a couple for Bachelor parties, but for the most part we just keep each other entertained...lol....but I decided it would be fun for us to go together, and i was right. I guess the ultimate goal in doing this together is to expand our twosome to a threesome. Not neccessarly a stripper, but as a test to see if I have the dreaded jealousy syndrome...Thanks for the feedback keep it coming
zantac666
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I don't go to stip clubs much but a friend takes me now and then on my birthday he got me a lap dance she can touch but the customer can't she would grind herself on my leg and sit on my lap and move around and do things to get you heated if the girl is in the mood she may flash her pussy.
each state is different. So good luck and have fun.
each state is different. So good luck and have fun.
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An interesting idea!
Hiya wannaknow:
as a test to see if I have the dreaded jealousy syndrome...
I applaud you not only on your gracious gift to your hubby but on your ingenuity. Taking the opportunity to see how the "Green Eyed Monster"(jealousy) would react is a great idea! You and hubby are in control and the action has a limited time frame. This way after each of you have had your dance you can discuss how you both feel about how or if you should continue. Your research is sure to be fruitfull and your thoughtfulness rewarding!
Now, the dance! The advice given so far is right on teh money in my opinion. The best way to know what you can expect is to choose a dancer to share, or each of you choose your own, then ask the dancer/s! A good dancer knows what they can and can't do a particular clubs. Remember they are entertainers and that they want to entertain you and your hubby. It isn't personal, it's only physical!
Seriously, all clubs and all dancers are different. Ask the dancer/s you choose and they will be glad to discuss what you can expect.
privy
p.s. - if they will let you TAKE PICTURES LOL
Hiya wannaknow:
as a test to see if I have the dreaded jealousy syndrome...
I applaud you not only on your gracious gift to your hubby but on your ingenuity. Taking the opportunity to see how the "Green Eyed Monster"(jealousy) would react is a great idea! You and hubby are in control and the action has a limited time frame. This way after each of you have had your dance you can discuss how you both feel about how or if you should continue. Your research is sure to be fruitfull and your thoughtfulness rewarding!
Now, the dance! The advice given so far is right on teh money in my opinion. The best way to know what you can expect is to choose a dancer to share, or each of you choose your own, then ask the dancer/s! A good dancer knows what they can and can't do a particular clubs. Remember they are entertainers and that they want to entertain you and your hubby. It isn't personal, it's only physical!
Seriously, all clubs and all dancers are different. Ask the dancer/s you choose and they will be glad to discuss what you can expect.
privy
p.s. - if they will let you TAKE PICTURES LOL
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