Question about male vibrator

[Gainlove]

I'm going shopping tomorrow for a vibrator for my guy I've been to a lot of online shops trying to research so that I'm some what knowledgeable when I get to the shop.

What I don't understand/see is there a difference between a vibrator for a woman and a man. I've done searches on the sites for "prostate" but nothing comes up specifically for that prostate. Is there a special type or shape that I need to get? I want to get one that actually vibrates, I'm not coordinated enough to keep a good movement going while also giving him oral sex.

Can anyone help me bring maximum pleasure to my guy?

 

[SweetErika]

G-spot vibes = prostate vibes. Like the g-spot, the prostate is on the front wall of the rectum a couple of inches up and can be stimulated by hooking the fingers and stroking in a 'come here' motion (but generally not as roughly as the g-spot). So, you might look for something that has a curved shape, although prostate stimulation can be achieved by adjusting the angle and with a stronger vibration, as well.

Think about materials. Jelly, rubber, cyberskin, and soft plastics are porous and you must use a condom if you don't want your toy infested with fecal bacteria. Some materials, like many vinyls and pure silicone toys, can be disinfected - for vibes, that usually means putting the insertable part in a 10% bleach solution (others are dishwasher or boil safe). Condoms aren't a bad idea anyway, as they make for quick, easy cleanup.

Don't buy something that just says 'silicone' -labelling laws only require a product to contain 10% of a material to be labeled as such, so 10% silicone toys can be called 'Silicone ___' and some retailers will charge a pure silicone price for them. And, no, you don't need that expensive, special toy cleaner they'll inevitably try to sell you at the store.

Make sure the vibe has a good base or something to grip onto when inserted, as you don't want the vibe getting stuck up there, or him having to sit on the toilet to get it out.

Avoid vibes that are very hard plastic or have any rough seams, angles, or parts. Anal tissue is delicate and more prone to tears and other injuries.

In our experience, a material that's firm with some give/flex (i.e. not too hard OR floppy), like vinyl or pure silicone, is best for anal and prostate stimulation.

Finally, I'd say wait and buy online if you can. You'll have a much better selection, can compare prices and features easily, and are likely to get a much better deal. Adam & Eve even will give you 100% of your money back for 90 days for any reason, even if you just don't like the toy.

 

[luvitlong]

this site has a few that you might like

http://gaysextoysformen.co.uk/?gclid=COn5yLqKxJICFQFcQgodAy2XcA

 

[mynameiskate]

There's also the ring kind that slides on the penis.

 

[gregor2001us]

I have one similar to this and it is very nice.


http://www.goodvibes.com/Item--i-1-7-DE-0303--m-35

 

[fenghuang]

Slight different male vibe question. Is there a cock toy / fake pussy that does the pumping & stroking for you. The only ones I have see you have to use like you're fucking your fist & I can't see the point of that.

 

[SweetErika]

Slight different male vibe question. Is there a cock toy / fake pussy that does the pumping & stroking for you. The only ones I have see you have to use like you're fucking your fist & I can't see the point of that.

Yes, there are ones that stroke, but they're generally very expensive. For example, some companies have put something like a Fleshlight on a reciprocating saw or another machine that can provide a back-and-forth motion. Google 'fucking machines male' and similar to see what's out there. If you're handy, maybe you could make your own; just make sure it's safe before you put your cock or any body part near it.

Then there are fake pussies and dolls which you could put on the bed for a more realistic sex-like action.

The point of the Fleshlight and other sleeves is that you can close your eyes and try to imagine fucking a partner. You could put the Fleshlight (or even a plastic bag containing lube rolled up in a towel tightly and secured w/ string rubber bands) between the mattress and box spring or otherwise rig something up that will keep it stationary while you fuck it.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

if you are getting him something for his anus make sure it has wings. You will know what I mean when you see the selection of toys.

A dildo is good but if it is being used for the anus then the anus has a tendency to suck it deeper inside. This is why you want something with wings because the wings stop it from getting sucked in and will save you an embarassing trip to the doctor.

Alot of men enjoy butt plugs. I have one but what I like about it is I use it for long periods of time. The last time I used it when I had intercourse with my exgf, she inserted it while giving me oral and I kept it in when we were having intercourse. As I was about to cum, I slowly removed it and it was the most explosive orgasm I ever had with her.

Since we broke up I have kept it and used it often when I masturbate.

As for penis toys, I do not own any but I did here the fleshlight was very good. The more realistic the toys the more expensive it is. The fleshlight is very inexpensive. The butt plugs are varies in price but most of them are very cheap.

 

[fenghuang]

- put something like a Fleshlight on a reciprocating saw -

Thanks Erika, but a reciprocating saw sounds like complete insanity! If not cumbersome. I'm looking for a lie-back-and-enjoy experience rather than humping-the-bed so maybe women have got the better deal yet again Sounds like there's a hole in the market.