Question about dancing

[ShaneoD]

I was reading a thread recently and one of the girls said something to the effect of that she liked to grind on guys until they got hard and then leave them there, I guess as a form of tease and denial, maybe.

It sparked an interest, is this a common thing that ladies enjoy doing?

 

[Tracey1983]

Its a good way to find out whats being packed!

 

[rackofdawn]

Beyond dancing

I have never set out to make a guy hard on the dance floor with the intent of teasing him. But whether it is from dancing or other things there is something rewarding about seeing the effect take place. I don't usually go around wearing slutty clothing but I have some outfits that get a reaction and if I bend over to pick something up and see that a guy is scanning me and then gets a bulge in his pants it does turn me on. Even if I am not attracted to the guy it is a turn on to know I effected him.

 

[Cate_Archer]

Grinding is not my thing. I personally like to face the guy I am dancing with. That said, I have done it on occasions with people who would drag me away and make me take care of any turning on that have occurred

 

[Booboobear84]

Grinding is not my thing. I personally like to face the guy I am dancing with. That said, I have done it on occasions with people who would drag me away and make me take care of any turning on that have occurred

You can grind face to face.

That said gotta love a women who takes full responsibility for her actions

 

[Cate_Archer]

You can grind face to face.

That said gotta love a women who takes full responsibility for her actions

I thought grinding was the name for the butt to crotch dance move.

I was raised well.

 

[pplwatching]

My first girlfriend loved country and western dancing. Due to our respective heights, my thigh fit perfectly between hers. She loved to grind against my thigh during slow songs. It was very hot feeling her orgasm against me. I'm sure that she could feel how tight against the seam she made me, but it was all about her.

 

[Justfantasies]

My wife and I used to go to local dance lessons a lot and found it was an excuse for both of us to get a little naughty. It's not just "grinding" but touching and feeling too. We aren't the jealous types, so it was fun to watch our spouses have fun.

Personally, I was surprised how uninhibited the younger women were with me -- an older guy

 

[omega46]

I thought grinding was the name for the butt to crotch dance move.

I was raised well.

THinking that some of these grinding ideas of dancing should be tested out! Ha...I was more like you Cate in generally thinking of the butt to crotch dance move grinding. I've not done that much other than when a lady would initiate it. In those cases, I certainly haven't..um...minded it though!

 

[Islander55]

I thought grinding was the name for the butt to crotch dance move.

I was raised well.

I believe grinding is both ways. I mostly did it front to front and at my height, 5'5", it was mostly my belly pressing against manhood and my parts pressed against his thigh. I can't imagine doing it and leaving a guy that way but it was a fun way to get the night started.

 

[Creative_Juices]

I love dancing both fast and slow as sexual foreplay. Both have sexy nuances that can be great mood creators.

 

[Dashabout]

I was reading a thread recently and one of the girls said something to the effect of that she liked to grind on guys until they got hard and then leave them there, I guess as a form of tease and denial, maybe.

It sparked an interest, is this a common thing that ladies enjoy doing?

If that is what she does on purpose it's just plain mean. Face it folks, wether it's your SO you're with or someone else, a bit of close contact, grinding if you will, happens while dancing.

 

[Looselucy28]

Dancing

I love to dance and am trained my mother was actually a stripper but I have never. I love to wear dresses that fly up and g strings so everyone can see and get a little hard and I love dancing with a stranger making him want me bad and leaving lol it is definitely fun!

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife has always been a flirt, and that was one of her tricks. She would let a partner feel her tits and ass and grind into her. She enjoyed getting them hard. She sometimes told me when she found a really big one.

 

[Booboobear84]

I love to dance and am trained my mother was actually a stripper but I have never. I love to wear dresses that fly up and g strings so everyone can see and get a little hard and I love dancing with a stranger making him want me bad and leaving lol it is definitely fun!

Though it is the farthest thing from a place you grind contra dance women like to wear twirly skirts which rise when they get spun, which happens a lot. Contra being conservative that way, most of the girls wear bicycle shorts underneath.

 

[Booboobear84]

I've said this before other places, but being a strong lead can be arousing for both partners. Throwing a woman around (think swing/jitterbug), yet under complete control is this feeling of dominance like you wouldn't believe. I also observe that it doesn't work if she's a doormat. The follow must use a fair amount of strength and energy to make it fun for either party.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Yes, this is very exciting. Power thing.

 

[Jon31]

well if I am interested in someone and knowing he is excited about me sort of makes me feel I have this magical power. Its a rush for sure knowing that I have that effect on someone. Dancing is an easier way to do it but like even just casually flirting and seeing the guy's bulge becoming bigger is a turn on.

Love dancing. It's a nice friendly way to get to know each other's body

 

[NickCarraway12]

Dancing can be very erotic. I danced with a woman and we were so into it that she would grind on me from the front....knowing I was hard the whole time. Luckily, my shirt was untucked because I had an orgasm.

My wife and I were at a club, dancing closely to a fast song and a guy, who was making his rounds to groups of women and couples...(reading the couple and whether or not he was welcome first). He and I sandwiched my wife between us, me on front and him behind her.

On the way back to the hotel, she told me how big his boner was in her asscrack.

 

[GuySLut]

Dancing is very good foreplay

When I met my wife we did a lot of dancing. The slow songs became very erotic with our roaming hands and kissing. It led to a very hot rest of the weekend

 

[Crownvic]

Its a good way to find out whats being packed!

It is a very hot....get the juices flowing..

 

[water_moutina]

I can't dance. Grinding is the only dance move I can do. Slow song? Face him, arms around his neck, and grind slow. Fast beats? Face away, back up into him, hands raised, and grind away

 

[ShaneoD]

Based off of the last few answers, I'm glad this thread came back to life

 

[FGB]

Back in the day I had a girlfriend (Lisa R.I.P.) ...Dancing with her and NOT getting a hard on was next to impossible! Any long slow dance and the guy was going to have trouble walking off the dance floor!

With her breast rubbing your chest and her hot crouch rubbing yours well...if a guy asked her to dance more than once you sort of knew his girlfriend or wife WASN'T there watching!

She knew the power she had over men and loved it...

 

[ShaneoD]

Back in the day I had a girlfriend (Lisa R.I.P.) ...Dancing with her and NOT getting a hard on was next to impossible! Any long slow dance and the guy was going to have trouble walking off the dance floor!

With her breast rubbing your chest and her hot crouch rubbing yours well...if a guy asked her to dance more than once you sort of knew his girlfriend or wife WASN'T there watching!

She knew the power she had over men and loved it...

I'll admit I'm drawn to stories like this, being in the moment is somewhere between fun and painful agony depending on the circumstances but it's always great hearing the perspective of someone who knows they have that power