Question about Cybersex

[Mountain_Magic]

If you were just wanting to meet someone for cybersex only where do you go to do that or what do you have to post in the personals? I am very interested in doing this, but where do you find lady volunteers? How do you put yourself out there for that?

Thanks!

 

[Emerson40]

If you were just wanting to meet someone for cybersex only where do you go to do that or what do you have to post in the personals? I am very interested in doing this, but where do you find lady volunteers? How do you put yourself out there for that?

Thanks!

Perhaps the No-Tell Cyberville Motel. They bill by the minute.

 

[COCK_STAR]

Wacking off to a guy pretending to be a chick is kinda gay

 

[SweetErika]

Yes, you can post that sort of request in Personals. Be forewarned that you have a ton of competition, so you'd be wise to make yourself (your profile, post history, etc.) and your ad stand out in good ways. Look at the threads from guys who get no/few responses and the threads, profiles and posts from guys who are popular with the ladies here. It should be fairly obviously how the two types do things differently.

Speaking of being popular here (which will vastly improve your chances of meeting quality sex partners on a more regular basis), work on that through quality posts, a good profile, NOT focusing on getting any type of sex and communicating well with many other members.

 

[LorraineRenee]

I'm a lady. For real.

Wacking off to a guy pretending to be a chick is kinda gay

You do realize that some of us (and I get the feeling many as far as this site is concerned) are actually women, right?

Now, back when Yahoo messenger still had chat rooms, I often went in the lesbian rooms, but I'm cautious... Someone would send me a pic, I'd reverse search it via google and tineye, and it was always from an amateur porn site. ALWAYS.
I never once found an actual woman. No one would voice verify over cam. Their cams would mysteriously break if I'd ask them to do something specific as proof that it wasn't prerecorded (they actually did that...!). And sometimes, they didn't think to make their profiles, which listed them as men, private.

I would call people out on their lie, but I wasn't rude about it. I actually ended up talking with several of them pretty extensively. I would tell them how I caught them, and then tell them that I've never found a woman on the rooms. So I ended up arguing the same thing: the lesbian rooms (if not most of them) were really just full of men pretending to be women, pretending to have sex with women who were actually men.

The trouble with Lit is that pics/camming aren't considered a necessity for talking with someone, and many people leave their profiles blank. So how the hell do you tell who is actually a woman and who isn't??

My advice is to get a feel for female speech patterns. A lot of times, you can get a decently reliable "gut feeling" from someone who just doesn't talk (write) like a woman. But obviously, everyone is different, so you're only judging based off of averages. You can be totally wrong.

I guess you can ask for pics or voice verification if it's really important that you know who they are...

But honestly, why the heck does it matter?

Whoever is on the other end of the 'tubes' has nothing to do with what they might be RPing or writing or saying to you. For all you know, it is a woman. So you can deprive yourself of the fun you might have speaking with women or "women" on here (not that I condone lying about your identity!!) or you can just relax and enjoy the fact that you CAN be anonymous and explore whatever you like without repercussion

 

[subdued_passion]

Wacking off to a guy pretending to be a chick is kinda gay

Not if you're also pretending he's a chick.

 

[NightL]

Yeah - but even pip_drip confuses herself when she calls her right "Lady" man hand "Gay"