Question about anal stimulation

[Drummer76]

I want to coax my girl into trying anal. I know that it's BAD to go inside the anus and then pull out and go to the vagina. But if I'm fucking her doggy-style, can I pull out and rub the head of my cock on her asshole? Is that safe, or can bacteria pass that way too? Let me know, cause I think maybe doing that would help her to want more.

Kid

 

[cryptictravler]

For a similar sensation, without passing cooties, just lean back and use your thumb on her ass while inside of her.

 

[Vixandra]

Wouldn't recommend doing that.
There's a good chance that you'd transfer something not-good from her anus to her vagina that way.
If she wants anal stimulation while you're doing her doggy style, I'd suggest getting one of those little silver bullet type vibrators and using that. Small, easy to get in there and non-scary.

 

[funwdi]

Okay

If you're talking about going from her vagina to her anus that's okay. You just CANNOT go back to her pussy after this. It's actually a good method, because you have her lubrication on your penis before you try to go anal. I WOULD highly recommend using your thumb at her anal opeining and kind of teasing it first before trying anything else. Go slow, bro...very slow.
Good Luck! Hope she likes it!

 

[ethicalslut]

I agree with all that's been said, and just want to add that just like when "deflowering" a vaginal virgin, letting her have a little more control over angles and depths might be a good idea. I hated my first anal experience, but gave it one more shot with me in charge instead of him... and now I'm a huge fan.

I hope she and you like it! While I enjoy it, I can see how other women might not... it's kind of like wasabe in that sense. If you like it, you really really like it, and if you don't like it, you just don't "get" how it's good.

Good luck!

 

[SweetErika]

I want to coax my girl into trying anal. I know that it's BAD to go inside the anus and then pull out and go to the vagina. But if I'm fucking her doggy-style, can I pull out and rub the head of my cock on her asshole? Is that safe, or can bacteria pass that way too? Let me know, cause I think maybe doing that would help her to want more.

Kid

What has she said about trying anal? Is she open to exploring through manual stimulation? Do you have a plan to work up to it? Have the two of you talked about this and researched it thoroughly?

To answer...It's best not to risk it. Go with finger(s) or a small vibe as others suggested. Whatever you do, make sure you go very slowly and use lots of lube.