Question about 69

[masterslave00]

I find 69 rather "distracting"... I can either enjoy receiving or giving, but not both together. Admittedly I am a man and we men are not supposed to be good in multitasking. But anyway, I think it is much better to do it separately and concentrate on partners pleasure fully...

What others do think? I would in particular like to hear from ladies who supposedly can multi-task...

 

[jennyxiaoxoxo]

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[Ikklerockchick]

Sometimes I can get a bit bored lying there taking a licking so 69 is better for me. I can concentrate on him. Plus the sensation of a guy moaning on my pussy is great

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

Never done it I guess it would be fun to do sometimes

 

[CuteRed]

I personally love 69.

I love the feeling of him licking me and moaning from the pleasure which adds extra vibrations and fun. I love being able to concentrate on him to slow me cumming.

That said. I have to be on top. I hate being on the bottom and having a cock shoved down my throat and not being 100%in control

 

[LadyVer]

It's really like anything else. It depends on who you're doing it with.

 

[masterslave00]

Thanks so far... Pls, keep responding...

 

[droopy1]

Having a lady jump on my face and grind her vagina into my face while she is sucking my cock is a big turn on for me. Great memory

 

[InsatiableDsire]

I completely agree with you, OP. I need to focus, either on my pleasure or on giving him the best head of his life.

 

[lil_jenni]

69 is not my favorite thing. I almost never came while doing it before my husband, so I always thought of it as a distraction rather than something pleasurable. My husband enjoys it, and with him it is kinda fun, but I always end up feeling like it would have been better if we had taken turns.

 

[lil_jenni]

I personally love 69.

I love the feeling of him licking me and moaning from the pleasure which adds extra vibrations and fun. I love being able to concentrate on him to slow me cumming.

That said. I have to be on top. I hate being on the bottom and having a cock shoved down my throat and not being 100%in control

When we do 69, I sometimes prefer to be on the bottom. I like the things you said you hate. I find these types of differences fascinating. I think of them whenever I read or hear someone say "all women" like certain things or act in a certain way. Then I think of how it is true for men too - my husband does not often act the way people stereotype "all guys".

 

[curiousdreamer51]

My Persoective

I enjoy it but my wife really gets off on it. I have never cum while doing 69 but she cums in buckets. She loves the feel of my cock in her mouth as I bring her off with my tongue and fingers!

 

[tycho71]

So, while I do enjoy 69, I will admit that it's not too high on my favorite things. For me, I think that it's all had to do with some of the logistics. I am pretty tall and I guess relatively long in the torso. In my case, the ladies whom I've had 69 with have all been a fair bit shorter than I. It has worked out better for them to be on top during 69 to be able to shift/move as they need, but that has left me having to somewhat hunch over to um...reach things. While it is fun and feels good, it's not the most comfortable position and has left me with a sore neck. So, afterwards, when I've been rubbing my neck, it's not really that easy to answer "why does your neck hurt" in a suave way.

 

[suckonsimon]

We rarely 69 as my woman adores the focus being on my cock and her oral arts and for long periods! And I adore watching her! If we are positioned right I do like to give her some fingerwork while she's doing her beautiful thing on me, but I think that for both of us that's secondary. I do give her oral but it gets her desperate for fucking in no time at all and ... I'm ok with that too!

 

[numeniusa]

I'm never entirely sure about 69 - as other posters have said, I kind of prefer to concentrate on the giving and receiving activities separately so as to enjoy them properly individually.

The other aspect for me is the visual - in the 69 position I can't see my man at his work, and he can't see me at mine, which seems a shame all round.

Nice for an occasional treat, though, I will admit!

 

[Kittyscave]

TOTALLY agree!!!!

I love to take my time, suck a man off and let him recover while going down on me. Then, when I'm really wet, and he has his stamina back, we can get it on.

But, if I'm concentrating on really giving him an outstanding bj, I cannot relax and enjoy his efforts.

 

[tycho71]

I'm never entirely sure about 69 - as other posters have said, I kind of prefer to concentrate on the giving and receiving activities separately so as to enjoy them properly individually.

The other aspect for me is the visual - in the 69 position I can't see my man at his work, and he can't see me at mine, which seems a shame all round.

Nice for an occasional treat, though, I will admit!

TOTALLY agree!!!!

I love to take my time, suck a man off and let him recover while going down on me. Then, when I'm really wet, and he has his stamina back, we can get it on.

But, if I'm concentrating on really giving him an outstanding bj, I cannot relax and enjoy his efforts.

Oh golly....liking the way you ladies think on concentration and focus (said as I drool while thinking about said concentration)

 

[lordfarquat]

69

As a male, I absolutely love 69 and doing in every way possible. My wife has preferred on our sides as of late whereas I prefer standing up. It is amazing to mutually please each other especially since I can feel her cum with my tongue in her and the only time I have come from a blowjob is via 69.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

While 69 is certainly stimulating, I do agree that it's somewhat distracting. I much prefer to concentrate my focus of attention with the objective of her climaxing -- and conversely, to have undivided attention when I'm the focus of attention.

 

[ChattyAnnie]

I find 69 rather "distracting"... I can either enjoy receiving or giving, but not both together. Admittedly I am a man and we men are not supposed to be good in multitasking. But anyway, I think it is much better to do it separately and concentrate on partners pleasure fully...

What others do think? I would in particular like to hear from ladies who supposedly can multi-task...

It is distracting and hard to concentrate on sucking dick while your pussy is getting eaten but I still enjoy it. The orgasms are never mutual but there is nothing wrong with taking turns!

 

[subgreen]

It's a good combination for me. Focusing on her takes the attention from me. If I get too focused on what she's doing I tend to orgasm. I especially like it when she cums while doing 69, then I get to have her without expectation.

 

[citychick29]

I find I don't cum from oral unless in 69. I have a hard time just accepting pleasure, but if I am giving it too, I can lose myself.

 

[NewJake]

I can multitask very well; it gives everyone something to do, so I like it.

I agree. I love it but I always love a pussy in my face.

 

[Kitschshaman]

I find the prospect of my gal climaxing when we're doing 69 enthralling, but most gals I have found are fearful that they'd bite, so they're somewhat reluctant and prefer one thing at a time, preferably alternating ... thoughts?

 

[cliteatingman]

I love having my cock in her throat when she moans from the licking I am giving her. The vibrations feel amazing!!!!