Queefing question for ladies.

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All the women I've been with queef every time we have sex or atleast 95% of the time or more. Now with some its only during doggy and others it doesn't matter, even missionary would cause it. Now this doesn't bother me one bit , if anything only makes me even harder but atleast 2 of them mentioned they felt really embarrassed by it. I seem to wonder if this has anything to with me more than them such as rhythm, depth and pace of pumping. Also I'm avg in length but but more thicker. It happened since college time with the tightest to the pretty stretched one just in case if that is variable in this.
So to the ladies, do you have this happen to you often with one guy more than other?
It's usually not one quick rip either. It's quiet loud and 2 to 3 times with one of them being a bit long and continuous.

 

[Beth12345]

You're probably going at it at an angle that pushes air into them. I've queefed with some but not with others and some angles just make it unavoidable.

 

[NightL]

Are you exiting and re-entering regularly during thrusting?

 

[LauraWilling]

I have to go with the other ladies here on this one. I've done it, but not with everybody and not every time with the same guy. If it is happening with every woman you are with, I think it is the angle or somehow you are pushing air into her.

 

[literal]

You're probably going at it at an angle that pushes air into them. I've queefed with some but not with others and some angles just make it unavoidable.

I can see the angle issue if it was from the same position but that's not the case.

 

[literal]

I've never queefed that I'm aware of but I have accidentally popped a little fart out. I laughed hysterically, my hubby was not as amused as I was.

It is strange that it is with every person you've ever had sex with. I would hazard a guess it's the angle and the thrust. I'm intrigued now.

Wow so you never queefed? Now I'm intrigued too. Investigation continues lol.

 

[literal]

Are you exiting and re-entering regularly during thrusting?

Nop I don't exit during thrust.

 

[literal]

Seriously, not that I'm aware of no! I kind of want to have sex with you just to see if I do. hahahahhaa

Oh if my hunch is right you will be queefing for sure. If that's what it takes to prove my theory, lets not wait lol

 

[Tomahawk26]

Nop I don't exit during thrust.

That was gonna be my thought too... I have only ever noticed it when my ass was a lot higher than my head, which for some reason seems to just cause the intake of air, in and of itself; or when my husband is pulling all the way out and then thrusting back in. I had one ex who made me feel very uncomfortable about all kinds of natural stuff, but my husband says he loves it when my pussy "talks to him"--which I much prefer over any other term... eh, I'm a writer, and some words I just hate. It's nice though, that it doesn't bother you--I'm assuming that since you like it, you let your partners know that too. I think women most likely feel embarrassed about it because they think the dude will be grossed out.

 

[literal]

I made them perfectly clear that and you are right that their embarrassment is due to not knowing if the guy will be grossed out. But I can't imagine why would any guy be such s jerk

 

[Tomahawk26]

I think guys talk a lot of shit sometimes, especially young, stupid ones, and women hear that and it sticks in their minds, whether the bullshit the guys are saying is true/sincere or not. I think there's a major disconnect between what men really like and what they think they're supposed to like because of culture, and that causes a lot of problems for all of us.

 

[amofiga]

I've had some women queef but not others. It seems that those that are a little "looser" queef more because perhaps it's easier to introduce air into them when fucking. If you thrust a lot where you let your cock nearly out of them and back in, it might increase the tendency to queef. If you stay in deeper and "grind" on their clit, it may be less tendency to queef but better probability of their cumming. Ones that I've had queef seem to do so more with missionary or doggy than when they are on top grinding

Not only have I had a couple of women fart, but had one actually shit while fucking her. Not a huge amount but it was a little "turd ball" that found it's way out in the bed. She was extremely embarrassed as you might expect, but I tried to just laugh it off by saying something like, "I've always dreamed of fucking the shit out of somebody and now I can say I did."

 

[Trolltroll420]

It only happens to dudes with small dicks.

 

[literal]

I've had some women queef but not others. It seems that those that are a little "looser" queef more because perhaps it's easier to introduce air into them when fucking. If you thrust a lot where you let your cock nearly out of them and back in, it might increase the tendency to queef. If you stay in deeper and "grind" on their clit, it may be less tendency to queef but better probability of their cumming. Ones that I've had queef seem to do so more with missionary or doggy than when they are on top grinding

Not only have I had a couple of women fart, but had one actually shit while fucking her. Not a huge amount but it was a little "turd ball" that found it's way out in the bed. She was extremely embarrassed as you might expect, but I tried to just laugh it off by saying something like, "I've always dreamed of fucking the shit out of somebody and now I can say I did."

Wow this must be one for the books. We're you having anal sex before that?

 

[Beth12345]

The other thing I can think of... Is your shaft curved? That can make it easier to introduce air as well...

 

[literal]

The other thing I can think of... Is your shaft curved? That can make it easier to introduce air as well...

Beth, its pretty straight from my viewing angle

 

[literal]

Bump...

 

[Julietravels]

Air

It happened more when I first got married, then a lot less.

 

[box13]

Besides the rare occasion, a lover I once enjoyed company with, did quite regularly...that is until I mentioned it once during sex, perhaps in a sort of "I like that" way that was too clumsy and ended up making her self-conscious about it instead.

I always thought it was because of the way her vaginal muscles would work while we were screwing, squeezing and then relaxing...or maybe even pulling away and allowing air to fill the void. It was definitely something that she was doing, because, like I said, as soon as I mentioned it, she stopped.

I screwed up. What can I say.

Anyways, I always found it to be a turn-on. It wasn't position or anything, as we pretty much only did missionary for the most part. For her though, it must have been a somewhat involuntary muscle control thing. I guess.

"Queefing" is such a awful word for it though. Just sounds like something that would leave a skid-mark somewhere.

 

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Besides the rare occasion, a lover I once enjoyed company with, did quite regularly...that is until I mentioned it once during sex, perhaps in a sort of "I like that" way that was too clumsy and ended up making her self-conscious about it instead.

I always thought it was because of the way her vaginal muscles would work while we were screwing, squeezing and then relaxing...or maybe even pulling away and allowing air to fill the void. It was definitely something that she was doing, because, like I said, as soon as I mentioned it, she stopped.

I screwed up. What can I say.

Anyways, I always found it to be a turn-on. It wasn't position or anything, as we pretty much only did missionary for the most part. For her though, it must have been a somewhat involuntary muscle control thing. I guess.

"Queefing" is such a awful word for it though. Just sounds like something that would leave a skid-mark somewhere.

Interesting. If she were able to control it that's kinda cool. You should have asked her directly to go that more often since you like it.

 

[box13]

Interesting. If she were able to control it that's kinda cool. You should have asked her directly to go that more often since you like it.

Ya, there's a handful of things I've wished I would have asked for that I've thought about since then, but there just wasn't time. And I've always figured that whatever it was that I said "gosh that's sexy" made her nervous about having to do it, instead of it just happening, so I think I should have just kept my mouth shut and enjoyed it. At least while I could.

Live and learn. Or something.

 

[literal]

Ya, there's a handful of things I've wished I would have asked for that I've thought about since then, but there just wasn't time. And I've always figured that whatever it was that I said "gosh that's sexy" made her nervous about having to do it, instead of it just happening, so I think I should have just kept my mouth shut and enjoyed it. At least while I could.

Live and learn. Or something.

I guess that logic might work with some but not others. Generally speaking up and compliments works but I guess in this case it didn't. Don't quit trying though.

 

[norfolklad]

All the women I've been with queef every time we have sex or atleast 95% of the time or more. Now with some its only during doggy and others it doesn't matter, even missionary would cause it. Now this doesn't bother me one bit , if anything only makes me even harder but atleast 2 of them mentioned they felt really embarrassed by it. I seem to wonder if this has anything to with me more than them such as rhythm, depth and pace of pumping. Also I'm avg in length but but more thicker. It happened since college time with the tightest to the pretty stretched one just in case if that is variable in this.
So to the ladies, do you have this happen to you often with one guy more than other?
It's usually not one quick rip either. It's quiet loud and 2 to 3 times with one of them being a bit long and continuous.

I had one gf with whom it happened regularly - both of us thought it was hilarious and collapsed into fits of giggles - and a wife with whom it happened occasionally. Not with any other partners though.

 

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Bump..

 

[Riles]

but my husband says he loves it when my pussy "talks to him"--which I much prefer over any other term... eh, I'm a writer, and some words I just hate

All of this, but the bolded part especially. I have heard the same phrasing, even in terms of being ....ugh...really wet and the ick sounds that two bodies make with that.

All you can do is laugh together and roll with the mood change as you accept it for what it is - nature.