Putting the cat among the piegons....

[T.H. Oughts]

So tell me the truth... those of you that know me from the General Board, if I started posting photos in the APF of me with my vibes in my butt and my pussy showing for all to see, wearing sexy silky outfits, would you think I any different of me? Would you change your opinion of me to a lesser person?

I'm not trying to get at anyone else in the board for showing erotic photos... but when you have been brought up to only show your body to your loved one... it does kind of make you shy to show others yourself in a board like this, even though you would like to know what others think of your body....

So if I showed more than what my av does... would you think my morals had slipped in the wrong direction???? Or that I was just more relaxed with who I am and not afraid to show the board and you here????

 

[Guest]

I think

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: I think

you should do what ever makes you comfortable, and above all, succumb to your heart and your feelings. And yanno, sex and sexuality is natural and totally OK. If it feels good, do it.

Life is just a series of adjustments, learning not to be shy is just another one of them. Enjoy the APF forum.


Indie

Thanks

I just have a fear that photos of my naughty bits on the web might come back to haunt me someday....

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: I think

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Re: Re: I think

then dont show your face in the same pics, and dont show anything revealing like tats or jewellery. that way you get to have the fun posting them and not worry about the consequences.

Indie

You are right, leave out my name and phone number, lol

I supose it's the, "Will you still respect me in the morning" thing.

 

[mokum13]

Re: Re: I think

Thanks

I just have a fear that photos of my naughty bits on the web might come back to haunt me someday....

I dont think anybody here on lit will think less off you. I know most are dying to see some nice pics.

The haunting part is an inevitable part off posting on the internet. Just dont think about that too long and if it bothers you too much just dont post. I try to minimize the risk by never posting a pic of my face on the board.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Re: Re: I think

I dont think anybody here on lit will think less off you.

Thanks. In the end this is Lit, 99% of anything goes.

 

[PepperminTrish]

I doubt that anyone would think less of you for posting your 'naughty bits' and honestly if they did, why would you care? As long as you're posting for the right reasons, whatever they may be for YOU, then those that would think less of you aren't worth the time of day anway.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I doubt that anyone would think less of you for posting your 'naughty bits' and honestly if they did, why would you care? .

That is what I have been thinking.

Anyone ever have regrets posting their pic????

 

[mokum13]

That is what I have been thinking.

Anyone ever have regrets posting their pic????

I regret posting now and then. Seeing my thread going down with the speed of light can be depressing sometimes.
But i'm sure nothing like that will happen with yours.

Have you decided yet?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Have you decided yet?

There are a few RL friends around here so I would post under another name if I did.

 

[Skandalon]

Some thoughts

Well TH, you will find a kind crowd here. But there are some social risks to posting outside this group. Pictures may come back to haunt you if you, lets say, run for President or become Pope! And there are the occasional toads, flamers and Barbie worshippers who are looking for cookie cutter perfection. But you have to be comfortable with what you choose to reveal. No one will really pressure you to go out of you comfort zone.

 

[wifewatcher123]

Your breasts

Hi.If those are your breasts in the blue bra i dont suppose i would mind seeing them lol.Seriously though if you are having doubts you would be better off not posting although by the looks of you the rest of us on Lit will be the poorer for it.When myself and my wife try new things and one of us isn't comfortable we dont do it.Good luck.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Re: Your breasts

Hi.If those are your breasts in the blue bra i dont suppose i would mind seeing them lol.

Thanks they are mine in my av.... maybe one day I might get the nerve to show more....

 

[wifewatcher123]

recognizing your bra

I suppose if you took a similar shot as in your av but without your bra nobody would be the wiser about your identity unless you post under the same name and somebody recognises the bra.At least you would be happy in the knowledge that you would be making a lot of Lit readers very happy.(and just a little turned on)

 

[Mrs Christophe]

you know all it really does is turn you on knowing someone else is maybe getting a little pleasure. makes you feel all yummy inside. especially if the thought of showing a little of yourself or a lot turns you on. just deep face shots out and no one is the wiser

 

[PepperminTrish]

you know all it really does is turn you on knowing someone else is maybe getting a little pleasure. makes you feel all yummy inside. especially if the thought of showing a little of yourself or a lot turns you on. just deep face shots out and no one is the wiser

It's a HUGE turn on, that's why I use my own pics for my AVs. One of these days, when I have the time I plan on doing my own thread of pics.

 

[Dr. B Evil]

It's a HUGE turn on, that's why I use my own pics for my AVs. One of these days, when I have the time I plan on doing my own thread of pics.

I know I am not alone in saying that I am eagerly awaiting such a thread, Trish. After all, from seeing your AV, you are sexy, sensual and just plain gorgeous!

 

[huskie]

I know I am not alone in saying that I am eagerly awaiting such a thread, Trish. After all, from seeing your AV, you are sexy, sensual and just plain gorgeous!

agreeing with the Dr. here.

 

[just pet]

You are a wonderfully creative and expressive woman. If this appeals to you as another outlet for creativity, this does provide an accepting forum, a space to explore another side of you. I have found it to be very freeing, helping with body image and self esteem issues. Start slowly. Savor the experience and only post pictures you enjoyed taking. Another name to post under gives anonymity. Come play with us.

 

[Dr. B Evil]

You are a wonderfully creative and expressive woman. If this appeals to you as another outlet for creativity, this does provide an accepting forum, a space to explore another side of you. I have found it to be very freeing, helping with body image and self esteem issues. Start slowly. Savor the experience and only post pictures you enjoyed taking. Another name to post under gives anonymity. Come play with us.

Nobody can put it any better than Pet, T.H. Whatever you feel most safe and comfortable doing will be savored by all of us.

 

[svenmn]

The question that comes to my mind is am I a bimbo if I were to post wild pic of self here?

The answer is no most of those that I corrispond with here it is the wit and banter that attracks ones here those that just post pics never catch much attention. Those that draw me in with thoughts I tend to follow. Okay Pet how do I say this. Friends become friends here not for your pic's but for what you have to say.

Sven

 

[Midnighter]

My 3 cents

Hiya T.H. Oughts.

I don't know you from the general board, but I can relate to your doubts. I'm the same type of person. I have this tiny little nagging voice, a part of my wholesome upbringing, that keeps warning me of bad things that are going to happen if I do anything daring, or exciting, or naughty.

In my limited experience (I'm only 26 after all), bad things are going to happen anyways, so if that's your main concern, I'd put it to rest. You can always edit the pic off of a thread, and many beloved APF members have posten nothing but tasteful, barely softcore pics. The only reaction I've ever seen publicly stated by those who share their pics is one of elation and relief at being admired by the other posters here.

I'd take my advice with a grain of salt though. I'm slightly biased as I would like to see the rest of your boobies.

 

[Lance Hardrock]

I've known you for a long time TH

To answer your question, I can only say is that if you post any naughty pics, I'll still love you and respect you. There are many wonderful ladies here who share their intimate pics. I'm sure they've all had second thoughts about doing it, but they listened to their hearts and decided to have some fun.

You MIGHT get flaming toads and Barbie lovers, but I know you. You'll kick their asses half way to the moon. So I know you can handle any creeps.

I think you should consider what you want to do and do it. Don't post your face (I certainly don't) and show what you want to show. LIT is about having fun. If this is fun for you, then do it. I know it will be fun for me.

 

[PepperminTrish]

Ooopppssss, I didn't mean to take the focus off of T.H's question but thank you Dr B. and Huskie. It may take a bit of time but I will get around to taking the photos and posting them.

With any luck, T.H. will be doing the same thing soon too.