Pussy torture, a little advice

[Kathykitten]

So I've been looking around ont he forum a bit, and the search option doesn't seem to work for this. Could anyone point me in the direction of a good thread or two that enters the topic of general pussy torture? I'd like to learn more about this.

And in case I should have missed an existing thread, I am very sorry! I do not have magical eyes, though should I have missed it I am most likely everything you call me and more

 

[Stella_Omega]

You might enjoy the chain trick; http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=160831

Are you looking for pain, or near-pain and teasing?

 

[Kathykitten]

You might enjoy the chain trick; http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=160831

Are you looking for pain, or near-pain and teasing?

I remember reading about that one, and have yet to try it! I definitely will though.

I am primarily looking for pain in terms of cloth pins, clamps, wax. I am a cautious type, I don't like doing anything to my girl unless I've read up on it thoroughly before hand (and usually tested on myself first). I definitely know it's time for us to move further into torturing that sweet submitted flesh of hers, so now I need to find the right place to learn from

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I remember reading about that one, and have yet to try it! I definitely will though.

I am primarily looking for pain in terms of cloth pins, clamps, wax. I am a cautious type, I don't like doing anything to my girl unless I've read up on it thoroughly before hand (and usually tested on myself first). I definitely know it's time for us to move further into torturing that sweet submitted flesh of hers, so now I need to find the right place to learn from

If you live in or near most "civilized" areas (e.g., > 2.1 persons per square mile ), you might want to do a search for a "local" munch to make contact with folks in your area. They can often refer you to folks with experience in the activities you want to learn, or even demos. Give it a couple of hours or so, and EvilGeoff or CutieMouse or graceanne or someone will probably add in the useful links to munch searches that I can never find when I want 'em. Good luck!

 

[Kathykitten]

If you live in or near most "civilized" areas (e.g., > 2.1 persons per square mile ), you might want to do a search for a "local" munch to make contact with folks in your area. They can often refer you to folks with experience in the activities you want to learn, or even demos. Give it a couple of hours or so, and EvilGeoff or CutieMouse or graceanne or someone will probably add in the useful links to munch searches that I can never find when I want 'em. Good luck!

I am very unlucky in that regards. Our whole country has less than 5 million people, but more space than they could ever use. I tried getting some contact with like minded in my area but there are just so few. Even more frustrating, the few I've gotten in touch with were just plain creepy. (In the NON hot way )

Thank you for for the advice though, it was my first thought as well but the search has proved fruitless

 

[where]

You might enjoy the chain trick; http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=160831

Are you looking for pain, or near-pain and teasing?

holy fuck. i want to try that!

 

[VikingVito]

Just relax while I stuff a giant chain inside your pussy ! HA A A

 

[infinity706]

You might enjoy the chain trick; http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=160831

Are you looking for pain, or near-pain and teasing?

While that sounds like a hell of a lot of fun, I don't see what it has to do with pussy torture unless you're intending to repeatedly pinch her with the links.

 

[where]

While that sounds like a hell of a lot of fun, I don't see what it has to do with pussy torture unless you're intending to repeatedly pinch her with the links.

apparantly that's what happens. I've gone off the idea now.

 

[Kathykitten]

Hey, happened to me too. I had forgotten about the chain, was glad to be reminded

But yeah, I still need a good hand taking care of this right so I don't end up harming someone unintentionally but still get my pain-crave settled >>

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

KK -- I've used some "interesting" techniques with my wife, but I first need to know if the torture you desire is inside your pussy, and/or in the general area, i.e. -- pussy lips, clit, etc?

 

[midwestyankee]

apparantly that's what happens. I've gone off the idea now.

Au contraire. It's actually quite simple to avoid doing any pinching. Simply push each link into place by pressing against the inside of the forward part of the loop. And use lots of lube, too.

 

[Kathykitten]

KK -- I've used some "interesting" techniques with my wife, but I first need to know if the torture you desire is inside your pussy, and/or in the general area, i.e. -- pussy lips, clit, etc?

Mmm both please So far I've focused my attention on finding good techniques and ideas for the outerlips and clit, but I'd love anything that makes that lovely flesh burn. So bring it on!

 

[Ohiorob]

Have had a wonderfully torturous relationship with a lovely submissive. Learned that binding her so she could not close her legs helped facilitate kitty torture. We found that much of the fun involved the mental control that spread eagle binding creates.

For actual infliction of discomfort, we found adjustable nipple clamps worked very well on the labia. Chains on the clamps allowed for gentle tugging. Each direction of the labia tug creates a different sensation.

She particularly enjoyed a narrow leather slapper and a cat-o-9-tails used on her exposed kitty. The strikes would redden/inflame her lips and clit. This was most effective in phases. Slap/whip for a while, then ignore her completely. Then repeat. Intermingled with an iced kitty or gentle licks was also very good torture.

Be gentle and increase intensity as you read your sub. Enjoy.

 

[Dodgers]

Frigging

Good OLD and I do mean OLD Ginger root ummm I eventried it on myself front and back yes maled in the front just cut into slivers DO NOT WASK you must keep the oils with the ginger root look up frigging here ther are a couple sites also on my site TIT TORTURE

Lady V thanks for the chat the other nite I needed it see I do respond to the site at times

The topic is good ohh I did PM you here take care and play safe but enjoy

 

[Stella_Omega]

OhioRob, yeah-- binding the sub is a big part of the fun. I like to bind so that they can wiggle around a bt, except for the hips and thighs, which must stay absolutely still. A real headfuck, when you can't.. quite.. reach your genitals to shield them. I keep thinking about a sheet of plexiglass that drops over the hips. then you wouldn't have to bind the top half at all, and they could pound on the barrier to no avail.


But, I am sorry-- "Kitty??? Are we now using euphemisms for the euphemisms? We'll be putting modest little skirts around the piano legs-- sorry, limbs--next.

And, Dodgers, OLD ginger is what I've heard, too.

But it's called "Figging," without an "R".

"Frigging" is masturbation.

-Stella, your friendly language Dominant.

Anyway back to the subject, I am partial to Tiger Balm (so much so that the mere smell makes me horny).

 

[FloggingMolly]

Simply for the sake of stretching a joke to its limit, should limbs not be appendages?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Depending on the pyl's pain tolerance, there are many things you can do. With using wax, read up on the types, heat information, distance to burning etc., and start off catiously until you find the required and safe level for you both. Clothes pins can be effective, though wooden ones can be a problem if not of great quality. You can buy clamps from the hardware (in a variety of sizes, colours and strengths usually) and enjoy a lot of painplay with them on lips and clit. The bigger and stronger ones can at times leave bruising for those pleasant day or two after reminders.

You can also try pinching the clit hard with fingernails, full hand grip on the pussy eventually digging the nails into tender flesh, biting, twisting. A flogger or cane can also be of use for those who can tolerate it...as can brushing the lips with wire brushes (once again courtesy of the hardware outlet), though this needs to be done with thought to preventing infection from the wounds.

Munches are great for those who like them, but personally I think it would take away a lot of the charm to go first and ask a relative stranger how and what you should do to your pyl, then go home to try it out. Not only do they not know you and your partner, they do not know the pyl's pain threshold and history, nor does one person's reaction to pain equal another even if receiving the exact same treatment. I am all for growing through exploring safely the things which work for you rather than referring to others to give the directions, or worse, as some do, get them to demonstrate on your pyl first before you get to try it out yourself. I guess for me it is also a matter of intimacy....I don't want to share intimacy with a bunch of strangers.

Catalina

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

While that sounds like a hell of a lot of fun, I don't see what it has to do with pussy torture unless you're intending to repeatedly pinch her with the links.

You do know that torture doesn't have to be painful, yes?

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Mmm both please So far I've focused my attention on finding good techniques and ideas for the outerlips and clit, but I'd love anything that makes that lovely flesh burn. So bring it on!

One very exquisite torture -- in my opinion -- involves very small clothespins and a vibrator.

The clothespins are applied to the outer lips and clit (remember that the smaller the clothespin, the smaller the area of skin pinched, with a proportionate increase in pain )

After letting the willing female squirm for a bit, I then turn on a vibrator -- the more powerful the better -- and use it on each of the clothespins, one by one. I like to save ones on the clit for last, and spend an extra amount of time in that sensitive area.

After a good number of minutes of squirming (and hopefully moaning), I turn off the vibator and slowly remove each clothespin. The pain is even more intense in during the few seconds following each clothespin removal, as the blood rushes back into the pinched spot.

 

[Dodgers]

"r"

Thank you--It was a Senior moment- or was it a Freudian slip of the Handand tongue err mind

another I like to use after having my lovely of the moment made immobile is to insert the rechargeable tooth brush covered with a condom into her pleasantly prepared opening and locate the G spot

 

[dropdeadred]

I have had a regular (non-electric) toothbrush used on my clit; I was very wet and ready to come, and my partner stroked my clit with a rough, prickly toothbrush, with the undertanding that the only way I would be allowed to come would be from the toothbrush. It wasn't too painful, just stingy and irritating, but made me very tender the next day. He enjoyed the toothbrush a lot, and would scrub my clit with toothpaste as well for a nice burn.

 

[RuReal]

I agree with Lizzie_Borden tie her down and put a Hitachi on her clit set to hi and watch her dance. The first orgasim can be fun, but after that watch the tears flow.

Umm torture by over pleasure can be fun. Since you are learning by yourself I won't go into the needle play options except to say I know people who think it is fun. Hell I know a woman who had a zipper sutured to her Vjay jay hot as hell pictures and she said it was fun.

 

[NomadLady]

One very exquisite torture -- in my opinion -- involves very small clothespins and a vibrator.

The clothespins are applied to the outer lips and clit (remember that the smaller the clothespin, the smaller the area of skin pinched, with a proportionate increase in pain )

After letting the willing female squirm for a bit, I then turn on a vibrator -- the more powerful the better -- and use it on each of the clothespins, one by one. I like to save ones on the clit for last, and spend an extra amount of time in that sensitive area.

After a good number of minutes of squirming (and hopefully moaning), I turn off the vibator and slowly remove each clothespin. The pain is even more intense in during the few seconds following each clothespin removal, as the blood rushes back into the pinched spot.

mmmmmmmmmm not only a good looking man in jeans but creative too.....

 

[UKVoyager]

Love to use a toothbrush on a clit tease it so much.