Pussy Makes me Blush!

sincerely_helene

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Just wondering if I am the only one on Lit who still giggles like a school girl when I type out words like "pussy" and "cock" in my stories.

How do you overcome this?

When you read a story that implies it's a pussy rathering than outright stating it, does it turn you off?
 
ok..
i really get what youre saying. a few years ago, before i shed my prudish shell, the word.....(still cringing) cunt ...really bothered me. not so much pussy or cock. but sometimes, when i read it out loud...yeah i might snicker.
i think its just the way you were raised. what words were 'correct' and what words weren't and your ability to get over the stigma attached to those words.
 
All the common terms we use (pussy, cock, dick, cunt) are also used in insulting ways. Since I've made a conscious effort to avoid using them in that context in my own speech/thought, it's been much easier to use them in writing.

Still, the first time I used the word cunt in a story, I did cringe.
 
sincerely_helene said:
Just wondering if I am the only one on Lit who still giggles like a school girl when I type out words like "pussy" and "cock" in my stories.

How do you overcome this?

When you read a story that implies it's a pussy rathering than outright stating it, does it turn you off?

I have this problem. I spell them "pessy" and "ceck" trhoughout the document, then I do a "replace all" at the end. This means I only have to type them once.
 
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Sub Joe said:
I have this problem. I spell them "pessy" and "ceck" trhoughout the document, then I do a "replace all" at the end. This means I only have to type them once.

Okay. That made me laugh. Out loud too. At 6:16 AM.

---dr.M.
 
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Sub Joe said:
I have this problem. I spell them "pessy" and "ceck" trhoughout the document, then I do a "replace all" at the end. This means I only have to type them once.

I laffed too, and its a more normal type 6:40 am, I sleep late. Anywho sometimes I write stuff and look over the last paragraph and go :eek: OMGosh, did she really write that? Then I remember its me.:eek:
 
thats why i started writing erotic

I was trying to write love scenes for my fantasy novel , and laughed my ass off every time i tried to get half way through. Then I read an article by a favorite writer that said if you write porn the soft stuff won't crack you up as bad. It's working for me , but I think it's an over time thing.Not instant
Nymphy
 
I don't have problems with most words. I still have a bit of trouble making myself use cunt however. If I have a real problem with the naughty words, it's in choosing which to use on any occasion.
 
I no longer giggle and smirk at the words and use them from time to time when I speak. But for some reason when I try to put them in a story they just don't seem to fit.
 
Nope..never giggled or laughed at those words.

In fact, I never use them in my stories...really
 
Colleen Thomas said:
I don't have problems with most words. I still have a bit of trouble making myself use cunt however. If I have a real problem with the naughty words, it's in choosing which to use on any occasion.


I love cunt, the word silly, its one of those words that only a woman can use and get away with without being biased, which makes it all the more naughty and fun.
 
Lisa Denton said:
I love cunt, the word silly, its one of those words that only a woman can use and get away with without being biased, which makes it all the more naughty and fun.

So if I said to you, "come here you gorgeous cunt" I can get awaywith that?
 
Lisa Denton said:
You wouldn't get away !!!!

See, it's the sexual play on words that makes me quiver...(or is it the fact that I'm ascared of you?) ;)
 
I cannot say "pussy" without grinning and when I say "cock" aloud, for some reason I really hit on the "k", so it sounds like "cocK!". Takes a little something out of talking dirty during monkey sex. :rolleyes:
 
I used the word cunt for the first time in my 'Feast Of The Gods' story. It took me forever to decide to use it and when I finally did, it was sort of liberating. Now I don't have any problems with it at all. It's an old word that didn't become so offensive until recently in history. As for giggling about cock and pussy, I can't ever remember a time when I couldn't write those words with a straight face.

p.s. One time I was with a guy who told me he wanted to "Plow me with his big cock." Then I did giggle, only because it wasn't really very big at all. :rolleyes:
 
Colleen Thomas said:
I don't have problems with most words. I still have a bit of trouble making myself use cunt however. If I have a real problem with the naughty words, it's in choosing which to use on any occasion.

just don't use it in emails to major corporations...

(I think it is against the Patriot Act. something Ashcroft snuck in :D )
 
OhMissScarlett said:
I used the word cunt for the first time in my 'Feast Of The Gods' story. It took me forever to decide to use it and when I finally did, it was sort of liberating. Now I don't have any problems with it at all. It's an old word that didn't become so offensive until recently in history. As for giggling about cock and pussy, I can't ever remember a time when I couldn't write those words with a straight face.

p.s. One time I was with a guy who told me he wanted to "Plow me with his big cock." Then I did giggle, only because it wasn't really very big at all. :rolleyes:

LOL
the first time i EVER said cock was in a three way telephone conversation with a friend in austrailia and one in the states. i swear to god it cost me close to $50 in the time it took them to cajole me into saying it.
erm... i was 28.
:rolleyes:
 
Belegon said:
just don't use it in emails to major corporations...

(I think it is against the Patriot Act. something Ashcroft snuck in :D )

LOL,

Ya. I chose it for emphasis and in this case, would have been better without using it :)
 
Sorry, just fell in here by mistake and would love to put a word in.

I think, for good reasons, women have a problem finding a name for their 'genitalia'. Ugh. A guy only does 2 things with his schlong (giggle) but our piece of pre-Renaissance architecture serves for a myriad of purposes.

With a woman I never seem to need a word but with a man I know I can put fire in his belly with a "my cunt, now!" This, dear readers, is what we call erotica.
 
hmmm maybe it's because I talk dirty alot but i have no problems using all cock, cunt, pussy etc etc. I never usethem as insults and have onlyever used them in a sexual context so maybe that makes it easier.

In my stories I use'em all but I try not to use them all the time, sometimes euphemisms are fun:)
 
Agree. Got a half finished boring essay about how erotic writing has changed. Even the guys now accept we all have feelings and emotions. And in only 30 years!
 
sincerely_helene said:
Just wondering if I am the only one on Lit who still giggles like a school girl when I type out words like "pussy" and "cock" in my stories.

How do you overcome this?

When you read a story that implies it's a pussy rathering than outright stating it, does it turn you off?

I had trouble writing some words at first but soon found euphemisms to be more difficult to think up and less specific.

There are times other words just don't seem to fit but if it reads well, it doesn't matter what descriptions are used.

Your writing seems good as it is to me.

AA
 
I'm fine with cock, dick and cunt - they're naughty, a little bad, dirty, fun...hey, those letters don't go together like that!

But I giggle at pussy, especially if I say it out loud. I can't help it. Pussy. Pussy. Hee hee. See?
 
Cock, cunt and also pussy is ok.

It's when I try to find similar words because I feel I can't be using the same ones over and over that I start to snigger. 'Dick', 'penis', 'vagina' and a whole lot of other synonyms sounds ridiculous and totally unerotic to me.
 
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