Pussy, cock, both or is it the humiliation?

[curious476]

There is nothing I enjoy more than sucking a willing lady's pussy, I've probably eaten 150 or more women in my life but I have always been curious about sucking cock but I am just not turned on by hairy-assed guys. I have been with two trannies and neither was what I had hoped for. One could't get an erection and the other tried to cram her cock down my throat. Neither gave me what I wanted. I have tried a gloryhole and that was a bit strange. I got excited at the thought of sucking a cock and never knowing who the cock belonged to, even had an experience in a bathhouse with a dom male who just walked up, pulled my mouth down over his cock like he owned me and never said a word. That was probably the most exciting gay thing I've done, exciting because it was humilliating to have other guys watch me suck him.
I have been with a couple where I sucked them both. I liked that the best because I was blindfolded by the woman and never saw the guys face. She invited me back a second time and it was a different cock so I always wonder if I met him before or after I sucked him, exciting to think about. In fact that lady is the one who introduced me to what I consider as my favorite passtime, sucking her before, during and after he fucks her.
I've come to realize that sexual humilliation is perhaps the strongest sexual passion I have and I don't really understand why. But the idea of someone getting off by making me perform kinky sex really makes me hot.
So does anyone out there understand or have these same feelings

 

[trask9]

I understand and an relate to your feelings. I am on the Dom in of the sprectrum and having a willing Sub how loves to be humiliated is what gets me going. I have met women who are very submissive and alot of guys who want to please me in anyway they can. The threesome with a guy and a woman and you blindfolded is very exciting. I always tell the guy to lick her after I cum in her and also to lick me clean afterwards. Having several guys
and one woman and a blindfolded Sub is fun also. The reward for the Sub
is just as exciting for them, they are not allowed to cum until told to. Not allowed to touch themselves or rub against anything. I have seen Subs cum so hard that they nearly faint. Very exciting. Good luck, enjoy, live it.
TJ

 

[curious476]

Mmm..

I can cum without toching myself when a cock is in my mouth, especially if i can time it with the guy cuming.

 

[ars_amatoria]

It's not humiliation for me, but it is submission. For me, sex with a man is all about submitting to his desire. Eating a woman's pussy is all very nice and all and if we want to play d/s games, there's ways to do it, but the man's going to be stronger, better able and more likely to be physically dominant, and there's something IN your mouth, large, insistent, very much alive. There's no question about his being aroused. And let's face it, cocksucking is very much a dominant/submissive exercise, especially with the bottom on his or her knees-- always a delicious tableau. Ideally, I'll be in control for a while, deciding what I'll do to his cock, how, and how fast, but eventually he'll get so aroused that he'll just start fucking my mouth until he cums. It's not always comfortable but it is very exciting.

In fact, I'd just as soon not be humiliated. If the scene is hot enough and he really wants to do that, then I'll put up with it, but I consider my submission to be a gift that he damned well ought to be happy to get.

 

[Etoile]

there's something IN your mouth, large, insistent, very much alive.

Excellent point. Cocksucking, whether the cock is biological or silicone, is more invasive (for the submissive) than cunnilingus. This has a lot to do with submission - not only sexual, but psychological as well. There's something IN you, taking over you, and it's unavoidable. Licking a cunt (or an asshole) is much more an on-the-surface kind of thing. Even if the top grabs the bottom's ears/head/hair and rides that face like there's no tomorrow...it's not penetrative and therefore lacks the dominant effect of cocksucking.

 

[curious476]

I disagree

I have to tell you that when a woman's labia are swollen and I suck them into my mouth I become intoxicated with the desire to swallow them .suck them deep and make her empty herself into my mouth. Likewise burying my face between them and using my nose in her while my tongue teases her anus is a real turnon. Of course a cock does much the same and to feel it pulse in my mouth as it spurts is exciting but a guys cum just doesn't taste as good as a woman's I can cum just from sucking the cum from either.

 

[curiousben]

amazing; someone else!

Hi,I'm a, so far, straight middleaged guy with fantastic fantasies about just what curious 476 wrote about! I was just working up the courage to post a question about dominant trans sexuals or cd's. The fantasy of having a trans or cd sexually dominate me ,and/or being seduced by either is very arousing to me. Any comments or suggestions?