Purging Your Kink History

[jaF0]

Over the years, you amass a collection of stories, comments, images, emails and all sorts of other things on your computer(s) or other devices. Throughout the house, you may have various magazines, books, printed pictures, handwritten letters or notes, clothes, accessories, other miscellaneous bits or toys also. At some point you begin to realize just how much and in how many places.

But you also realize that you're aging, maybe faster than you expected and you've become prone to illnesses, falls, accidents or other misfortunes. As the song says, the Sun is the same in a relative way, but you're older, shorter of breath and one day closer to death. You know that there may come a time when someone may have legal reason to go through your house and various devices. You may not be dead yet, maybe moved into care of some sort. The trove of kink bits may be cause of inconveniences and unpleasantness.

Do you just not care what others may think? Do you begin the purge? If so, how complete? Do you try to sell what can be sold, or just throw it out in the trash? Do you keep some, stash it away some where you hope is safe from prying eyes?

 

[PrivateFrenzy]

We had a buddy, that one night, a pact was made to clean up each others history and evidence in the case one of us were to leave this place. Alcohol may have been involved. I long forgot about the whole thing.

Last summer, out of the blue, he calls and asked if I remembered the pact we had made. A light came on. I told him I did and asked what was going on. He informed me that he had very advanced and aggressive cancer and would soon be leaving and wanted me to "clean up" so his kids wouldn't have to be exposed to his goings on.

We were saddened, of course, and I told him I would take care of it. We visited him in the hospice where he laid out all his evidence so it would be easy for us. None of it was too shocking to us as we had shared many of the experiences with him along the way and our evidence is more involved than his were.

He called us Porn Buddies .. chuckle. We laughed a lot during that visit at some of the things we did. He was in good spirits and comforted about something that had been bothering him.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Anyone who quotes “The Floyd” deserves a thumbs up in my book!

To answer, I’ve wondered what my family will think if they come into possession of my iPad due to my untimely demise! My mother would quickly follow with a coronary, my kids would be a mixture of slack jawed awe and shame, and my wife would be like Mehhh, he was a perv!

I was very good at covering my tracks, just to make sure any prying eyes wouldn’t stumble on to something, but since I’ve found this site, I’ve been prone to just leaving the site open on the “private” setting. Since the rest of the house only uses notebooks and desktops, they may not know about that setting and probably wouldn’t find anything.

I do think about this though and PrivateFrenzy has a good solution with the pornbuddy Idea!

Now if the wife and I both go, there’s those pesky toys to deal with. I’ll be laughing from the beyond looking at their faces as they pull out my wife’s selection!

 

[FGB]

I had a DeadMan program for many years for my harddrive that would wipe it with BCwipe. I do not know this one and there is not much in the way of description...
https://indexcorner.com/app/dead-mans-switch/

 

[Goldenfinger]

That’s my wife’s job when I die.

 

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[boytoyjoy]

My collections are not that large and are as far as I know, all on media under my control. The total amount is not all that much in terms of today's computer storage. I don't think I would try to purge it in the sense of getting rid of it. If I had the energy I could see trying to consolidate it all into one place. Some of the better stuff is on a crashed hard drive that I would like to try to recover some day.

 

[anniebaby10]

My daughter found my vibrator in the hotel room where my husband ( her father) and I were staying when we visited her at college. I had forgotten we had used it the night before and she came to meet us for breakfast and had to use the bathroom. As we were walking down the street she gave me a hug and said "mom, I know you and dad are horny little perverts but please put your sex toys away when your finished"..... and I just laughed as she stared at me like I was some kind of freak. So I have already been outed so I don't care what her and her sister find.........

 

[shenandoah11]

My daughter found my vibrator in the hotel room where my husband ( her father) and I were staying when we visited her at college. I had forgotten we had used it the night before and she came to meet us for breakfast and had to use the bathroom. As we were walking down the street she gave me a hug and said "mom, I know you and dad are horny little perverts but please put your sex toys away when your finished"..... and I just laughed as she stared at me like I was some kind of freak. So I have already been outed so I don't care what her and her sister find.........

Hi Annie I was looking at some of the replies to questions here and I love this one, I can see how open minded you are and I think your girls are very lucky to have a mom that is not only sexual but also very open minded about her sexuality. I wonder if they also know that you are bi?. The more I read your replies here the more I would like to get to know you.. your family is so lucky.