Pumped

[PaulP1970]

I posted this in the Personals Forum, but this one may draw different readers, so...

I have a question for women who enjoy FWB sex with men. I'm not looking for love at the moment, but I do love sex.

Recently I had prostate surgery. It ended those happy times when erections arose easily. Erectile function is now pretty much nil. The usual pills and injections don't work, and a surgical implant pump is a bridge too far for me. That leaves a penis pump as the only way to get hard.

So, ladies, you meet a guy and things progress to a desire to head for bed. If I'm the guy, I'm certainly going to tell you up front about my situation. Yes, I can get hard, but I need the pump. Yes, I can have little orgasms, but if male cum is a big part of your pleasure, you would have to look elsewhere. Yes, my hands and mouth and tongue still work and remember what to do. And my cock, although not what it used to be, still feels pleasure.

The question: knowing that, would you still want to fuck that guy, or is this problem a deal breaker?

There are no wrong answers, because I'm genuinely curious about your feeling. Comments here or PM would be fine and much appreciated. Thanks!

 

[sissinabra]

Paul,
I am 60 , married and missing my prostate. Without a pump and cockring , my wife would have no satisfaction .
Neither of us will be’as we were’ prior to surgery , but pretty good sex is still on the table. Or counter top .

 

[PaulP1970]

Thank you, sissinabra!

 

[Goldenfinger]

The right person will understand and won’t care. They will care about you and will be willing to make it work

 

[PaulP1970]

Thank you, Goldenfinger!

 

[curiousitieskill]

I posted this in the Personals Forum, but this one may draw different readers, so...

I have a question for women who enjoy FWB sex with men. I'm not looking for love at the moment, but I do love sex.

Recently I had prostate surgery. It ended those happy times when erections arose easily. Erectile function is now pretty much nil. The usual pills and injections don't work, and a surgical implant pump is a bridge too far for me. That leaves a penis pump as the only way to get hard.

So, ladies, you meet a guy and things progress to a desire to head for bed. If I'm the guy, I'm certainly going to tell you up front about my situation. Yes, I can get hard, but I need the pump. Yes, I can have little orgasms, but if male cum is a big part of your pleasure, you would have to look elsewhere. Yes, my hands and mouth and tongue still work and remember what to do. And my cock, although not what it used to be, still feels pleasure.

The question: knowing that, would you still want to fuck that guy, or is this problem a deal breaker?

There are no wrong answers, because I'm genuinely curious about your feeling. Comments here or PM would be fine and much appreciated. Thanks!

the idea of pumping a guy's cock before i ride it is so fucking hot to me.

 

[naughty_stories]

At least yours will still work with some help. Post removal and radiation (in my mid 40's) and more surgery to remove scarring nothing works down there. However if you are prepared for a very long worship session........

 

[Beholders_Eye]

I am very glad for my pump and cock rings. I am currently and single and live alone. If I should in the future connect with a woman, I would explain the situation and hope she would be accommodating.