My sub has a We-Vibe vibrating egg that is app controlled. I often control it, especially when she is at work. She is staying with he parents now for a few days and has taken it with her. I will control it while she is there.“The wait is the hardest part” (Tom Petty) but so worth it. Lovense has this amazing wand (on sale) that I recommend. You can control it by your phone or someone can control it for you! Best version of the wand I’ve owned (and I’ve owned a few lol)