Catching a "Looker"
Okay, I'll admit it:
I like to stare. A lot.
I've spent afternoons at the mall, or the coffee shop, or other public spaces, just to watch women. I let my gaze linger. Sometimes I get a knowing smile in return; other times I get vacant or ambivalent looks, or downright hostility. Sometimes women either don't notice at all or pretend not to. Frankly, I'm just as turned on either way. I have walked through a mall several times, just to pass an attractive woman again and again.
I love the thought that an attractive woman walking by can instantly ascertain that I am a total slut...that I cannot resist a woman's charms, her shapely legs, a perfect pair of heels, a smart little pencil skirt, a flimsy little sundress, a plunging neckline. On a few occasions, I've said some very inappropriate things to total strangers, but I usually reserve this behavior for mature (and probably married) women who dress to be noticed.
Usually, I simply stare. For a little longer than I should. I'm curious to hear your opinion. I am a pretty attractive guy, and I have a lot of female friends. If any of them knew how I might let my gaze wander over them if I didn't already know them, well...
On one or two occasions I've been caught totally red-handed by a girl I had met once or twice before. Someone I didn't entirely recognize but who clearly recognized me. I've never been called out on it, but these led to a couple of awkward "hellos"!
So: weird, creepy, distasteful? Or would a good-looking man checking you out, undressing you with his eyes, tearing into you with his gaze turn you on?
Okay, I'll admit it:
I like to stare. A lot.
I've spent afternoons at the mall, or the coffee shop, or other public spaces, just to watch women. I let my gaze linger. Sometimes I get a knowing smile in return; other times I get vacant or ambivalent looks, or downright hostility. Sometimes women either don't notice at all or pretend not to. Frankly, I'm just as turned on either way. I have walked through a mall several times, just to pass an attractive woman again and again.
I love the thought that an attractive woman walking by can instantly ascertain that I am a total slut...that I cannot resist a woman's charms, her shapely legs, a perfect pair of heels, a smart little pencil skirt, a flimsy little sundress, a plunging neckline. On a few occasions, I've said some very inappropriate things to total strangers, but I usually reserve this behavior for mature (and probably married) women who dress to be noticed.
Usually, I simply stare. For a little longer than I should. I'm curious to hear your opinion. I am a pretty attractive guy, and I have a lot of female friends. If any of them knew how I might let my gaze wander over them if I didn't already know them, well...
On one or two occasions I've been caught totally red-handed by a girl I had met once or twice before. Someone I didn't entirely recognize but who clearly recognized me. I've never been called out on it, but these led to a couple of awkward "hellos"!
So: weird, creepy, distasteful? Or would a good-looking man checking you out, undressing you with his eyes, tearing into you with his gaze turn you on?
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