Public, out in the open, peace offering to Pabloback.

[sch00lteacher]

Pablo,

I am writing this to see if we can't work something out, over come our differences, stop fighting. I have had enough hatred and fighting in my days. I don't want any more.

First I apologize for whatever was said in your wrestling thread that upset you so much. It wasn't my original intention to upset you. It never is. I admit that once you responded I did try. I take full blame for that, it was wrong. I am sorry. I will still say that I think the beer drinking is over the top and shouldn't happen on TV. It is the wrong message to send to the little ones. I have a nephew who just loves the hell out of the WWF. I don't want him to think that slamming down beer is the way to celebrate a 'victory'.

I was shocked at how angry you got. I knew we were never 'best buddies' but I'd no idea that you hated me so. I mean the few times we had exchanged posts they seemed civil to me. Some of them even friendly. I would like to return to that. If not that then I would at least like us to ignore each other.

Believe it or not I don't hate you, I don't dislike you, and I don't know you! I don't hate what you hold dear. If you like to kick back and watch wrestling have a great time. I don't care. I used to watch it myself way back when Ricky Steamboat was big time. It has changed too much for me now though. Too much show and drama I guess, not enough ring action. But that is just me. I do not demand that everyone else think just like me.

Tell me what to do, besides fuck off. Believe it or not it does bother me when someone gets as mad at me as you seem to be, and I am not sure why. I want to make amends. That doesn't mean that "I want to take warm showers with you until the wee hours of the morning", or whatever Eastwood said in Heartbreak Ridge. I am serious. I want to return to the time when we at least respected each other.

What do you want me to do?

I am never happy when there is imbalance in my life. I strive to keep things even. Right now they are not.

I am holding my hand out to you, in peace. I want to make amends. I want this little tiff to end, now. Shake my hand. If you can not forgive me then fine, at least do me the favor of keeping your negative remarks about me between the two of us. PM me and blast me whenever the mood strikes you. But keep it off the boards. Please.

To everyone else who reads this, who thinks I ride a High Horse, I don't. I do not think I am better, or smarter than anyone on this board. I know that there are quite a few users here who kick my ass when it comes to IQ.

I type fast. I can type almost as fast as I think. Believe it or not this is they way I think. I am sorry if I sometimes use big words. Or sound condescending. It is not my intention to do so. I do use quite a bit of sarcasm. I know that. I am a sarcastic son of a bitch. I sometimes say things that only I find humorous. And I don't explain the joke. Maybe I should. According to Pablo there are quite a few of you who dislike me. Fine. Hate my guts. I do respect the fact that even though you hate me, you don't make issue of it on the board. Thank you for that.

I know I have a small handful of friends here. I am always open for more. To all of my friends, I love you guys, you have really helped me get through five months of hell. Now we have two more (plus) to get through. I hope you will continue to encourage and support me.

I come here to escape the real world. To pass some time with some friends. To see what people think and how they feel. And to share my thoughts and feelings. This is often the only communication I have with anybody during a day's time. I am stuck at home. Now until June. I thought I would be able to return to work after Easter break. That isn't going to be the case. That has really rocked my boat. I want to go back to work. I am sick and fucking tired of being stuck at home alone all day. Until I get used to the fact I am not going back to work I am going to be a little upset. Please bear with me if I seem out of sorts some times.

Per doctor's orders I have started to go to the gym everyday. I put myself through a lot of pain, so I can get back to work. Funny thing pain, it puts me in a bad mood sometimes. It also makes me take medication that fucks with my head. Catch-22. Work out, get stronger, return to work. But in the mean time I have to fuck my head up and be depressed and confused. Whoopie!

So, Pablo, what will it be? My hand is still out there for you. You do not have to respond to this. All I ask is that you stop the attacks in public. I promise to answer any PM or email that you send. If you never want to talk to me again the rest of your life, fine, I can accept that, okay? But if you want to be friends then I am here waiting.

So?

 

[Sateema Lunasi]

Way cool.

 

[sch00lteacher]

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[Zamdrist]

Just a quick note...It's so easy to misinterpet someone's words online, miss the sound of their voice, the infelction of tone. We all need to slow down, re-read a post that might sound like it's an attack.

Also be explicit about what you say and how you say it. Quickly follow up if it appears your words were misinterpeted.

 

[SINthysist]

What next.

Troll apologies?

There's enough voices on the board and not enough time to kiss one person's ass.

Time is the answer...

Eventually someone will piss him off worse. Like Me.




Pablo - wrestling is for the mentally challenged. It's on the level of attending Star Trek conventions or taping every episode of Baywatch. It's like watching the Oscars and all the bad acting that goes on. I suppose you like watching them little cars go 'round and 'round for hours on that little bitty screen... It's like hassling poor ol' schoolteacher, who never means anyone any harm.

 

[Cheyenne]

I didn't read whatever thread was the problem since I don't usually read wrestling threads. But I like both Teach and Pablo, so it would be nice to see them not kill each other.

Hope you two have a great weekend and a Happy Easter if you celebrate the holiday.

 

[Bindii]

Like Cheyenne I didn't read the original thread.

Schoolteacher it takes a real man to extend the hand of friendship. Well said.

 

[Guest]

lets get one thing straight here

first of all i respect everybodies views and their right to air them
second up there is one taboo subject on this board YOU DONT DIS' WRESTLING [for the anally retentive , people with a humour bypass and non new yorkers , that was an ironic comment]
You were the one that also attacked the french people killed by a gunman and called them cowards. i have no particular love for the french as a nation , collectively they conform to their stereotype of snobbery and look down their noses at other nations especially the italians , but on an individual level i find the french people warm and friendly , wow just like the rest of the world .
what you said was way out of line and i reserve the right to criticise anyone as i see fit , in the same way as i accept other individuals rights to criticise me
i have absolutely no feelings for anyone that posts on this board in any way as i have never met any of you [there are one or two people who i am particularly close to and do converse with on the phone from time to time ]
i did not say that anyone hates you , i did imply that some people are bored with your whining and negative posts , cant be that many because i dont pm very many people on the board
you more often than not show a degree of intelligence and are normally articulate in your posts which can often be a welcome change on the boards .
i call it as i see it and i will not be two faced about any issue i believe that most people on the board know what to expect from me .
it takes a lot to stand up and apologise and i respect that
i also respect a lot of what you have said in previous threads
this will be the end of the matter
until we disagree over something else , nothing personal



oh yeah and as for sinthesist it has been scientifically proved that people that watch the scifi channel have higher iq's than the general public?
you dont watch startrek?
what does that say about you?
second thoughts , dont try to answer that
dont forget to leave the front door open , it will save the paramedics having to knock when they take you away to the asylum

 

[pabloback]

Re: lets get one thing straight here

first of all i respect everybodies views and their right to air them
second up there is one taboo subject on this board YOU DONT DIS' WRESTLING [for the anally retentive , people with a humour bypass and non new yorkers , that was an ironic comment]
You were the one that also attacked the french people killed by a gunman and called them cowards. i have no particular love for the french as a nation , collectively they conform to their stereotype of snobbery and look down their noses at other nations especially the italians , but on an individual level i find the french people warm and friendly , wow just like the rest of the world .
what you said was way out of line and i reserve the right to criticise anyone as i see fit , in the same way as i accept other individuals rights to criticise me
i have absolutely no feelings for anyone that posts on this board in any way as i have never met any of you [there are one or two people who i am particularly close to and do converse with on the phone from time to time ]
i did not say that anyone hates you , i did imply that some people are bored with your whining and negative posts , cant be that many because i dont pm very many people on the board
you more often than not show a degree of intelligence and are normally articulate in your posts which can often be a welcome change on the boards .
i call it as i see it and i will not be two faced about any issue i believe that most people on the board know what to expect from me .
it takes a lot to stand up and apologise and i respect that
i also respect a lot of what you have said in previous threads
this will be the end of the matter
until we disagree over something else , nothing personal



oh yeah and as for sinthesist it has been scientifically proved that people that watch the scifi channel have higher iq's than the general public?
you dont watch startrek?
what does that say about you?
second thoughts , dont try to answer that
dont forget to leave the front door open , it will save the paramedics having to knock when they take you away to the asylum

i hate it when that happens

 

[sch00lteacher]

I accept your right to disagree with me, like I said I don't want to take warm showers with you until the wee hours of the morning.

I am going to disagree with you on occasion. We will never agree about wrestling. I will stay away from the subject.

If you are ever in a situation such as what happened in France, fight back okay? I'd hate to see you with a hole in your back hiding under a table. If everyone fights back, this kind of shit will end.

I do have feelings for the regulars on the board. Right or wrong I can't help it. I think I know a hell of a lot more about some people here than I do in my 'regular' life. I get to see what ticks inside. And Pablo, like it or not, your are one of the regulars. Most of the time I agree with you. I'll never agree 100% with anyone.

I don't mind your getting pissed off and ranting at me as much as I dislike the violent tone of your message. Does that make any sense? Go ahead and get pissed when you think I said something stupid. Hey, sometimes I make a real ass out of myself. But don't get violent. I won't deal with that. I refuse to. Violence directed towards me makes me violent. I no longer live that life. I have left it behind. I am not saying that I am a bible toting pacifist. I just ain't killing anyone anymore, unless they fuck with my friends or family.

i also respect a lot of what you have said in previous threads this will be the end of the matter until we disagree over something else , nothing personal

Great. Agreed.

Thank you for being a man about this. We don't have to be best buddies, but we also don't have to attack each other just because of a disagreement.


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[sch00lteacher]

Like Cheyenne I didn't read the original thread.

Schoolteacher it takes a real man to extend the hand of friendship. Well said.

Thanks.

But let us not forget that it also takes a real man to accept an apology. Some people would rather fight than make peace.

Nice to meet you Ms. Bindii, we have yet to exchange greetings. Welcome to the board.

 

[kiwiwolf]

Schoolteacher and Pablo... huge balls both of you... both of you have my utmost respect for what that is worth...






... now how about a group hug... grab some of those women... Oi Bindii, Cheyenne, get in here...

 

[SINthysist]

Does it surprise you that a wrestling fan got violent in a rant?

Wonder if Pablo took a folding chair to the keyboard...

 

[deuce]

lol @ sinthysist. and fair play to you both. as has been said, it takes alot to give and recieve apologys. well done

 

[christophe]

I think both of you have some great threads...serious and funny!
glad to see the blood shed will be at a minimum