Public Humiliation For Your Enjoyment

[Marquis]

So I message this girl on collarme, offering my services as potential spirit guide. My profile states my relationship situation, which is that I am in a committed relationship with two women, but open to casual playing with the right people.

I get a response totally free of any of the hindrances of punctuation, complete with spelling and grammar that reeked "toddler". Naturally I was intrigued.

I began talking to this unusual specimen through the Yahoo IM, where she steadily climbed on the psycho meter to proportions previously alien to me (and I have a thing for psychos). Eventually it was revealed that she is indeed a different person than the hot blonde she used as a profile picture. At this time I decided to end our conversation lest I be talking to a man. She offered to prove she was a female somehow and I told her to write my name on her tits and send me the picture.

To my esteemed Litizens, for your amusement, I present to you the most demented female I have ever had the pleasure of conversing with. Hot off the presses.

 

[FurryFury]

She looks cute to me.

Damn it!

I thought I was the most demented!

*chuckles*

Have to try harder then!

Fury

PS, If I ever show a pic, it's really me. I guess that's what I'm not doing right.

 

[Killishandra]

Yeah, this girl is psycho.

I'm bummed you decided not to have me IM her.

 

[bg23]

Could I ask if she knows you're doing this?

Posting her picture on a porn board, complete with that oh so flattering history and description?

I'm sorry, but that's really fucking rude, insensitive, and just downright fucked up.

I feel sorry for the women who are involved with you.

 

[dolf]

marquis honey...you know i love you...but...

you're being a shit!!!

there, i said it. sure, whine all you like. i know you well enough to take your word for it on the psycho thing. but posting her pic is wrong!

 

[Killishandra]

Could I ask if she knows you're doing this?
Posting her picture on a porn board, complete with that oh so flattering history and description?
I'm sorry, but that's really fucking rude, insensitive, and just downright fucked up.
I feel sorry for the women who are involved with you.

Save your pity. Use the energy to run your brain cells instead; I can hear them huffing and wheezing, so I'm going to help you out here.

First of all, this girl shouldn't be acting like a retard, and sending pictures of herself with "Marquis" written in demented handwriting off into cyberspace. But she did, and this is the consequence.

Marquis isn't making anything up, and he isn't being dishonest. He contacted a female through a BDSM personals site and she turned out to be misrepresenting herself to everyone. He busted her for it, and then related the funny story of the psycho girl on a BDSM forum, complete with amusing picture (which she probably wouldn't have sent out if she was overly concerned about it ending up elsewhere.)

At the least, it's a funny story. At the most, I see an important point about how people represent themselves on the internet. There ARE truly stupid and psycho people out there.

And by the way, having jewish ancestry, I find your use of the word "hitlerite" offensive...

"I'm sorry, but that's really fucking rude, insensitive, and just downright fucked up."

 

[bg23]

Save your pity. Use the energy to run your brain cells instead; I can hear them huffing and wheezing, so I'm going to help you out here.

First of all, this girl shouldn't be acting like a retard, and sending pictures of herself with "Marquis" written in demented handwriting off into cyberspace. But she did, and this is the consequence.

Marquis isn't making anything up, and he isn't being dishonest. He contacted a female through a BDSM personals site and she turned out to be misrepresenting herself to everyone. He busted her for it, and then related the funny story of the psycho girl on a BDSM forum, complete with amusing picture (which she probably wouldn't have sent out if she was overly concerned about it ending up elsewhere.)

At the least, it's a funny story. At the most, I see an important point about how people represent themselves on the internet. There ARE truly stupid and psycho people out there.

And by the way, having jewish ancestry, I find your use of the word "hitlerite" offensive...

I'm sorry, but that's really fucking rude, insensitive, and just downright fucked up.

uh, sorry, but two objections here -

posting a picture of a person, face included, which they sent to you privately in trust? against the rules.

hitlerite? not.

moreover - you've never sent a photo of yourself to somebody?
so if you did, you wouldn't mind it if they posted it on a porn board and called you a demented loser?

put yourself in her shoes for a second.

i'm sorry, but even if she'd known her face was going to be out in public, i doubt it would have been with the degrading story that accompanied.

also - who the hell is he to judge who the hell is demented or not? somebody can't spell, so they're demented? to my view, being this cruel, this insensitive is extremely demented. so...i wouldn't call that "the truth", would you?

my "hitlerite" title is a joke. not meant to insult or offend anybody but hitler - it's irony. maybe that's beyond your understanding. but this thread? check the title - "public humiliation for your enjoyment"? that's a pointed attack.

you're a fucking moron for defending his actions.

 

[Metrodance]

I think it is abhorrent that you post another persons picture without their permission. You are apparently lacking brain cells.
And you – Killishandra – if I want a comment from you, I’ll rattle your cage. Keep your beak out.

 

[bg23]

If you don't like what someone says, ignore them. That is a major part of free speech, which in turn is the foundation of this website.

it made me feel better to call him names. immature? maybe. bite me.

while my major objection is to the simply degrading nature of this thread, there's more than just an exercise of free speech going on here.

there's a rule explicitly relating to pictures somewhere, but until i find it, this will have to suffice:

4. You may not post personal information of other members or, for that matter, anyone else. We do not allow phone numbers, email addresses, private messages or quotes from private emails to be posted on the forum. This rule also covers real names, employment info, and any other personal information that we deem inappropriate.

i think a photo is rather personal, don't you think?

the fact that she sent it to him is irrelevant. if she sent him her number, would that be allowed? i think not.

it's not just about the insensitivity of the post, but the privacy. suppose her mother opened this thread and found that? suppose her boss? her coworkers?

simply unacceptable.

by the way - does allowing someone free speech mean we have to shut up and let him say what he wants without a word?
free speech means no censorship. not no comment.

 

[Metrodance]

And Metrodance; Who asked what You wanted? Is this not Marquis's thread?

I’m afraid no one actually owns threads, you silly small person.

I can comment where and when I choose – and I do.

Marquis is a moron for posting this and should be removed from Moderator position.

 

[bg23]

*snicker @ metro's post.

 

[Killishandra]

I’m afraid no one actually owns threads, you silly small person.

I can comment where and when I choose – and I do.

Marquis is a moron for posting this and should be removed from Moderator position.

When He wakes up, and sees your silly "outrage" over what was supposed to be a funny post, I'm guessing he'll take off the pic or remove the thread entirely.

I seriously doubt he foresaw this much commotion over it, but now that you've made it, it will be dealt with. Sharing a funny pic and story is probably not worth dealing with the headache you are both creating.

Anyone who wants to continue to use this thread to pipe in about how outraged they are go right ahead. It's already been said, it's done, over with, move on with your lives. I doubt the pic will stay up much longer anyway.

 

[bg23]

i misread your post. i interpreted your comment about free speech to be about the pic.

nonetheless, if the pic will be removed, then we will have accomplished what we set out to do in voicing our disapproval.

a simple goal, easily accomplished.
thanks muchly.

 

[Metrodance]

When He wakes up,.....longer anyway.

Whatever. If he’s at all intelligent he will. I have all ready told him to do it. Pride may affect his meagre judgement which would be a pity.

On a lighter note, I find you rather amusing.

 

[Killishandra]

Sigh... you both repeat my point. Most of my post was in reference to Metrodance's remark toward's Killi. Furthermore, I agree that posting her pic is wrong.

I thought I made my opinion fairly clear there... but it seems you're both too busy milking your own venom to give my post thought. That's fine.

There is a saying... though damned if I can remember where I heard it; "Neutrality will always appear to be opposition to a fanatic"

I like that phrase, "milking your own venom." Seems to suit this perfectly.

I think it is kind of funny that they are scrambling to get the rulebooks to back themselves up... I have no doubt that posting the pic is technically against the rules, but I'm honestly surprised that they have nothing better to do than flame his thread over it. One of these chicks actually started a thread in the General Board about THIS thread! LOL

Whatever, there's nothing to be done about it at the moment except grab popcorn and watch the show.

 

[Metrodance]

Sigh... you both repeat my point.

When an insect buzzes at me, I swat. I am sorry if I misread your post. I was full of outraged indignation – it’s a rather splendid feeling.
And I can't recall the quote either.

 

[dolf]

When He wakes up, and sees your silly "outrage" over what was supposed to be a funny post, I'm guessing he'll take off the pic or remove the thread entirely.

I seriously doubt he foresaw this much commotion over it, but now that you've made it, it will be dealt with. Sharing a funny pic and story is probably not worth dealing with the headache you are both creating.

Anyone who wants to continue to use this thread to pipe in about how outraged they are go right ahead. It's already been said, it's done, over with, move on with your lives. I doubt the pic will stay up much longer anyway.

you wouldn't think it silly if it was your picture hon.

i like your loyalty to him, i'm sure he'll be proud of you for this, but his judgement was out when he posted the pic...it seems like petty malice and he's a better man than this.

 

[Metrodance]

Whatever, there's nothing to be done about it at the moment except grab popcorn and watch the show.

The real show is watching you scramble to recover. That is rather amusing.
He will remove it and life will go on.

Play nice Tiddlywinks, I must leave you for greener and, dare I say it, more entertaining horizons.

 

[bg23]

I like that phrase, "milking your own venom." Seems to suit this perfectly.

I think it is kind of funny that they are scrambling to get the rulebooks to back themselves up... I have no doubt that posting the pic is technically against the rules, but I'm honestly surprised that they have nothing better to do than flame his thread over it. One of these chicks actually started a thread in the General Board about THIS thread! LOL

Whatever, there's nothing to be done about it at the moment except grab popcorn and watch the show.

ever stopped to consider it might happen to you?

the man you adore is capable of something like this.

suppose you acted normally, sent a picture out, and somebody did this to you?

you might not think you were acted demented - but he might. how do you know he won't?

people like you seriously make me question where sense, reason and compassion's gone.

 

[Debbie]

When He wakes up, and sees your silly "outrage" over what was supposed to be a funny post, I'm guessing he'll take off the pic or remove the thread entirely.



I seriously doubt he foresaw this much commotion over it, but now that you've made it, it will be dealt with. Sharing a funny pic and story is probably not worth dealing with the headache you are both creating.

Anyone who wants to continue to use this thread to pipe in about how outraged they are go right ahead. It's already been said, it's done, over with, move on with your lives. I doubt the pic will stay up much longer anyway.

I thought BDSM was based on mutual respect, honesty, boundaries, safe words etc?

I'm not outraged - I think it is disrespectful, arrogant and rude.


And why would he edit the pic or remove the thread if he didn't think what he originally posted was ok?

I'm sure you wouldn't like it if this was done to you without your permission
or say so.

 

[Killishandra]

ever stopped to consider it might happen to you?

Any pics I send or allow to send out into cyberspace are ones that I would show my own family. I don't believe in a person doing anything they are not willing to acknowledge, which is why I have no personal qualms about any pic sent into cyberspace, mine or someone else's, being posted on the internet.

the man you adore is capable of something like this.

Yes, He is. And I wouldn't change a damn thing about Him.

suppose you acted normally, sent a picture out, and somebody did this to you?

This girl was not acting normally, just for the record.

you might not think you were acted demented - but he might. how do you know he won't?

people like you seriously make me question where sense, reason and compassion's gone.

Like I said, my own personal morals and _sensibilities_ say that any pic sent into cyberspace or to a stranger should be fair game. Else, don't take it or send it in the first place. That's my own opinion, I understand that YMMV. The only serious issue I see is rule-breaking, but the pic can't be removed without Him. I'll be very happy when it's gone, cause you, my dear, are giving me a migraine with your incessant whining.

 

[Guest]

I think it is kind of funny that they are scrambling to get the rulebooks to back themselves up... I have no doubt that posting the pic is technically against the rules, but I'm honestly surprised that they have nothing better to do than flame his thread over it. One of these chicks actually started a thread in the General Board about THIS thread! LOL

You haven't been here very long, and it shows. Posting of the rules happens every 14.5 hours. Why? Because breaking the rules happens every 14 hours. And Mods have been booted over less than this.

 

[Killishandra]

The real show is watching you scramble to recover. That is rather amusing.
He will remove it and life will go on.

Play nice Tiddlywinks, I must leave you for greener and, dare I say it, more entertaining horizons.

Farewell, bitch.

ahhhh.... silence

 

[Debbie]

Any pics I send or allow to send out into cyberspace are ones that I would show my own family. I don't believe in a person doing anything they are not willing to acknowledge, which is why I have no personal qualms about any pic sent into cyberspace, mine or someone else's, being posted on the internet.



Yes, He is. And I wouldn't change a damn thing about Him.



This girl was not acting normally, just for the record.



Like I said, my own personal morals and _sensibilities_ say that any pic sent into cyberspace or to a stranger should be fair game. Else, don't take it or send it in the first place. That's my own opinion, I understand that YMMV. The only serious issue I see is rule-breaking, but the pic can't be removed without Him. I'll be very happy when it's gone, cause you, my dear, are giving me a migraine with your incessant whining.

She sent a pic to him. Not to the whole internet.

If you sent him a pic debasing yourself for His pleasure and His alone you could handle it if He posted it on lit for thousands of people to see, click and save and share with their friends etc?


How would you like it if you told me your real name, address etc and because you told me this info in cyberspace I shared it on lit?

Would you feel the same way then?

 

[Metrodance]

Farewell, bitch.
ahhhh.... silence

Boo!
*Cackles wildly before flying off on broomstick*