Public displays of affection

Bindii

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How do you feel about it?

Do you think there's a line between freedom of expression and lewd/lascivious behavior?
What's that line, to you?
Should everyone just be free to express their sexuality/sensuality as they see fit?

We've all been out at clubs and seen a drunk couple doing the major bump and grind on the dance floor, or seen some drunk woman sucking the life out of some stranger's nipples - or worse! :eek: Do you laugh? Roll your eyes? Think, "right on!"? Think, "Ewwww"? or hardly notice while you go about your own business?

How do you rate yourself on the PDA (public display of affection) scale?....are you more on the conservative side, or are closer to the other end of the spectrum, believing that you'll darn well do what you like and if someone doesn't like it, they don't have to look?
 
Personally i love showing my husband affection in public, from holding hands, hugs, kisses, and the ocassion butt grab. But i always try to keep other people's opinion in mind.

I think there is a definite line. For instance, if i wouldn't feel comfortable doing something in front of my mother i wouldn't do it in public. i think it is just a matter of common curtesy.
 
I suppose I'm personally conservative in public & I expect some decorum from others as well. However, in a place like a bar where there are no children,other people don't offend me. I consider it entertainment, be it comic or erotic.
 
I actually LOVE lewd acts in public.;) It's like watching a live porno.
 
I think there's a time and place for everything. I don't mind PDA, but I don't really feel like seeing two people making out heavily on the street, in a restaurant, store etc and with their hands all over. I know it's a wonderful feeling and I personally don't feel disgusted of anything by it, but still, common curtesy to others.

When it comes to a club, well that's different. If I'm in a club I really don't care at all. It's the time, it's the place, people are partying and so on. I just laugh and am happy they're enjoying themselves (and wish I was in their place!):rolleyes: If you don't like it in a club, then just look away.
 
Re: TWB?

*bratcat* said:
[public dispay of affection]

Dearest...lover...sweetheart...


CLEAN OUT YOUR PM BOX!!!!


Thank you, darlin. :kiss:

[/public display of affection}

I am not sure that kiss was quite public enough.
 
iamman said:
I actually LOVE lewd acts in public.;) It's like watching a live porno.

This reminds me of an incident a couple of weekends ago...my SO and I were out walking late one night while on a trip to the Coast when we passed a ground floor unit....a man was standing in front of a large uncurtained window with his girlfriend kneeling and giving him oral sex...laugh....my SO tried to drag me away saying "Its not polite to watch". Hey if they are willing to put on a show then I'm sure as hell gonna watch it I say!

Does this make me a peeping tom?:D
 
Bindii said:


But how does it make you feel when you see another couple making out in public?

I think one of two things:

That is sweet

or

"They need a hint of death," for it to be truly romantic.
 
Bindii said:

Consider your laugh courtesy of Francis Ford Coppola, Mickey Rourke, and Charles Bukowski, It's a line stolen from "Barfly."

Good 80s flick, BTW
 
riff said:


Consider your laugh courtesy of Francis Ford Coppola, Mickey Rourke, and Charles Bukowski, It's a line stolen from "Barfly."


Yet timely delivered by Riff. Thanks for the laugh.
 
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