Psoriasis, dating & sex

[LadyFunkenstein]

Something you can't live with?
Sorry to hear that...

I don't know if I can or if I can't. If I were 10 years younger it wouldn't matter, but now it does. I'm going to age out someday soon and I know it. Do I really want to dedicate time to a relationship with a probable cap? That said, I don't have anything else going on, perhaps I should enjoy what may prove to be fleeting, since life is short. And I do enjoy him immensely. I really thought the flaw would be easy...

 

[clutch1]

What's the bigger issue, and I only ask because you brought it up.
And if you do enjoy him immensely, ride it out you never know what may come.
I wouldn't worry about aging out too soon.

 

[warrior queen]

I don't know if I can or if I can't. If I were 10 years younger it wouldn't matter, but now it does. I'm going to age out someday soon and I know it. Do I really want to dedicate time to a relationship with a probable cap? That said, I don't have anything else going on, perhaps I should enjoy what may prove to be fleeting, since life is short. And I do enjoy him immensely. I really thought the flaw would be easy...

There's a line that most people have... does his flaw cross your line?
If not, why not just enjoy, relax, and see what happens?

I will be forever grateful to the little voice in my head that told me to stick with it, even tho my guy skated right on my line.
We're in our 6th year, and still going strong.
Sometimes you just gotta see where things go

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

What's the bigger issue, and I only ask because you brought it up.
And if you do enjoy him immensely, ride it out you never know what may come.
I wouldn't worry about aging out too soon.

There's a line that most people have... does his flaw cross your line?
If not, why not just enjoy, relax, and see what happens?

I will be forever grateful to the little voice in my head that told me to stick with it, even tho my guy skated right on my line.
We're in our 6th year, and still going strong.
Sometimes you just gotta see where things go

Aging out isn't a worry of mine, but it's a simple fact of life. It happens to everyone, to women much sooner than men. (and if a man makes enough money, it will not happen to him at all)

I don't really want to say what the issue is here, but trust me everyone would understand my hesitancy if I told the whole story.

 

[warrior queen]

Aging out isn't a worry of mine, but it's a simple fact of life. It happens to everyone, to women much sooner than men. (and if a man makes enough money, it will not happen to him at all)

I don't really want to say what the issue is here, but trust me everyone would understand my hesitancy if I told the whole story.

Well, at the end of the day, only you can make the decision as to what you can live with.
It's sad for the rest of us to see though... because for a while, you seemed almost happy.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

Well, at the end of the day, only you can make the decision as to what you can live with.
It's sad for the rest of us to see though... because for a while, you seemed almost happy.

I assure you, that feeling is mutual.

 

[clutch1]

Aging out isn't a worry of mine, but it's a simple fact of life. It happens to everyone, to women much sooner than men. (and if a man makes enough money, it will not happen to him at all)

I don't really want to say what the issue is here, but trust me everyone would understand my hesitancy if I told the whole story.

Totally understandable. Trolls and all.

 

[Noor]

So long as I have bumped this thread to respond to Noor...

It's funny, as I've said before on this board, dating at my age is like shopping for a suit at Goodwill. Everything is used and fucked up, so you have to figure out what flaws you can live with. To me, bad skin is an easy flaw, totally acceptable. BUT as it turns out, that isn't the big flaw. There's a bigger issue here. Sigh.

Darn, rats... Sorry :-(