prostate stiumlation without insertion

[grungalunga]

alright, im just wondering if theres anyway to massage the prostrate without insertion. I read somewhere that if you rub just the right spot by the gooch, you can stimulate it without having to insert anything into the anus.

Im asking this bc i feel the anus was designed as an exit only thing, and trying to stick anything up there can only lead to damage.

 

[asenath]

gooch? *L*

 

[grungalunga]

gooch? *L*

thats what johnny knoxville called it before him and steve-o decided to strap one of those electopads there.

 

[lovechild27]

Im asking this bc i feel the anus was designed as an exit only thing, and trying to stick anything up there can only lead to damage.

Oh please. Get over it. There are a ton of nerve endings in your anus. I know most guys have the if anything goes in my butt im gay deal. Really...get over it. It isnt dirty.


I am lost on the gooch thing too.


It sounds like a weird dessert....Id like some steak, the potatoe and bring me some gooch with a side of vanilla ice cream....

 

[Maxell46]

Grug needs a "hootchie Goochie" momma
Lovechild is right................it is an extremely sensitive area and you can have THE most powerfull orgasms.
I know I do!!
As a man who is straight it did take me some convincing when an old GF first started to probe me .................but it felt so damn good I just lay back and moaned
That woman opened my eyes (..........and my thighs )to the pleasures of the nether region.
Unfortunately it has been years since I've had this done...............

Otherwise I know of no way to massage the prostate without actually getting up near it!

 

[James G 5]

I think by "gooch" he means his perenium...the little area of skin between his scrotum & his anus

Stimulation on the perenium can be fun (I love having mine licked & rubbed!) but it won't approximate or work in place of prostate stimulation
Get over it man, lots of people spend lots of time putting things up their butts, as long as you do it right you won't get hurt & it won't make you gay
Besides, if you feel it's always "exit only" you're missing out on giving a lady anal, whichb is a sensation not to be missed

 

[sanchopanza]

as far as i am aware there is no way of stimulating your prostate other than through insertion/penetration of some sort. the only way you could do it is if your body were missing several bones - physically impossible otherwise

 

[midwestyankee]

Simply rubbing the perineum usually results in some stimulation of the prostate. This is the area between your scrotal sac and your anus. It's quite a sensitive area for most men, and many women as well. Try it, you'll like it, as they say.

 

[ReadyOne]

Pressing on the perineum can put a bit of pressure on the prostate but it is nothing compared to getting something inside your rectum.

I suppose pressing there to a guy must be like rubbing tits through a bra, and sweatshirt is to a girl. You can tell something's rubbing but it ain't near the same as toucing skin.

 

[grungalunga]

thanks for the pointers. To address a comment, i dont think anal insertion is dirty, rather medicaly unhealthy. The anal area was designed to push things out your body - wouldnt inserting something such as a finger or dildo do some serious damage?

the most ive ever tried was a piece of ice. Felt really awesome. Just too scared to try anything more cause i dont want to damage anything.

But if it wont damage anything, how do i do it? I mean, how far up do i have to go?

 

[sanchopanza]

i'm told that you only need a finger in (correct me if i'm wrong) and so you insert the finger from the front and apply a stroking movement - like a "come here" finger movement, so you bend the finger towards you - your prostate is supposed to be walnut shaped and in the wall of your rectum so i'll let you work the rest out from there

 

[sanchopanza]

god damn double posts

 

[lovechild27]

thanks for the pointers. To address a comment, i dont think anal insertion is dirty, rather medicaly unhealthy. The anal area was designed to push things out your body - wouldnt inserting something such as a finger or dildo do some serious damage

ASk any of the people here who have had anal sex. Their asses, much like mine...are just fine. It is a very widely practiced form of intercourse and really...if it was very damaging then its highly doubtful many would practice it. Yes...you do want to be careful but a finger will not do you any harm if you want it and some lube is involved.

 

[Bobmi357]

But if it wont damage anything, how do i do it? I mean, how far up do i have to go?

Unless you're doing something silly like trying to see how many steak knives you can stuff up your butt or seeing if the neighbors minipoodle will fit, the odds of you creating any damage are low.

Lets use a little common sense here. Its an orifice, you've never had a four foot long turd have you? So figure items which run the length of your average hotdog are probably ok in length. Beyond that and you might want to take it slow and have a paramedic standing by until you get used to them.

AVOID ITEMS WITH SHARP EDGES. INCLUDING, BUT NOT LIMITED TO;

RAZOR BLADES
LIGHT ANTI-TANK MISSILES
TV REMOTES
ANIMALS WITH SHARP TEETH OR CLAWS.

Use only objects which do not have sharp edges....

A friends dick
Dildo's
A friend's Dildo
Your fingers
A friends fingers

AVOID USING SMALL ROUND OBJECTS AS THEY MAY BE HARD TO GET OUT. Including;

Hardboiled Eggs
Pool Balls
Golf Balls
Basketballs
Footballs
Someone's Head

 

[Shyjohn]

AVOID USING SMALL ROUND OBJECTS AS THEY MAY BE HARD TO GET OUT. Including;

Someone's Head

Brings a whole new meaning to "looking up old friends"

 

[James G 5]

thanks for the pointers. To address a comment, i dont think anal insertion is dirty, rather medicaly unhealthy. The anal area was designed to push things out your body - wouldnt inserting something such as a finger or dildo do some serious damage?

the most ive ever tried was a piece of ice. Felt really awesome. Just too scared to try anything more cause i dont want to damage anything.

But if it wont damage anything, how do i do it? I mean, how far up do i have to go?

Uhm, dude, HELLO?
What do you think proctologists do to check men's prostates?
They shove a finger or 2 up there and feel around *rolleyes*

I'm sorry, I shouldn't be rude, but you sound TERRIBLY naive
Before you talk about something being a medical issue you ought to look in to it a bit
Surely you're aware that a good number of people in the worl dregularly engage in anal sex?

 

[James G 5]

BTW, a perenium piercing is called a "guiche"
Maybe that's where "gooch" comes from?
I've always heard it called a "taint"

 

[lovechild27]

What do you think proctologists do to check men's prostates?

my thoughts exactly.

Its tough for me to belive that ANYONE old enough to be here is that sexually naieve. I know ten year olds who could of figured this one out...

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

grunga ya don't know what your missing eh

 

[midwestyankee]

Brings a whole new meaning to "looking up old friends"

Hysterical!

This is the funniest post I have read in days. Thanks.

 

[thegreenfairy]

I've never really heard of the perinium being called anything interesting at all - thanks for the new vocab. And yes, anal sex is fun and safe, but as everyone here will probably agree, use lube!

That ice cube sounds fun...

 

[I_Edwards]

I have a friend who calls his perineum his "bifkin".

Betcha never heard that before.

 

[thegreenfairy]

I have a friend who calls his perineum his "bifkin".

I hat to ask, but... why does he call it that?

 

[grungalunga]

Uhm, dude, HELLO?
What do you think proctologists do to check men's prostates?
They shove a finger or 2 up there and feel around *rolleyes*

I'm sorry, I shouldn't be rude, but you sound TERRIBLY naive
Before you talk about something being a medical issue you ought to look in to it a bit
Surely you're aware that a good number of people in the worl dregularly engage in anal sex?

Good point, but doctors have all that astral glide stuff they can use, the stuff so thick you cant get rid of it with a brilo pad and a bar of lava soap. At home, i dont hae access to anything like that - not even Vaseline. And to be frank, Im broke and dont feel like shelling out money for lube just so i can experience this "male g-spot orgasm". ill just stick wiht stop and go for now.

And to address the naive comment. Yeah im naive when it comes to the whole sex thing. I look at it from a health issue first - for instance when people mention blowjobs, all i can think about is the bacteria in a human mouth and how nervous id be to have that near my dick.

Just thought id try to defend myself here. Thanks again for everyones input.

 

[James G 5]

Good point, but doctors have all that astral glide stuff they can use, the stuff so thick you cant get rid of it with a brilo pad and a bar of lava soap. At home, i dont hae access to anything like that - not even Vaseline. And to be frank, Im broke and dont feel like shelling out money for lube just so i can experience this "male g-spot orgasm". ill just stick wiht stop and go for now.

And to address the naive comment. Yeah im naive when it comes to the whole sex thing. I look at it from a health issue first - for instance when people mention blowjobs, all i can think about is the bacteria in a human mouth and how nervous id be to have that near my dick.

Just thought id try to defend myself here. Thanks again for everyones input.

Unless you have cuts in your dick, it's a lot more liekly to pass the other way...man, get a few good books on basic sexuality, you're operating on hideous misinfo
And mebbe some good health texts as well