Prostate Massage

Thats’ awesome, can you post a pic or link to the device? I want to make sure I’m getting the right one (these things are expensive!!)

I looked in the Lit toy store but didn’t find it, so here’s a link I hope will work. https://evolvednovelties.com/raging-rabbit/

There are lots of similar products out there, with more features than you can imagine. This one has two vibrators each with 7 settings. No rotation or thrusting, I may try something along those lines eventually.
 
I looked in the Lit toy store but didn’t find it, so here’s a link I hope will work. https://evolvednovelties.com/raging-rabbit/

There are lots of similar products out there, with more features than you can imagine. This one has two vibrators each with 7 settings. No rotation or thrusting, I may try something along those lines eventually.

Awesome! Thanks so much….(I’ll let you know how things COME out!)
 
My take on Prostate Play

I am so jealous of all of you that get to cum like this.

my GF and I have tried many times to find the right spot in me, a few times early on it felt like I had to pee, and we stopped. Then read it can feel like that, but to make sure to visit the restroom before trying this, which I always have, but it's just never happened.

I'd thought about getting the Leo Hugo, and all of the reviews I've seen say 'It's incredible!' but those people are getting paid to say that. Any folks here using one? If so, what are your thoughts?

Ultimately, my goal is to cum entirely hands-free, that's seems like a nearly impossible thing so far tho.

I’ve tried everything I can think of….I’ve had two Aneros (neither did much), I”ve had butt plug, and sometimes I fuck myself with a regular batt-operated vib. All of it feels good, but I never cum anything differently as I’ve heard a lot of people do. I’ve even had jack-shack massages where the woman slides a finger up and massages, and don’t get me wrong, it feels great, just not the intense so-called ‘Big O’ that I’ve heard about….ah well…I’ll keep trying!

Jack Shack! Love it. AMP Rub-n-Tug.... Awesome.
As for the PM My first experience was in my teens. The doc said "on your side" and slid in checked around and then when back for a second check and Spat. That was that. Felt good, the nurse stifled a giggle. I think I said something along the lines of I am sorry. I am pretty sure I jerked off with the end of a toothbrush handle in there pretty soon after that.
Then in my 40's and addicted to the jack shack I bucked up for a tantra goddess. She taught me how to relax and she teased it. When she finally let me go it was one of the most powerful climaxes I ever had.
Another Goddess worked but nothing like the first experience.
Then a rub-n-tug visit where she was private in a condo I was on my third visit. She was nice , very easy to look at and was fully naked for the second massage. So I laid out but face up instead of face down. She played along and held my sac as we watched me reach full strength. She continued along with some lubrication. She took a short break fiddling on the table and when she came back spread my legs and began to massage my butt hole. Slick. From my previous experience I engaged with the relaxation techniques I learn on my journeys with tantra. I asked her to slow down and if she was going in I did not enjoy a fucking in out motion. She smiled gently cradled the head of my penis in one hand and that slippery finger she had all lubed up in a little finger condom slid in about two joints deep and she cooed as I spewed cum all over my chest.
If you have not enjoyed a pricey "goddess" that knows what she is doing, been milked or read about how important it is to relax every muscle in the body you won't understand when I say, she let me cum as long as she could. It has the effect of electric shock. She let off the prostate button when she thought she might not be able to revive me. I think she enjoyed it as she would not take the tip when I offered it.
The plug toys I must admit look interesting. I would like to find an attachment that is tender as a finger and skinny as a skinny finger that would fit over my hitachi magic wand. I have two sleeves I enjoy. One open end and one closed end. I get to be in complete control as I got the speed control on amazon. Wow the things I can do with that.
As for your girl friend give this a try.... Have her on her knees and shoulders like a tripod. Arch the back like she is trying to catch water dripping from the ceiling. Two fingers lubed take your time and find her G-Spot. Once you find it she will be letting you know you got it right. Move your fingers away and back so you know exactly where it is. At this point you can pretty much rough it up. But once she starts cumming don't let go but let up on the speed your were using. After this demonstration on the location process see if you can't make her one finger slippery enough to enjoy having in your butt for a little more exploration. And remember your orgasm. The sensation you have in the head of your penis is actually the nerves located in your prostate. That 'gently holding the head of my penis' I mentioned may be the trick in connecting the sensation that produces an instant release. Or if you are in the tripod position totally relaxed and she finds it she could drain you massaging it like a button on a soap dispenser. Also very nice as your kegals intermittently spasm in both directions. Oh nice that rhymed with erections.
 
I have BPN (enlarged prostate). It is caused by a man's body making smaller amounts of testosterone as he grows older. The enlarged prostate (which surrounds the urinary tract) causes problems in peeing if not controlled. I take finasteride (proscar) daily to control this
 
I'm no doctor but if I were, I would prescribe frequent ejaculation to keep the pipes active.

As the owner of what I assume is hard to describe pain or discomfort, would want to know if there was infection of some kind present. That is hard to cure.
 
The Lelo Hugo was delivered Saturday, and I don't mind saying that I was very interested in taking it for a test drive. The challenge for me was to hold off, I'd planned to go a week without cumming before using it, but I knew that would be very very difficult, so I compromised and waited a day.

I think now that I've used it, the mystery revealed, I can wait a week and try it again.

Okay, so yesterday I decided to go the distance. My GF was excited and hopeful this damned expensive toy would pay off, as was I. I got dolled up, and we played, edging me forever it seemed like. I'll admit that I was a bit disappointed in the size of the Hugo, and my understanding is that this model is the girthiest, it felt umm.. small.

I don't want to turn this review into an erotic tale, so I'll summarize and say that the first vibes this toy gives off are powerful, it kind of hits like a ton of bricks. There are multiple settings, the ones I enjoyed most of all pulsated, I believe there are three settings that act like this, with variations. The remote sucks, simple things such as just getting the battery cover back in place are a chore. The remote has some kind of sensor in it, so if you raise and lower the remote, the vibrations in the toy increase, or decrease.

That was fun when my GF had the remote, I could just lay back, do my kegels, and enjoy the feeling, not knowing what variation was coming next. The truth is, this thing does feel good, and it somehow feels wicked to have it inside. The base is a chrome played plastic oval, and if I'm being honest, it evokes some kind of almost-gigeresque visual, there is some strange, almost organic appendage inside your body, thrumming against your naughty-spot, but on the outside, it's chrome and blinking LED's


Laying back, legs spread, and just letting the Hugo do what it does felt nice, better than nice, and the battery life seemed fantastic, I know it was running without pause for an hour easily, but sadly no prostate orgasm happened. At some point, I think the vibrations must have dulled the nerve endings inside me, or maybe I just got used to what it was doing to me. The peak stimulation for me happened earlier on, with my GF using the remote.

Do I think it could happen with this toy?

Yes.

I think for me, if I abstain for an extended period, I'm going to set a goal for a week, and try again. I think it would be closer to happening, that's tough though, a week without cumming, *shivver* I'm going to try tho, the question I asked was 'Is it worth it, going a week with no playing?' and we decided that even if it doesn't provide the elusive p-gasm, we'll still have a weeks worth of built-up sexual energy that we can unleash together, so win-win I suppose.. A week tho!

What's bad about this toy?

It costs a lot. ($200 USD)

It's too small, maybe I'm a size-queen, but honestly, it fell out a few times, this is partially due to the poor design near the stem that has a very gradual change in diameter, as opposed to a butt-plug that stays put. I knew the Hugo was smaller than the toys I like to typically use, and I realized that there wouldn't be the same feeling of fullness that I otherwise experience with them. I just figured that the smaller size allowed the toy to concentrate the stimulation on a very targeted location in my anatomy, with the greatest chance for a successful prostate orgasm.

The remote is too weird, and it doesn't need to vibrate, (yes, the remote vibrates too) I don't understand this component at all, if your partner is using the remote while you lay back and enjoy it, it's not like she/he can use it on themselves easily while operating its controls. The sensor that allows an increase/decrease in the Hugo is interesting.

It's not so bad that I wish I had the money back, it feels like it's possible to get to the mountaintop with this toy, and it does allow for an incredible orgasm in conjunction with traditional penile stimulation. The best position was cowgirl, so I could stay put, and not worry about the Hugo ejecting, the GF gave it good marks on it's ability to provide stimulation through me to her, so that's a great bonus as well.

I'd have loved to update here and describe the reality-bending feelings of a hands-free orgasm that occurred again, and again and again, but I'm not there yet. I haven't given up, and will post again if the goal is achieved.


I enjoy the girth as well. I recommend the Aneros Progasm or Vice. I have made it over the top with both many times.
 
Who here loves a prostate massage?

I've had my wife put her finger in my ass while giving me a handjob or blowjob and it was great. She just doesn't really massage my prostate. Either she doesn't know about it, her finger is too short or doesn't want to.

When I had my prostate check by my primary doc a few months ago, it felt great when she touched it and felt around. She's pretty decent looking, younger than me and has long skinny fingers. It only lasted for a couple of seconds but I felt my cock filling up.

Yes. Especially with lube and exam gloves!
 
I have BPN (enlarged prostate). It is caused by a man's body making smaller amounts of testosterone as he grows older. The enlarged prostate (which surrounds the urinary tract) causes problems in peeing if not controlled. I take finasteride (proscar) daily to control this
It's called BPH - Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia. I have it too and I'm on two meds for it, Tamsulosin (Flomax) and Dutasteride (Avodart). :(
 
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