Prompting a session with a friend

[Kazuo2]

My friend (he's male, and I am too) recently came out as gay. I'd like to experiment with him, maybe be fuck buddies, but don't really know how to come onto him, considering he thinks I'm straight (I'd say I'm bi-curious)... anyone got any ideas how I could casually drop into the conversation that I'd like to do stuff with him?

 

[kalalau]

Get close, look him in the eyes, and ask if it would be OK to kiss him.

 

[emap]

Or you could get him alone with you, ask him if he has a boyfriend, if he does not ask if he would like to help you figure something out.

I mean good grief this is not rocket science or anything like that, you want to take your friend to bed, perhaps you could simply tell him so.

 

[blklthrjkt]

Go out for dinner and talk about it. Either way you both will hve had a nice meal and maybe you'll get lucky.

 

[Pan T]

all suggestions above are good. just let us know how it goes.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[da_bombdiggidy]

When you stand back, isn't it cute???

This is like a episode of Friends. "Joey likes Rachel but doesn't want to hurt there relationship...." Honestly, this is no difference if the person you were interested in was the opposite sex. There is a lot of risk, messing with friends. If he said no, would you still want to be friends? And would you be worried if he told others that you approached him? Also, just because your friends doesn't mean he might be attracted to you sexually. I have tons of friends I wouldn't even want to see in a bathing suit, let alone naked. However, being a guy myself, we do some pretty weird things just to have sex, so who knows.

I think all of us want this to work for you but before you cross the line of friendship be sure your willing to accept the outcome.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[hollyu]

I'll tell you my experience: a friend in college once came out and told me he was gay. I'm straight but I've played a little with other guys and I don't mind sucking some cock and getting sucked...
so I asked him if he had had some experience with some guys and then told him about mine and we decided to have some fun together. No kissing, I don't feel up to it with males.

Later that day I went to his room and gave him a blow job, he reciprocated. We repeated this several times and I fucked him a couple of times. We've done this for a few years before we moved for work. We just saw it strictly as fun, no romance and he had a few bf in the meantime and me some gfs.

(I don't regret it in the least, in fact I miss his cock in my mouth)

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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[Bill3250]

My friend (he's male, and I am too) recently came out as gay. I'd like to experiment with him, maybe be fuck buddies, but don't really know how to come onto him, considering he thinks I'm straight (I'd say I'm bi-curious)... anyone got any ideas how I could casually drop into the conversation that I'd like to do stuff with him?

When manage to be alone with your pal, simply tell him you are curious and ask him if he would be willing to help you discover your "true" self. It could lead to a truer, deeper friendship.

 

[Htchkr]

Hey

Yeah, invite him over for a beer a whatever your preferred method of moderate intoxication. After some casual conversation tell him you've been trying to think of something to shock someone you know and you need his help. When he says sure, reach over and undo his pants and suck him off.
Yeah,, I know its a tad brazen but it gets to the point.

later

 

[littlesquirt]

I mean good grief this is not rocket science or anything like that, you want to take your friend to bed, perhaps you could simply tell him so.

I've tried this with my "girlfriends" (I'm male) and gotten turned down every time.

 

[none2_none2]

I guess I'll never understand non-committed m2m sex with friends -- especially if you are very good friends. Sure when you are gay and wanting a relationship, you better hope that you like each other outside of sex.

However, when you are just wanting casual m2m, I would think you would not want to jeopardize your friendship. What if the guy isn't really non-str8, and you have just come on to him? If he is interested, what if the guy turns out not to be your type once he takes it all off? What if he is bad at sex? What if he wants it more often, less often than you are interested? What if he wants to go farther sexually than you are interested? That is hard to know what to do if you really want to keep the guy's friendship even if the sex just is not what you originally hoped it would be.

That is why when I was single and desired sex, I would go out and find the kind of guy that turned me on and wanted to do what I wanted to do. If we were compatible sexually, then maybe at some level a friendship would evolve (secondary to the sex) as that would be the primary reason to see such guys.

In all honesty, I tended to choose very kind & interesting people for friendships. However, I always leaned towards guys that I wouldn't be attractive in my mind. I think that is partially because I never wanted them to find out about me not being straight, and because I didn't want them to ever think our friendship based on me hoping to get into their pants.

 

[hollyu]

Hollyu, would you be my friend? ;-) Oh, and could you show me some of your porn?

My porn is 98% straight stuff, I am under the impression that you don't believe my account of how things went. Frankly, I don't care about your believing me, what I said is not a story but what really happened.
Really, I'm not about starting a flame and I hope I misunderstood your meaning.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

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