Prolonging the pleasure

[Guest]

Newbie here..................gonna register shortly but chicken little here...........lol.

Read a bit of posts but didn't see this topic.

Men - how do you prolong your/her pleasure by not cumming sooner than you want..............I'm not talking premature ejaculation, but just keeping it going longer. Thoughts - doing kegel exercises (minimal payback), thinking of non-sexual things (football/baseball - minimal payback), start/stop (minimal payback) - what do the porn stars do/use? Besides natural ability..........lol. Is there a topical cream/pill to try?

Ideas wanted!

 

[Boxstar]

i usually just get drunk. That seems to always work well. But not too drunk, cause then whiskey dick sets in, and thats the worst.

 

[MissTaken]

Hmmm I have rather enjoyed a good case of whiskey dick from time to time.

Yes, I believe there are creams on the market to help maintain an erection.

 

[coolr]

this will probably be the 1st really serious comment on this one, but yeah kegel exercises for men help, but you have to do them daily for like 2 months b4 seing any results, 2nd, holding your breath/breathing in deeply and holding it as you feel the cum rising can help (don't pass out though) and porn stars dont' really have all that great of stamina, just look at the majority of the movies, they all cum w/in 15 minutes, i don't know about other guys, but i can sure as hell last alot longer than that, and i don't really know about the whole staying hard thing, i don't know if it's normal or not, but i don't even start going limp until the 3rd or 4th time that i cum, so i would expect that that happens for other guys, although this is a fairly long post and u might be gettinb bored by now, you mentioned starting and stopping, but instead of just completely stopping, if a guy can start to feel it building, he can just slow down his pace ALOT but not completely stopping, keeping the pleasure going for both, until he feels the urge to come go away, then can start back up, i've lasted close to 1/2 an hour more doing this, it works great if you slow down early enough.

 

[Romanticstone]

More...on the serious side

The kegels, breathing, and generally controlling how much stimulation YOU are getting are ALL important. Best to practice these techniques while masturbating if you ever wish to master them.
Also, if you feel it approaching, and don't think the afformantioned manouvers are going to cut it, stop what you are doing (you may remain inside the vagina if this is the 'act' you are in), and firmly grip or press with your fingertips at the very base of your cock beneath your scrotum. Holding firm pressure there for a few seconds can usually stem the flow (similar to the kegel effect) but once again, you should practice this.

*note to the gals here - you can also do this FOR your man to lengthen oral play...and intensify the FINAL out-cum.

As for maintaining an erection for extended periods of time (30 min+) - while this IS possible
it may not be practical, and is by no means necessary. Give the little guy a break if he's tired -go downstairs, have a snack (if you catch my drift) or find other ways to continue the fun.

 

[coolr]

(the original post was a woman i believe)

 

[Guest]

Nope, it was a guy...........me.

40 years old, sex drive of a 25 year old, can reload within 30 minutes a couple of times. Good shape, run 4X a week, lift weights, etc. Just wondering how to prolong the act before orgasm, not trying to stay hard.............screwing is fun but wish I could last longer. That's all.............

 

[coolr]

well then feel free to try out the above things lol

 

[Guest]

Really??

You can reload within 30 minutes and you're 40? *heavenly sigh* Come hither and teach that to my husband.

 

[Guest]

Re: Really??...........yes, really

You can reload within 30 minutes and you're 40? *heavenly sigh* Come hither and teach that to my husband.

Really. That's what all the running, weight training, eating right and overall taking care of myself has allowed me to do.

Now if only my wife would take advantage of this youth..............