Problems with too many men coming onto me

[SoaringAdonis]

Hey, its not really a serious problem, but it makes me feel awkward...random guys will come up to me and hit on me and im not gay. Just happened the other day I was walking down the street and a bunch of college guys came up to me and were asking me if I had a boyfriend, and told me i was cute. It's embarrassing, a little bit flattering and I don't really know how to respond. Is their a polite way to respond by not ignoring them/turning away? Oh sorry I'm not gay?

 

[blklthrjkt]

I suspect there are a lot of us who wish we had that problem. Take it as a compliment, it probably means you take care of yourself and how you look. People notice that, gay or straight.

 

[Etoile]

You hit the nail on the head. Smile politely and say "That's very kind of you, but I'm not gay." You're acknowledging the compliment while directly discouraging them at the same time.

 

[buttpluglover]

Hey, its not really a serious problem, but it makes me feel awkward...random guys will come up to me and hit on me and im not gay. Just happened the other day I was walking down the street and a bunch of college guys came up to me and were asking me if I had a boyfriend, and told me i was cute. It's embarrassing, a little bit flattering and I don't really know how to respond. Is their a polite way to respond by not ignoring them/turning away? Oh sorry I'm not gay?

I think the key word in there was "college". There's no end to how empowered college-age kids suddenly feel once they're out from under their parents' thumbs and inside a supportive, permissive community.

They weren't hitting on you; they were trying to make you feel uncomfortable and embarassed, or provoke you into an anti-gay reaction. Either way, it's passive-aggressive bullying. Ignore them; they're idiots.

BPL

 

[SoaringAdonis]

You don't know what your talking about. I live in ann arbor, its the gayest town in the country outside of san francisco. There are alot of gay guys around here its treated as normal. They weren't looking for trouble, just trying to flirt.

 

[alaskabibear]

You don't know what your talking about. I live in ann arbor, its the gayest town in the country outside of san francisco. There are alot of gay guys around here its treated as normal. They weren't looking for trouble, just trying to flirt.

I'll send you some pics of myself. Whatever I'm doing it works real good to eliminate this type of unwanted attention.

 

[SoaringAdonis]

no thanks.

 

[Etoile]

You don't know what your talking about. I live in ann arbor, its the gayest town in the country outside of san francisco. There are alot of gay guys around here its treated as normal. They weren't looking for trouble, just trying to flirt.

Wow, you have both confused and offended me to the point where I'm not even going to pay attention anymore. Nice going, that's not easy!

 

[Bill3250]

Hey, its not really a serious problem, but it makes me feel awkward...random guys will come up to me and hit on me and im not gay. Just happened the other day I was walking down the street and a bunch of college guys came up to me and were asking me if I had a boyfriend, and told me i was cute. It's embarrassing, a little bit flattering and I don't really know how to respond. Is their a polite way to respond by not ignoring them/turning away? Oh sorry I'm not gay?

Why is your thread on GLBT Chatter?

 

[Etoile]

Why is your thread on GLBT Chatter?

Well, this is where it belongs, why wouldn't it be here?

 

[Bill3250]

Well, this is where it belongs, why wouldn't it be here?

Why would someone so straight post on a gay/bi site?

 

[emap]

Well this is not exactly a gay/bi site, it's an erotic story site with forums.

Take a look at the other threads soaringadonis has started, according to what he has said in the GB he has rather an impossible sized penis. He goes on to say that he rather likes the attention he gets from men and women in there, women more than men of course.

I say rather an impossible size penis because he says it is I beleive it was 8 inches long and 12 inches around, which would make it thicker than my ankle, also rather similar in size to a 6-7 lb babies head. I do rather like big dicks, but good greif somebody pulled that out and was intent on putting it in me I would turn right around and run like hell.

 

[SoaringAdonis]

Well this is not exactly a gay/bi site, it's an erotic story site with forums.

Take a look at the other threads soaringadonis has started, according to what he has said in the GB he has rather an impossible sized penis. He goes on to say that he rather likes the attention he gets from men and women in there, women more than men of course.

I say rather an impossible size penis because he says it is I beleive it was 8 inches long and 12 inches around, which would make it thicker than my ankle, also rather similar in size to a 6-7 lb babies head. I do rather like big dicks, but good greif somebody pulled that out and was intent on putting it in me I would turn right around and run like hell.

Its not impossible. Look it up. The circumference of my thigh muscles are almost four feet. Why is a penis with a 12 inch circumference so unlikely? Its an anatomical reality for me, and it is medically recognized as a possible penis size.

 

[SuperCanuck]

Are you being serious? I wear size 12" shoes. I also happen to have a tape measure on my desk that I just pulled out to 12 inches in length, and made a somewhat circular form. That is much bigger than my wrist. I'm 6'3 and 235, so my wrists aren't exactly small.

 

[Etoile]

Why would someone so straight post on a gay/bi site?

Because this board is open to all kinds of people. It's for GLBT discussion, not only GLBT people.

Soaring, you've been given answers: tell them "no thanks" and move on. Nobody wants to hear about your schlong, take your narcissism back to the GB.

 

[snickers16]

Me Too

Hey
I get it too,but at 55 I Thank them Women and Men.Love to hear it
Then when i was in college in the 60s,and now happy to hear it I still take
Care of myself.and dress well

 

[emap]

Snickers careful there your giving yourself a swelled head.

Soaring I did not mean it was impossible to have one that big, just impossible to put it in most women, cause we wouldn't let you try. I mean good greif yes we have babies that are at least that big, does not mean most of us want to have something that big going in and out of us. A cock that big is in need of a masochist woman, or a pornstar I suppose.

 

[alaskabibear]

Because this board is open to all kinds of people. It's for GLBT discussion, not only GLBT people.

Soaring, you've been given answers: tell them "no thanks" and move on. Nobody wants to hear about your schlong, take your narcissism back to the GB.

Etoile,

Remember the other day you were educating me about trolls? Well I'm wondering, do trolls have "schlongs" as big as 12 inches around? I mean would something as inhuman as that be an indicator that perhaps I've carelessly stumbled upon one? Dayum! I've never seen one but I don't think I'm going to like trolls.

 

[emap]

alaskabibear that was hilarious.

Though I am pretty sure soaring isn't exactly a troll, more of well no offense but a stuck up guy who is infatuated with his own body.

Rather to early to tell if soaring is a troll or simply a little fixated on certain things but otherwise nice enough.

 

[SoaringAdonis]

Well, this is where it belongs, why wouldn't it be here?

I thought you weren't going to pay any attention anymore? I was just explaining the local culture, not mocking subversively!

 

[SoaringAdonis]

Hey
I get it too,but at 55 I Thank them Women and Men.Love to hear it
Then when i was in college in the 60s,and now happy to hear it I still take
Care of myself.and dress well

Thats cool...it is always flattering.

 

[SoaringAdonis]

alaskabibear that was hilarious.

Though I am pretty sure soaring isn't exactly a troll, more of well no offense but a stuck up guy who is infatuated with his own body.

Rather to early to tell if soaring is a troll or simply a little fixated on certain things but otherwise nice enough.

Why do you think I am stuck up? I actually came here asking for advice, and instead was bombarded with requests for pictures. Made me feel like mini-celebrity.

 

[emap]

Cause you are fixated on how big your cock is and how often you get hit on.

Note: That is of course a generalization I don't follow you around so no clue what you talk about in other threads. However what I have seen of your comments it's all about you and how tall you are, how big your cock is and that guys come on to you. I suppose your name fits, adonis was fixated on himself to the point of death. I think anyway, been a while since I have delved into greek myths.

 

[Etoile]

Why do you think I am stuck up? I actually came here asking for advice, and instead was bombarded with requests for pictures. Made me feel like mini-celebrity.

Oh wait, you're pulling satirical shit. You're not actually stuck up, you're pretending to be stuck up. Because it makes you laugh or feel big or whatever. Gotcha.

 

[Master Control]

I'll send you some pics of myself. Whatever I'm doing it works real good to eliminate this type of unwanted attention.

any pics?