Problematically high libido support thread

tickledkitty said:
Maybe it's more people of like mind recognizing each other? Is that silly?
not "silly" at all.
There might be that pheromones thing...there is the protracted gaze thing... the smoldering look thing? the body language...?
 
THROBBS said:
not "silly" at all.
There might be that pheromones thing...there is the protracted gaze thing... the smoldering look thing? the body language...?

It's like a delicious little secret. I think it's mostly in the eyes.
 
tickledkitty said:
I think age is a factor for a lot of women. I think I was kind of average in my 20s and 30s, but then I hit 40, and :eek:. Huge difference. I'm much more sexual now.
OMG - you mean it will get worse?

Oh dear - that will be a problem in a year or so....
 
tickledkitty said:
Maybe it's more people of like mind recognizing each other? Is that silly?

I don't know. The grin of a man who has seen it, it is unmistakable.

Once a woman saw it too. I was going to the kinky store, and it was closed. She was coming back from it, her needs apparently meeting the same closed door. When my gaze met hers it was full of shame, but hers held only knowledge. Anyway, she was in thigh-high boots and a corset...and she was cool.

I always found the biblical word, to "know" to be right in so many ways.

Maharat
 
babygrrl_702 said:
OMG - you mean it will get worse?

Oh dear - that will be a problem in a year or so....

Dear, some of the horniest and sexiest women i know are in their early sixties.

As for me, well the libido works fine but with age, equipment problems become a factor. The older I get the more of a lesbian I become. That is truer than most would believe.

Women in their forties have the kids finished and most get fixed so that alleviates that problem. The pill and all that are a thing of the past so again the libido jumps. Then there are all those younger guys to drool over. Sounds like a win win situation to me, ladies. Just don't forget us older lesbian guys.
 
I do wonder about the age thing. It seems to come in waves. I noticed a peak at 29 and then the peak at 34 was higher than that and hasn't seemed to stop at 37. In fact, it seems to keep getting higher. Crap, I'm going to need to get some rock climbing gear soon.
 
GentleSub_Ivy said:
I do wonder about the age thing. It seems to come in waves. I noticed a peak at 29 and then the peak at 34 was higher than that and hasn't seemed to stop at 37. In fact, it seems to keep getting higher. Crap, I'm going to need to get some rock climbing gear soon.


heehee I briefly read "cock climbing gear"
 
GentleSub_Ivy said:
I do wonder about the age thing. It seems to come in waves. I noticed a peak at 29 and then the peak at 34 was higher than that and hasn't seemed to stop at 37. In fact, it seems to keep getting higher. Crap, I'm going to need to get some rock climbing gear soon.
Ohhhh - every day I love you more - I need a partner!!!

Highly reccomend it, but not as a libido buster. You get all pumped up and...

Incidentally - it's also an incredible body shaping/muscle building excercize.
I have developed some beautiful muscles in my arms that I've never had before. The chickenflaps are gone.

Now - if I could just get some off the bowling ball I'm carrying....
 
babygrrl_702 said:
Ohhhh - every day I love you more - I need a partner!!!

Highly reccomend it, but not as a libido buster. You get all pumped up and...

Incidentally - it's also an incredible body shaping/muscle building excercize.
I have developed some beautiful muscles in my arms that I've never had before. The chickenflaps are gone.

Now - if I could just get some off the bowling ball I'm carrying....

<weird rockclimbing hijack on>

I seriously want to do this. There is a studio close to me. I would have to start there and then move to real rocks. My biggest issue is weight (stupid I know; I'm around 215; I feel like I would be the biggest person at the studio).

</weird rockclimbing hijack off>
 
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maharat48 said:
I always found the biblical word, to "know" to be right in so many ways.

Ooohhh, yeah. I like this too. There is some good stuff in this thread. :)

This is one of the things I love about Lit. You can't generally discuss this stuff with regular RL people.
 
maharat48 said:
Ah yes, desire is in the mind...but so is release.

Maharat

I find that release is not just in the mind.

Some is in the hand...
and two are in the bush???
 
THROBBS said:
I find that release is not just in the mind.

Some is in the hand...
and two are in the bush???

yup, but women can come from fantasies alone. If it is a good one, we can do it on a check-out line, and (most) people are none the wiser...

Maharat
 
maharat48 said:
yup, but women can come from fantasies alone. If it is a good one, we can do it on a check-out line, and (most) people are none the wiser...

Maharat

So can I.
not as intense or wet... requires a bit of flexing<(the part not just in the mind)... a non-erection, non-ejactulation orgasm.
 
tickledkitty said:
I think age is a factor for a lot of women. I think I was kind of average in my 20s and 30s, but then I hit 40, and :eek:. Huge difference. I'm much more sexual now.

Is that what has happened to me? I turned 40 a few months go, and yowza!!!!! :devil: :devil: :devil:
 
There are things in life that can kill the libido for a while. Too much work for example. Maybe this explains the waves that seems to go with it?
 
THROBBS said:
So can I.
not as intense or wet... requires a bit of flexing<(the part not just in the mind)... a non-erection, non-ejactulation orgasm.

uh, on the check-out line?

We should rename this the secret lives of men thread...

Maharat
 
maharat48 said:
uh, on the check-out line?

We should rename this the secret lives of men thread...

Maharat
YEah - more secrets, please!
 
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