Pro Domme questions

[KinkyGAGuy]

The other day, my girlfriend and I were discussing some fantasies that we share. She and I have enjoyed strap on play for some time now. She has stated that she would like to watch another women dominate me, and fuck me with a strap on.

So in this conversation, she also stated that she wanted to see this woman and I have sex as well, and she wants to have sex with her as well.

So she threw out the Pro. Domme idea. I told her that I didn't think that sessions with Pro Domme included having sex with her. Have any of you ever visited a Pro and was sex an option?

Thanks

 

[Scentofawoman]

The other day, my girlfriend and I were discussing some fantasies that we share. She and I have enjoyed strap on play for some time now. She has stated that she would like to watch another women dominate me, and fuck me with a strap on.

So in this conversation, she also stated that she wanted to see this woman and I have sex as well, and she wants to have sex with her as well.

So she threw out the Pro. Domme idea. I told her that I didn't think that sessions with Pro Domme included having sex with her. Have any of you ever visited a Pro and was sex an option?

Thanks

I'm sure it depends on reputation and how much you pay.

 

[pensivepoet]

The dealio is, being a pro Domme is totally legal, totally legit.
Until sex is involved~then it becomes prostitution.
So a pro would be very careful about crossing that line unless She had seen you a few times and knew you could be trusted.
Most pros just wont cross that line.

 

[Netzach]

"Fetish Escort" is your search phrase for this, versus "prodomme" which tends not to be full service.

Just because someone does this kind of thing doesn't mean she sucks at the domme part, but it doesn't mean she's good at it either. Check reviews if they're out there. And gird yourself for bail and court just in case, after the Rentboy busts looks like the USA is in fullblown stupid when it comes to sexual reality.

 

[Samuelx]

You and your lady should join Fetlife.com

 

[Shankara20]

So she threw out the Pro. Domme idea. I told her that I didn't think that sessions with Pro Domme included having sex with her. Have any of you ever visited a Pro and was sex an option?

Thanks

I saw several ProDommes over about a 5 year timeline in the Bay Area of Northern Calif. I was often allowed to self-stimulate to orgasm, but never did Ma'am do it for me. I never saw or touched or make any contact with their breasts or genitals, even had to hold my eyes closed while receiving a Golden Shower from Ma'am. My body and all its parts were available to Ma'am, I have been fisted, and a long list of CBT play is included in my "done that" list

And a good time was had by all...

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

Thank you all for the advice

 

[tishadomina]

Fetlife is good for finding out who has a good reputation and who does not in the pro-domme/fetish hooker stakes, but it is not designed for hook-ups at all. It is essentially Facebook for kinksters. Do hook-ups happen on the site? Sure, don't doubt it. But that is not the core design, function or purpose of the site. You also can't search by sex, gender, area, age etc, to reinforce the aforementioned.

Looking up local fetish-friendly escorts or hookers will be your easiest bet if you want sex to be involved. Pro-dommes won't risk their reputation and livelihoods by having sex with a client.