Preparing for anal

[GotMeStunned]

So first I would like to say hi since I am new to the site.

Now to business in hand .

I have been going out with my girlfriend for around 6 months now. She is what I would call an adventurist when it comes to sex, as she has no problems trying new things and getting me to try new things with her.

We have already tried many positions, techniques and have also used things like handcuffs, restraints and sex toys on her. Now she feels she is ready to try anal.

We already have condoms and water based lubricant. We have also ordered anal beads in hope that they will warm her up, so to speak.

Now we are left with the following two questions:

1) Is there a routine? Should she miss a meal or not eat for a certain amount of time before hand?

2) Should we use an enema or anal douche before we start to clean out anything in there? We have also heard that if you use these too much you can end up becoming physically dependant on them in order to go to the toilet.

Does anyone have any experience or advise?

 

[BertrandRussell]

Water-based lubricants are probably not good enough. Get a silicon-based.

 

[shortstuff02]

I have actually found a water based lube that I love for anal and lasts without any trouble. It is called Climax Bursts Anal Lubricant. I started small fingers, then toys and slowly working up. The toys were slim vibes and such. If she handles those with ease move up. Every woman is different. I have had friends that can go straight to her man entering her and doesn't need to work up. I on the other hand need to be worked up in order to.

Just take your time and listen to her. The better you all communicate the better. Also remember lube is a huge part.

 

[Georgesowner1]

in order to become dependent on enemas to be able to have bm would mean you are using them every single day for an extended period of time.

as far as getting ready make sure she is very excited and turned on. I would recommend inserting a very well lubed finger while performing oral sex, as she is getting close to orgasm. Once she is used to one finger add a second well lubed finger. You may want to start this a few days or a week before you want to have anal sex. Let her get used to having something in her ass.

If you all want to extend the prep period get a couple of butt plugs.

Personally I find the fingers for stretching to be the best in our situation.

 

[neci]

massage her asshole before you stick it in.

please.

for her sake.

one. two fingers.

get her moaning, then take it slowly.

 

[jet_nebula]

So first I would like to say hi since I am new to the site.

Now to business in hand .

I have been going out with my girlfriend for around 6 months now. She is what I would call an adventurist when it comes to sex, as she has no problems trying new things and getting me to try new things with her.

We have already tried many positions, techniques and have also used things like handcuffs, restraints and sex toys on her. Now she feels she is ready to try anal.

We already have condoms and water based lubricant. We have also ordered anal beads in hope that they will warm her up, so to speak.

Now we are left with the following two questions:

1) Is there a routine? Should she miss a meal or not eat for a certain amount of time before hand?

2) Should we use an enema or anal douche before we start to clean out anything in there? We have also heard that if you use these too much you can end up becoming physically dependant on them in order to go to the toilet.

Does anyone have any experience or advise?

A massage with your fingers and some Astroglide on her and you.
Insert cock
Slowly thrust cock in and out of her hole. (Rub her clit for added sensation)
Climax (Fielder's choice)

Note: She must be relaxed and you must be generous with the lubricant.